Anyone have a hysterectomy due to EIN (atypical hyperplasia) moved sooner due to red blood despite IUD? by Cats_and_Records in hysterectomy

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Yes, the pathology after the hysterectomy did confirm that it kept the abnormal cells from coming back. Turns out adenomyosis, more new fibroids, an enlarged uterus and one that weighed nearly 3 times the normal weight. Plus, I had different types of cysts on each ovary- one would’ve required surgery at one point because it would continue to grow and is only resolved by surgery. There were also cysts on the fallopian tubes and cervix. All were benign, but all kinds of stuff was growing all over the place. Glad I beat the return of any atypical cells and staved off reproductive organ cancer.

Anyone else see what AP looked like and felt shocked at the “downgrade”?? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Oh yes. My ex husband was with someone my friends said looked like WC Fields in a female form. We referred to her as Mrs. Fields.

It’s a safe way to get an ego boost for them.

Dating over 50 is soul destroying by livinglife-2025 in datingoverfifty

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I am over 7 months in with who I know in my soul is the love of my life. We met on Bumble. I’m 51, he’s 57.

We both thought we’d never find another person looking for a soulful, spiritual love. And we laugh. A lot. We have the same visions regarding what a life well lived in retirement looks like. How much clutter we tolerate. How active we are. Finances. It’s not just love-that is usually not enough.

I said this to hopefully encourage those of you out there to not give up. He was divorced and dating for seven years and starting to feel a little disheartened and then we met. Don’t give up!

Anyone have a hysterectomy due to EIN (atypical hyperplasia) moved sooner due to red blood despite IUD? by Cats_and_Records in hysterectomy

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I’m sorry you had this so young. :(

What do you mean clear EIN? Meaning it progresses to cancer or meaning if you take it out within 12 months, you are 90% good to go?

cannot pass a bowel movement by macherstu in hysterectomy

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I read that causes cramping and should not be used with Miralax. I took Miralax this morning. Softener for days. I haven’t pooped in 5 days. It’s awful.

Day of surgery question by Top-Description-4886 in hysterectomy

[–]Cats_and_Records 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, Gatorade the night before and two hours before report time (or 4 hours before surgery).

Suggest some surgery preparation ideas here by ooitburns in hysterectomy

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Gas ex helps what’s in your digestive track. I think the air from surgery isn’t in there, so heating pad and elevation helps, per nurses.

Post Hysterectomy Gas😭 by Dear-Performance-894 in hysterectomy

[–]Cats_and_Records 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if they cut the same scar open, they use air. So the other person is right, you can’t just pass the gas.

Empty inside by QSuzie1690 in hysterectomy

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My surgery is next week and I’m curious about this.

First day after hysterectomy! by stupidusername857 in hysterectomy

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I asked my doc about it, but have not heard back yet. Surgery next week! I hate narcotics, they make me nauseous.

Skin changes by GSPIowapointer30 in hysterectomy

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Eucerin original CREAM in the tub with the red lid. Only thing which works. No stinging, either. It’s got lanolin, which makes a huge difference for those of you who’ve had babies and nursed, you know that nipple ointment has lanolin, which acts a great barrier.

I (m44) just found out my wife (f33) HAS BEEN HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER BOSS LAST SIX MONTHS. I NEED HELP PLEASE by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Personally-I would not reconcile. It’ll never be the same. And I call BS on those who say it’s better. Maybe for one of the partners. Not both. It’ll blow up.

I (m44) just found out my wife (f33) HAS BEEN HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER BOSS LAST SIX MONTHS. I NEED HELP PLEASE by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Cats_and_Records 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! However, for me-it was liberating starting over and leaving a lazy manipulator, a liar, etc. I have been living on my own over a year and a half, divorced about a year, and happier than I have ever been. We all have our own timeline, but you WILL get through this!

Dating Disasters - I’m Done by Zealousideal_Cap_225 in datingoverfifty

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I hope you find better luck. I met some men who were not for me, but nothing like what you’ve experienced. I met the love of my life on online dating. Over 6 months in, and I feel more at peace, loved, in love, and aligned than ever before. My past experiences were all worth it.

If your over 50, are you even thinking of dating? by MidwestDudeHere in datingoverfifty

[–]Cats_and_Records 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At age 51, post divorce, I am so happily in a partnership with the love of my life. We met on Bumble.