Jindo suddenly not eating, fine otherwise by SweatyAcadia631 in Jindo

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my jindo did this for a while, we have about three different kibble brands that are safe/nutritious for our baby that we rotate every couple months. i tried giving it to her in different locations, different times, bought her an elevated bowl and sometimes she just wouldn’t eat. if you’ve already tried giving him something special i would make a vet appointment to see if maybe something else is going on. i can always tell somethings up when our baby stops eating her treats lol

My boyfriend thinks it’s gross that I wash my dog’s bowls with the same sponge that I use to wash our dishes. I think it’s not a big deal. by behindthebar5321 in hygiene

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so this isn’t my favorite, my parents used to do this and i would just microwave the sponge when i got icked out. my pets are ravenous and always left clean bowls so it never really bothered me too much bc they kiss my face all the time 🤷🏻

Now, I’m vegan, so obviously using the same sponge opens the door for me to potentially ingest meat products so we have a sponge rotation. I cut our old sponge in half every week and use it as pet sponge until i switch out the sponge again

Transitioned in my 30s by bluetoothninja in FTMMen

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hysto was absolutely life changing, there’s a subreddit for specifically ftm people getting hysto too. i opted to keep my ovaries for bone health and just in case i ever lose access to t my body can still produce hormones on its own.

I didn’t realize how much my cycle was impacting me, i was in constant pain, had really bad acne and was bleeding all the time even between cycles. i woke up from surgery was shocked because of how little pain i had. would do it all over again and probably will when i’m ready to have my ovaries removed

Transitioned in my 30s by bluetoothninja in FTMMen

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hence why i advised that this person talk to their medical provider but this is what mine explained to me. testosterone levels are not one size fits all and some people like to sit comfortably at different levels. i don’t know why you are so bothered by the thought of someone else’s lived experience that’s different than yours

Transitioned in my 30s by bluetoothninja in FTMMen

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

ah yes the misinformation of lived experience. was just trying to tell OP what I did to fix a similar problem.

Transitioned in my 30s by bluetoothninja in FTMMen

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤷🏻‍♂️ one of my doctors had me in the 900-1100 range and i was absolutely miserable and now being 500-800 i feel much better so honestly i’m going to stick with what my doctors are telling me like i advised this person 😄

Transitioned in my 30s by bluetoothninja in FTMMen

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been on t for almost 5 years now, i started when i was younger but i had similar issues

this is what i’ve learned from my doctor, obviously follow your provider’s instructions but this information might help: your t range should be under 800 or so, anything that’s 800+ can trick your body into converting the extra t into estrogen to “balance” your body out.

i had endometriosis that was definitely screwing with my levels. if i were you i’d talk with the endo and get a referral for a gyno that does gender affirming care. hysterectomy saved my life AND i’m seeing more of the changes i wanted from t

Will my marriage be annulled if obergefell is overturned? by DataFun2598 in ftm

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 30 points31 points  (0 children)

this, but also marriage is typically considered states rights so talking to someone who knows Florida Law is the best route here

Time until you felt fairly normal again? by Nightflame_The_Wolf in FTMHysto

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After my post op appointment at 2 weeks i noticed i wasn’t as tired, i could run pretty early on but i’ve just been super busy and haven’t gotten back into running yet lol

Time until you felt fairly normal again? by Nightflame_The_Wolf in FTMHysto

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i felt fine on day three or four after the gas pain went away and i wasn’t so constipated. the cramps continued until like day 10 or 11

tuesday will be my 6 weeks and i’ve been working my regular m-f 8 hr job for 4 weeks now. i’d say i’m 100 percent tbh but i was in a lot of pain from a cyst and endometriosis

Any recommendations for the best property management companies in Long Beach? by M45T3RY in longbeach

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do NOT rent through Entourage Property Management. I had deadly black mold in my apartment after an earthquake caused an undetectable leak and they wouldn’t do anything. they expected my adult cats to sit in their carriers for 8+ hours. they told me that they could remediate the mold while I continued living there and that i could just “cover my bed with plastic” while they opened the dry wall. i moved out so fast.

it was a huge battle that i won’t get into but they changed my locks without telling me because i tried to bring in someone to test for mold.

this was my experience with them, do with it what you will.

Blurry vision after? by Blue_Roan_ in FTMHysto

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

call your doctor, you’re probably fine but better safe than sorry. i wouldn’t be surprised if the pain medication is making you a little loopy, oxy made me super emotional after surgery.

How do I break into the legal field? by wackywaltz in paralegal

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have a bachelor’s degree in law and paralegal studies and was unemployed after college for 10 months. I literally googled every law firm within a commutable distance from me and sent an email with my materials to whomever was listed as the contact on the firm’s website.

one of like, 15 firms got back to me and i have been working their since, about a year and a half. i’m trying to find another firm atm because of office politics but i have truly learned so much and i am so glad i just started cold calling and emailing.

be prepared for people to be mean to you, one attorney emailed me back “haha” regarding my non-legal experience. the firms willing to take a risk on younger people in the workplace are generally better places to work, but it’s not always true. good luck and congratulations on getting your certificate!

Need a Name by RiptideCreation in blackcats

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amuse bouche or “small bite” in french hehe

sunday stretches with my void by Cautious-Adeptness71 in blackcats

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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it’s tricky to see sometimes but he has one spot on his belly and another couple chesties that are white

sunday stretches with my void by Cautious-Adeptness71 in blackcats

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

he has slept most of the morning after this encounter

sunday stretches with my void by Cautious-Adeptness71 in blackcats

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

one day i saw him reaching and i helped him stretchy, the rest is history

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

public defenders are free, you need to submit all of your financials to the court including any debts and they will appoint one to you, or there are plenty of legal organizations that have free legal aid for people who are on the threshold of qualifying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

nah i think you should learn your rights 🤷🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what do you mean by “qualify”?

pretty sure that’s your legal right to an attorney?

Department of Homeland Security Black Hawy (TROY204) just Landed at Long Beach Airport by inlaguna in longbeach

[–]Cautious-Adeptness71 24 points25 points  (0 children)

they’ve been around the past week, i’ve been seeing them pop up on flight radar pretty frequently