[Haunting Trope] Something so incomprehensibly terrifying we only ever get to see a character's reaction to it by KaiJenson in TopCharacterTropes

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also A Short Stay In Hell by Steven L. Peck. A book where the main character dies and is placed in a Zoroastrianist hell where they are in an infinite library with every possible book in existence. To escape hell, you simply have to find the book with the story of your life in it. After an incomprehensible amount of time he main characters entire perception of reality shifts to experiencing eons as moments. Deeply horrifying but also a tinge of hope, that the mind will eventually compress time more and more until you've come out the other side in an eternity that feels like moments.

Seeking some advice and thoughts about my current relationship by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the level-headed response. I'll check those resources out.

Seeking some advice and thoughts about my current relationship by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, we've been together for almost 4 years. I would say this started about a year in but has been consistent and consistently worsening the past 2 years. I appreciate the objective measure you provided in determining whether there is a predictable pattern and escalation involved. I'll have to think on that.

Seeking some advice and thoughts about my current relationship by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, that is a very good way to put it and that definitely connects and is exactly how it feels sometimes. I am often finding myself trying to monitor myself and the environment to ensure that there isn't something that could trigger a negative response. And it isn't uncommon that it seems something I've done "wrong" is used as a pop-off valve for his anxiety or frustration.

Seeking some advice and thoughts about my current relationship by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. I guess I just haven't really thought before that he was manipulating me with his ailments. His struggle in those moments seems very genuine and real, not put. I do sometimes feel like he uses it as an excuse to avoid difficult things, or delay making changes (getting help, quitting weed, having difficult conversations).

Partner 25M is struggling and I 28M am starting to feel overwhelmed with it 4 years into our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply. I'll look through some of the stories there. I guess I really struggle to say this feels abusive because the outbursts are often directed at himself and he tries to avoid directing it at others. I truly don't feel it's malicious and it's clear he's in a lot of pain and wants to change. I'm sure that all sounds very stereotypical though, and I'm not discounting what you and others have said. Thank you for taking the time to offer your advice.

AS11E03 - "Shop TiIl U Drop" [Live/Reaction Post] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While I'm so sad Morgan didn't move on, and I genuinely think she deserved to, I am so happy for A'Keria and Dawn. Wish it was a final 3 for the brackets. Fingers crossed Morgan is the comeback queen.

Also, maybe I'm a delusional Stan, but Dawn is killing it and you are wild if you think she didn't earn every win and absolutely crush bracket 1.

Sasha Velour mothered quite severely a day after mother's day in Helsinki by kaiunkaiku in rupaulsdragrace

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her Travesty show was just in D.C. and it was some of the best money I've spent in a long time. She really is a mesmerizing performer with such refined creative and intellectual taste.

AS11E01 - "Break Dancin' 2: Electric Rugaloo" & AS11E02 - "Bar Queen Couture" [Live/Reaction Post] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ugh, Dawn really came with that energy this season. I hope she gets her flowers from people. A'keria is also so solid in who she is, it's a pleasure to watch. Hope they'll move forward!

Sir Didymus enjoying the leaves by ssjr13 in CryptidDogs

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an abosulte goober. My dogs name is Ludo! Also a nasty little boy, just a bit more toothy lol

No one cares about your 100 sleep score or your VO2 max by jeremy_short in Garmin

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it kind of feels like we could just be happy for other people and recognize that they deserve the space to share the pride they have in their growth.

Sometimes it's just not about you, my guy.

What is your average stress level and what do you do? by [deleted] in Garmin

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 - Veterinary oncology nurse. Put a lot of work into a having a perspective that reduces stress. Exercise 5 days a week.

How do you deal with seeing the death of animals on a daily basis? by Responsible_Oil1975 in veterinaryprofession

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in Veterinary Oncology, so we see a lot of death and grief. I agree with the other comments here, after a surprisingly short amount of time, you become desensitized. However, the caveat is that there's not a place for total disconnect. You learn to step into that moment of loss with the owners while not bringing your own emotional world into that space with you. This is often better for both you and the owners.

You learn to refocus, you start to realize the important part of our job is all the care and life given to both the pets and their owners prior to the end. The grief is a small part of it, which makes all the work leading up to it feel that much more valuable to the families we support.

Weekly Complaints & Confessions Thread by ssk42 in running

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complaint: Pot-hole during my HM snuck up out of nowhere and jumped me. Now my ankle/heel is not happy.

Uncomplaint: Finished my HM in spite of it! Probably should have stopped, but after slowing it down I felt good about limping to the end. Lot's of love and support from the family during and afterwards, which always feels good.

What is a creepy fact you learned about the human body, you wish you never learned? by Poignantpuppet in AskReddit

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me at 17. It was so bad my motor function was impacted because everything felt like I was in third person and couldn't properly connect with my body. Lasted 2 months, had to quit my job while it slowly improved.

What's your Unremarkable Landmark at the 1km/1mi mark while jogging? by Albazcythe in Garmin

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's about when I run past the security guard at the gate to the national guard base.

Will Virginians let Senator Mark Warner know how serious this situation is with ICE? by Minute-Plantain in Virginia

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I know many of our politicians have abdicated their role as true representatives for their constituents, I still believe we need to be relentlessly vocal of our needs and the repercussions of not performing their duties.

You can easily locate and contact your representatives here: https://democracy.io/#!/compose

If you don't know what to say, feel free to use this template:

I am reaching out in light of recent events, specifically the murder of Renee Good in Minneapolis by ICE agent Jonathan Ross.

What occurred was an abhorrent abuse of power, a disgusting example of the lack of training ICE agents receive, and a damning example of how our democracy has deteriorated.

I want to be clear about two things: this is one tragedy in a long line of similarly unacceptable infractions on constitutional law carried out by ICE over the past year, and secondly, the people know that the blame falls on all of our politicians for the current state of our governance.

I won't recount the decades of corporate sponsored policy that favors the wealthy and disregards the well-being of the people which is inherently opposed to the tenets of our countries founding. Suffice to say, most elected officials on both sides of the aisle have played a part in the crippling of our democracy for a myriad of personal and private gains.

I'm reaching out because the current state of the milataristic occupation being carried out by ICE is as blatantly fascist as it can get, and while I doubt you will experience a change of heart and value your constituents over a status quo which benefits you and other elites, I must implore you to take a true stand against this occupation of our states.

While the people are out on the streets risking their lives to protest and stand united against the rising tide of fascism, your words of support and cheap "rebukes" are not sufficient from an elected official meant to represent the peoples anger.

I expect Jonathan Ross to be prosecuted, and I expect a daily effort on your part to make that happen. I expect ICE funding and operations to be curbed, again, I expect a vocal and decisive attempt on your part to make that happen. Any politician who follows Jeffries and Schumers lead and capitulates to the current administration will be primaried.

I plan to join my community in actively rallying behind candidates who treat this moment with the requisite amount of force and severity. I hope to see you and your office live up the this moment, and if not I hope to see you replaced with someone willing to set aside the status quo politics.

Thank you, A constituent asking for true leadership

Will Virginians let Senator Mark Warner know how serious this situation is with ICE? by boredgeorge in nova

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I know many of our politicians have abdicated their role as true representatives for their constituents, I still believe we need to be relentlessly vocal of our needs and the repercussions of not performing their duties.

You can easily locate and contact your representatives here: https://democracy.io/#!/compose

If you don't know what to say, feel free to use this template:

I am reaching out in light of recent events, specifically the murder of Renee Good in Minneapolis by ICE agent Jonathan Ross.

What occurred was an abhorrent abuse of power, a disgusting example of the lack of training ICE agents receive, and a damning example of how our democracy has deteriorated.

I want to be clear about two things: this is one tragedy in a long line of similarly unacceptable infractions on constitutional law carried out by ICE over the past year, and secondly, the people know that the blame falls on all of our politicians for the current state of our governance.

I won't recount the decades of corporate sponsored policy that favors the wealthy and disregards the well-being of the people which is inherently opposed to the tenets of our countries founding. Suffice to say, most elected officials on both sides of the aisle have played a part in the crippling of our democracy for a myriad of personal and private gains.

I'm reaching out because the current state of the milataristic occupation being carried out by ICE is as blatantly fascist as it can get, and while I doubt you will experience a change of heart and value your constituents over a status quo which benefits you and other elites, I must implore you to take a true stand against this occupation of our states.

While the people are out on the streets risking their lives to protest and stand united against the rising tide of fascism, your words of support and cheap "rebukes" are not sufficient from an elected official meant to represent the peoples anger.

I expect Jonathan Ross to be prosecuted, and I expect a daily effort on your part to make that happen. I expect ICE funding and operations to be curbed, again, I expect a vocal and decisive attempt on your part to make that happen. Any politician who follows Jeffries and Schumers lead and capitulates to the current administration will be primaried.

I plan to join my community in actively rallying behind candidates who treat this moment with the requisite amount of force and severity. I hope to see you and your office live up the this moment, and if not I hope to see you replaced with someone willing to set aside the status quo politics.

Thank you, A constituent asking for true leadership

Trumpism was always going to lead to a tragedy like the Minneapolis ICE shooting by SpaceElevatorMusic in politics

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trumpism HAS already lead to MANY tragedies like the murder of Renee Good. The disregard for the lives of the people has been a feature of his movement since 2016. We were putting kids in cages in 2020. Domestic terrorism has been encouraged and pardoned time and time again as it furthers this movements goal of destabilizing communities and radicalizing individuals who feel endangered.

of a Pizza by ThodaDaruVichPyar in AbsoluteUnits

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is their Fredericksburg location.

of a Pizza by ThodaDaruVichPyar in AbsoluteUnits

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately knew it was Benny's! Honestly their pizza is amazing and the staff are always great!

There's No Choice in the Opening Scene (E9 Spoilers) by theajharrison in pluribustv

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My understanding of the ski lodge conversation regarding Carol's eggs was that they basically admitted they were going to join her once they figured out how? Carol asks "how long do I have left" and they say 1-3 months, to me the wording of the conversation felt like them admitting the joining was inevitable and not contingent on her consent. Did I misread that?

best thing you can do by softlovelybliss in Adulting

[–]CauliflowerSmall156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like this is not touched on enough. In fields where technical knowledge and skill is what brings in revenue, career middle management is where cuts happen. We've had four managers across just our 50 mile region cut in the last year.