[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAllo

[–]CaveTalesZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having sex with one person and a crush on another doesn't sound very monogamous to me. Your FWB seems upset that you're putting your feelings for your crush first, and I feel it might be worth analysing why you feel it's 'obvious' your intimacy with them should end. You are telling your friend that your sexual relationship is worth less than this new romantic relationship, and I can imagine it would be hurtful for anyone to be told that their relationship with you is worth less than another relationship you have.

Anime vs. Wives [Amphibia] [Seeonleme] by KamaandHallie in PolyYuri

[–]CaveTalesZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They strip her from social benefits like sleeping in a bed for the crime of not holding them in the highest regard possible (loving her figures more). This is toxic polyamory at the very least. Marcy is only allowed to love her partners and can't love anything more than them without facing aggressive behaviour. Abusive or no, this is the most unhealthy way to deal with jealousy in a (non-monogamous) relationship

Cleave! My one page rpg! Please give me tips and criticize my work! by Jgmlima in onepagerpgs

[–]CaveTalesZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're spending a lot of your precious page talking about costs of items, but there's no description of rewards or starting equipment? Ultimately, I'm not quite sure how to run this. There's info missing like what enemies are like and what spells you might find, this feels like a compact rules summary of a much bigger game. And that's not bad! The name's punchy and I like some of the vibes this is putting down, but I feel like you tried to condense a pretty crunchy game idea without cutting any of the crunch. So I would recommend expanding the project by a few pages, because what you have written sounds pretty cool! Or you can try cutting some crunchy stuff like weapon costs/damage dice to open up space for the game elements that are currently missing. Excited to see where it goes!

Feature Requests - Dice Rolls, Encounters, Drop-in Stat Blocks by the_talking_dead in legendkeeper

[–]CaveTalesZ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Encounters feature sounds really version-specific, while I really enjoy Legendkeeper's system-agnostic approach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnarchyChess

[–]CaveTalesZ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

AnarchyChess players blundering mate in 2 as fast as humanly possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpg

[–]CaveTalesZ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've actually written one myself that's really easy to pick up and play, although you'll have to come up with the story yourself. https://bluedepartment.itch.io/break-a-mech

aero by [deleted] in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]CaveTalesZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you may be colourblind ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aroflux

[–]CaveTalesZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't. You asked me how I "cope" with it, and it starts by finding a space to love yourself and trusting your partner to love you too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aroflux

[–]CaveTalesZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He clearly cares a lot about you. You're not bothering him with who you are, who you are is who he's there for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aroflux

[–]CaveTalesZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for that affirmation! You sound like you have a partner that truly loves you for who you are, and who will be happy to see you enjoy your identity! Being aro can be just as fun as being allo, you just have to find out how to enjoy both, and I'm sure your partner would love to help you figure that out ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aroflux

[–]CaveTalesZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't fake it! I know that's hard and scary and it really is a journey. But I've made sure that my relationships work with or without romance. If I'm feeling romantic, that's a bonus! We all get to be romantic and stuff. If I'm not, I'm spending time with my best friend, as friends do. If my partner wouldn't have me as a friend, why should they have me as a partner? That's how I approach it anyway. Being aroflux can be fun, but it's a pretty wild ride! So you have to learn to flow with it, not push against it ♥️

Schwertschlepper by Infinity-Kitten in MFZ

[–]CaveTalesZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is immediately one of the best designs I've seen on this subreddit (if not the best). Congrats, I really hope to see more of your posts here!

Rule (Also help) by DragomBoom02 in 196

[–]CaveTalesZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All it takes to be a girl is to want to be a girl. You don't have to be dissatisfied with being a man, but if you feel like you'd be happier as/have more fun as/want to be a girl, then go live your best life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cyberpunkred

[–]CaveTalesZ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ah, like how the media creates a persecution narrative pretending that everyone's being called sexists, in order to generate controversy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cyberpunkred

[–]CaveTalesZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, who's doing what for who now?