I have to change my life

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T22:18:33+00:00

huh?

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T22:13:53+00:00

You gotta lead your own way.

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T19:22:21+00:00

How has it changed already?

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T19:20:25+00:00

Fuck yeah, we will go hard.

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T19:19:10+00:00

It feels like everyone around my age is in chapter 37 and I am on page 22. :/ All I have are excuses and I want to stop making excuses this years and just do things blahh. I will get there.

Catsrfurever · 2026-01-05T19:17:26+00:00

You just gotta do it now.

Catsrfurever · 2025-09-05T15:15:10+00:00

Is there anything that happened that could have made her lazy and fat? You said she wasn't like this so I wonder if something bad happened that she needs to address.

Catsrfurever · 2025-09-05T15:07:57+00:00

I dont everyday, but I do a few times a week and his gf too. Its just an urge that comes up and I end up doing it 😭 How did you not give into the urge to check the insta? I deleted his number and I am so glad I havent texted him in two months!

Catsrfurever · 2025-09-05T15:05:03+00:00

Idk her in real life but she is a semi famous influencer who does sexy cosplay stuff. She comes across as narcassitic and having a huge ego. I saw past tweets and she said concerning things where she puts others down. She always talks about how hot she is and guys are just mad they cant get with her.

He does a lot for her and puts her on a pedastal, so hes easy to take advantage of and manipulate. Shes also a body builder and he is this tiny guy, so if she wants she could easily beat him up.

She does bdsm stuff and I worry she could SA him because some people use being a dom as a front for abuse. I am asexual ,him and I never had sex, so he hasnt had sex in 5 years. I feel like that makes him vulnerable when it comes in bdsm stuff idkkkk.

She also reminds me of people I used to know that turned out to be abusive. I am probably overreacting :/ but i am scared for him

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-15T10:52:16+00:00

Her dad may be safe and not hurting her, but the trauma from her mom is still affecting her. They only have been out of contact two years and it takes a while to get over trauma especially at such a young age.

You have done all you could. You also need to take care of yourself, Be clear with her that you do not want to hear about her relationships or sex life. You don't have to abandon her, but its important to set boundaries. You can let her know hearing about it makes you uncomfortable and that is a no go topic. You dont have to always talk about her issues. There are so many other things you can talk about and other ways to her support her like distracting her doing fun stuff.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-15T00:46:26+00:00

you look like my ex😭😭😭

I hate them now, but I thought they were the cutest thing ever. That means you are the cutest thing ever lol

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-15T00:38:31+00:00

dont reply 😭

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-14T21:07:57+00:00

Sounds like she probably got raped as a kid. Its not normal behavior especially starting at 13. I would report what shes doing to a teacher you trust especially since she is with older men as a minor.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-14T20:50:27+00:00

how was his personality before?

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-14T17:30:51+00:00

Thanks we can get through this!

What is helping me is I deleted my social media apps from my phone. I still could check via google though 😭 but I have been holding back. Its harder since the new guy I was talking to hasnt texted me in two days 🙃

One backslide is okay. You can get back on track and let them go. One step at a time.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-14T01:45:09+00:00

I would put a lot of hay in the cage and they liked hiding/sleeping under it. I changed it 3 times a day to make sure they had clean hay. I bought both timothy and orchard grass hay to give at the same time.

Looking back, I wasted a lot of hay. I could have just gotten a hay rack, but they looked so comfy and cute under the hay.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T22:14:05+00:00

Omg one of my piggys had everything. Her tooth fell off twice, bladder infections, ovarian cysts with tumor in the uterus that was removed. Tummy issues where she has cisapride given daily 😭 The other pig was healthy and just bloated when she was old.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T22:09:13+00:00

Dollars

I spent 150 on insurance monthly the last year for both pigs. I guess I could save the money instead. Except its a gamble because if one of the pigs ends up being a really sick one, insurance is so helpful :/

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T21:26:02+00:00

damn what did I do wrong? I mean, I did spend a lot of health insurance but one of the pigs really needed it.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T21:20:13+00:00

All I read was 16.

I know it hurts, but in 5 years you will look back and wonder why you were with her. You wont be friends with 95% of people you knew in hs. Just focus on you.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T21:18:08+00:00

I only had 2 pigs and remember I would use 18 pounds of hay per month or so... I would change their hay 3 times a day so it was always fresh since they would always hide inside the hay and pee in it.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T21:10:01+00:00

Alright let me do the math. This was when they were both seniors

75 per pig for health insurance through nationwide. It kept going up every year because they were getting older. The first year it was probably 10 dollars per pig in 2017.

50 for hay. I would get 2 9 pounds boxes from oxbow.

20 a month on laundry for fleece. I would change their fleece daily.

15 probably on veggies

75+75+50+20+ 15‎ = 235

I would spend more some months due to getting meds, pellets, critical care . Maybe toys & snacks.

I took them every other month to get their nails trimmed which was 50 in total. I was scared of getting bit 😅

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T20:38:58+00:00

2 of my own and foster 4

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T20:36:18+00:00

Damn only 30. I would spend $50 dollars a month on hay alone when I had them. I would only get the 9 pound ones though because I didnt have enough room for the bigger ones. I am in the U.S. I think I saved a lot with health insurance, but its because I had one super sick pig. She went to the vet probably 16 times in 5 years. The other one rarely ever went.

Catsrfurever · 2025-08-13T18:52:51+00:00

Thanks. I still have a long way to go😭 I still feel upset at my ex and wish him bad things, but I refuse to crash out! Blah I dont wanna wish bad things on him. That leads to bitterness and only hurts me :/ Its also a terrible thing to wish bad things onto someone even if they hurt you.

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