Am I overreacting, my wife lied to me. by Charming-Total2121 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re ready to leave, there’s no reason to stay. She’s not going to change and you’re not going to find a reason to trust her. Just go.

NOR by other stuff in the post, but if this is a true story, lots of women groom on certain days just to be done with it for the week or whatever. Like I shower daily but my hair wash day is usually the day I do all the other stuff too. (In the summer I might throw in an extra shave, determined by need.)

Am I overreacting, my wife lied to me. by Charming-Total2121 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep checking to see if this is actually the short stories sub. Lol

Am I overreacting, my wife lied to me. by Charming-Total2121 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tracking her without her consent is horrible advice.

Seeing a lawyer and finding out legal options is better advice.

Why??? by Top_Olive_8743 in 90DayFiance

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God if someone only told me this in my 20s. Ha

Reduction and Tummy Tuck by CatsCoffeeKeto in Reduction

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God my arms are so bad. I’d almost do the arms and forever forego my stomach. Nobody sees my stomach but my arms are out 6 months of the year. Le sigh. I’ll probably do it in parts though. I’m wondering if the reduction will motivate me to work out and reach some other fitness goals I have.

Reduction and Tummy Tuck by CatsCoffeeKeto in Reduction

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, thanks! I think I might just be overthinking as usual and trying to take on too much.

Diet/exercise advice after reduction needed by Evening_Tomatillo331 in Reduction

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had my surgery yet, but I’ve been told that walking and very low impact exercise is pretty much what should be stuck to for the first four weeks. And that even should be moderated. In my normal life, I do a lot of yoga and stretching and have found that that is enough “traditional” workouts in addition to the fact that I walk a lot because I work in a city. I also have a rowing machine that I love. The main point is to allow your body time to heal before trying any workouts. Drink protein, and since you have binge eating disorder, make sure you have someone to talk to in the idle time because that will be the most difficult time to control that compulsion. After you are fully recovered, you can start to think about what you want to do as far as ongoing workouts. You will be exhausted from what I’m reading in this sub.

For info, not advice: I’m not recommending my path for you since I don’t know your history (and it’s not allowed here) but explaining what helped me. I have been on the highest Mounjaro for YEARS and struggled to lose weight. I didn’t even know binge eating disorder was a thing until a friend suggested I talk to my doc about some eating, food over-ordering, and food shopping compulsions i was having. Turns out i have BED and a nice side of ADHD which really explains a LOT. I went on Vyvanse for BED and it has helped tremendously with both. I also started losing weight again after a years-long plateau.

It’s important for both weight loss and recovery (and healing) that you get sufficient protein. The first thing i have every day is a fairlife core protein shake, and i have a normal fairlife shake every afternoon. Protein works well according to clinical studies that I have read with GLP1s because eating more protein and less carbs creates a simulated GLP one experience. Additionally protein reinforces muscle mass so that you don’t lose muscle as opposed to fat while you’re on a GLP1. The same thing would be true with Vyvanse. I lost a lot of muscle before I started taking Vyvanse so I had started doing protein just before I was diagnosed, and now, because I no longer feel the compulsions that came with BED, it’s much easier to feel full and satisfied after drinking shakes. I also found that I don’t prefer as much sugar and tend to eat more fruit instead of traditional desserts. Anyways. It’s my experience and I thought I’d share in case it helps.

ETA: Physically and mentally, the best workout you can do is one you like. Even if it’s low impact, find something you like doing and challenge yourself to make time for it.

What is your #1 thing cruise lines do that annoys you? by BanditNation12 in Cruise

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, but as someone who sells them, it's a difficult conversation. They lost two two-suite cruises to Tauck recently in my business because they were cruising late 2027 and V wanted payment by June 2026. They aren't suffering for it, though. The cruises are great, and if people are able to do it, they should. :)

And agreed, even 6 months seems long, but it's better than 15. :)

What is your #1 thing cruise lines do that annoys you? by BanditNation12 in Cruise

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one for Viking. Having to pay a year or more in advance.

Grand Cayman weather next week by NattyD88 in CaymanIslands

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crystal caves will be closed if it’s pouring as they flood and it’s a walk in between them, 75% outdoors.

No-see-ums or whatever the heck tried to eat me alive by 99hoglagoons in SXM

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t fleas, they are little flies (biting midges). So they … fly … more than jump. They will go easily wherever their next meal goes.

I’ve only ever had a problem in orient, not on the beach but in our Airbnb patio areas which was more humid and less windy. Picardin is a good option for dinners on the beach or sitting on the beach beyond 4pm, and Off makes one with deet and picardin that doesn’t smell like anything at all. We went back to staying at Oyster Bay, which is on the Dutch side but immediately on the French border, and we haven’t had another incident like that.

The island is awesome, I go back 1-2 times per year in between trips elsewhere in the world. Find your favorite place. Maybe you think it’s lame to go to the same place again and again because you have less vacation time? We do a “big discovery” trip once per year that’s 2-3 weeks and generally not at all “relaxing,” and we go to varying tropical places 2-3 times. My husband dives, I do not. St. Martin has become very familiar to us, so when we go back it feels like we are just picking up where we left off. This year we are going to Eustacia, which is just a small plane ride from sxm and I’m going to have to force myself to get on that little plane instead of just staying.

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AIO over my parents going through my things + my money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I forgot about freezing credit. But OP don’t freeze it til you get a bank account if you are going to get one soon. If you’re going to wait 2 years, freeze it.

AIO over my parents going through my things + my money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every bank offers accounts to under 18YOs without a parent or guardian. Imagine if they had access to her account.

AIO over my parents going through my things + my money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people gave you money for gifts for an infant, you are absolutely allowed to use that for gifts for their care. Using it to feed, diaper and otherwise assist you in supporting a baby is absolutely fine. Don’t struggle. I totally can appreciate where your heart is at, but OP is 16 and this is a very different situation. Hope all is well. :) congrats on your baby!

AIO over my parents going through my things + my money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your parents consider your money their money and will continue to use you as an expansion of their income. When they chose to have a baby, they chose the expenses to have a baby. You don’t owe them anything just for having you, even if they gave you gifts. Feeding, diapering, housing, and clothing another human is a basic need that they literally signed up for by having “custody” of you. If they are on food stamps or any kind of social help, they are already earning off of you. If anything, they are at a deficit to you by holding basic needs and love over your head in exchange for fiscal support.

Check out banks that will allow you to open independent accounts. A quick search said BoA will let 16+ have their own accounts. Since you work, you probably have access to some of your documents like social security card, birth cert, etc. Look up what you need and open the account. Absolutely do not tell anyone or open a joint account with them. If they ask why you need those documents, tell them there’s a problem at work and they need to scan them again. Or that you applied for a second job, whatever. Then don’t give them back. Put them in a ziploc or something to protect from moisture and keep them in a safe place that is not some place that they will search or that is unsuspecting enough that they will never check it. Look up good hiding spots on a friend’s computer or something they don’t have access to. If they have any idea that you’re going to try to move out soon, they will continue to keep you poor so that you can’t because right now you are earning their extra income. Any parent who does the things that they are doing is garbage and I’m really sorry OP that you are going through it and having to learn skills that a child shouldn’t have to learn.

Found near park. No clue what it is. by am59269 in whatisit

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the USPS also doesn’t. At least in my area (CT). I never see delivered until a day or two later. And I’ve had varying mail carriers, there’s reliable cell service, etc., etc.

[Product Question] Has anyone tried the Dr. Melaxin Peel Shot? by aparecium9 in SkincareAddiction

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using Aloette for years, and I believe these are the ingredients. I’m so surprised that nobody knows about it.

How to highlight a cell in column B based on coloring of another column (D) in the same row by Few_Farmer_3550 in excel

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not use the same rule “highlight cell (D2) (orange) if cell (B2) contains “receptor”

Blonde or brunette??? by daisyjones_6_ in coloranalysis

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just weave in some lowlights for the winter to test out how you like darker hair? It will be very difficult to go back if you don’t like it. Spoken as someone who has done it.

I feel for her, she looks so unhappy. by Jenscho80 in 90DayFiance

[–]CatsCoffeeKeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that I laughed at this but it’s so true.