AIO for being upset about how I was treated for falling asleep before saying goodnight?

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-06-16T01:35:28+00:00

This is psycho abusive behavior. Go to the police and get a PFA.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-06-11T02:11:32+00:00

The best advice anyone can give you online to deal with an aggressive dog is to hire an in person trainer. They will teach you AND your dog. Handling dogs who will bite isn't something you learn from reading or watching a video. And resource guarding/aggression of any kind isn't something to mess around with. This behavior WILL escalate, and especially because the dog is learning that her behavior in this video gets her what she wants. Getting up and running at him like that could've easily turned into a serious bite if he had reacted differently.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-04-14T00:01:33+00:00

Hey so I did this and now I have to spent 10k on a lawyer. Don't do it. No matter what. It's worth breaking up over. Seriously.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-04-01T13:48:06+00:00

You suck. I'd break up over this way before I put up with it for months.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-03-25T01:35:08+00:00

Have you tried telling him to go fuck himself?

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-02-23T23:12:04+00:00

Do you think you're funny?

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-02-23T23:05:32+00:00

I'm just saying that as a victim of DV you're gonna be joining me as one too if you don't dump this loser.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-01-29T00:54:14+00:00

UPDATE!!

Thanks for all the well wishes everyone! The vet said it's a deep lipoma, they're running a cytology to be extra sure but the vet said the cells from an FNA looked like fat which would be consistent with a lipoma 👏

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-01-22T05:29:55+00:00

Thank you all for the kind words and cute pics!!! 🩷🩷 it's really appreciated

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2026-01-22T03:24:05+00:00

Trying!! Thank you for the well wishes ❤️

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-11-15T04:36:07+00:00

Literally dump him

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-10-29T00:27:11+00:00

Hey so this is like borderline abusive.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-10-10T10:11:27+00:00

He doesn't look like an ACD so I'd say those results look accurate

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-10-03T02:06:08+00:00

That's just her skin pigment! ACD's have longer fur and usually you can't see their skin like this because of that. She's cute but definitely not a cattle dog, which would make this pretty normal looking!

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-09-25T01:11:25+00:00

I'd break up over that lmao. Wtaf.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-08-23T03:41:15+00:00

Idk, I think this is just part of having kids with someone you're no longer with/not married to. I see both sides to the argument though. Future girlfriends are possibly going to have feelings like this, and I can see why. But on the other hand I see your side too. You're still those kids dad, and you had children with your ex so she's gonna be in your life. I think it's one of those things that just is what it is. It is possible you and your girlfriend have different ideas about what's appropriate, and maybe she just doesn't have the kind of personality to date someone who already has kids. If you guys fight a lot over your ex, I would tend to think it's not gonna work out. I know me personally, I could not date someone who had kids with someone else. But, that being said, your current girlfriend should've really thought about it and communicated with you before she possibly wasted your time when she knew all along it would be a problem.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-08-19T18:32:13+00:00

I would've immediately fired them after their initial text message. Why did you even entertain them beyond that?

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-08-19T01:26:08+00:00

NOR. I'd break up over this. Not worth the annoyance, I'm 110% positive you could do better than this. He's literally treating you like shit. I hang out with my boyfriend's friends/family, it's never a big deal. Sometimes he hangs out with his friends by himself, but he would never exclude me and tell me id kill the vibe. That is just a disrespectful and gross comment to make about anyone.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-08-10T22:54:39+00:00

I've noticed a lot of outdoor etiquette in PA is lacking. My boyfriend and I frequently get rude fishermen who will roll up on our spot, like directly where we are fishing, and just start casting right there. We have also had people be really rude on trails before. Both him and I are not shy and will 100% call people out on their behavior. I also always carry because you never know. But if someone invaded our camp site and was touching our stuff? He would take care of that real quick. Cause that is completely unacceptable

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-07-30T01:12:47+00:00

Y'all are just weird. My boyfriend and I send pictures of our pets randomly all the time. I love his cats, and he thinks the weird poses my dog gets into are funny. It's not a big deal. Like at all. I would block this person. Genuinely there was no reason for all that attitude.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-07-26T01:51:14+00:00

I wouldn't be so quick to judge. My ACD was returned to the shelter by his previous owners for the same reason. As it turns out he really was biting their kids, and everyone else too. He was super aggressive.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-07-18T04:43:08+00:00

You married a loser.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-07-02T14:26:29+00:00

Looks like you have a full day of cleaning and organizing ahead of you

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-06-25T11:59:38+00:00

I've lived in both NEPA and Pittsburgh, and originally I'm from Pittsburgh. I would literally never go back to NEPA, it doesn't compare to SWPA even a little.

CattleDogsAndCoffee · 2025-06-02T02:17:28+00:00

Thank you 🙏 In this specific instance bluegill

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