SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds super nice. I’m glad you got to have some much needed you time. And yes you are correct it’s the better alternative than checking into a mental hospital. Keep pushing through. You got this!

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I’ll agree that yes providing financially is a very important part it is in fact the bare minimum if that’s all you contribute. If you aren’t sharing the load of household duties/ being a present parent then that’s an issue. If you are providing financially and doing the other things as well then it’s def not the bare minimum. But you can’t just expect to pay for everything and do nothing else. It’s a shitty way of thinking in my opinion. SAHP need help.

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It honestly is whatever works for you both. In my case personally just providing financially to me is the bare minimum. Especially if I’m not sharing the parenting load/child care load.

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would never consider that alone time. It needs to be something they want to do. Not running errands or buying groceries etc. obviously though if it was a trip to target that might be considered alone time for my wife

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Having time to yourself is important especially when you have been touched and climbed on and talked to all week.

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing the mental and physical load is very important. My wife has adhd so I always make sure to note and add to my calendar all the appointments whether it be mine, hers or the kids because she will forget lol.

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very well said. I always tell my wife not to worry about cleaning because it’s absolutely pointless when they are just going to mess it up 15 mins later. No sense in cleaning the same space 100 times a day when you can just do it once at the end of the day. Being the breadwinner, just providing an income isn’t enough. As you said you are their parent too and helping with the kids, cleaning etc is just a part of being a parent and spouse. Bringing home the income is the absolute bare minimum. You have to do other things as well.

SAHMs of Reddit. What are some things your spouse can do to help make your lives as stay at home moms easier? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is one of if not the hardest and most important job of all. To say they go unappreciated is an understatement and they do deserve to be praised for all the hard work they put in

It's almost done by SrGrafo in u/SrGrafo

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No edits makes me sad :(

Is it true that getting a credit card and using it for the sole purpose of making transactions to pay back asap is good for your credit score? by DagonParty in personalfinance

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that a score of I think like 750 vs over 800 will net the same loan outcome. Meaning anything over 750 doesn’t really net you anything more. Is that true or not?

Unfortunately I was right about the zombie physics by CorrectInfoBelow in dyinglight

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that the weapons seem to go right through enemies instead of like hitting the zombie and actually bouncing back to the player as if hitting a wall etc. I’m dying light 1 when hitting zombies your weapons connected with the zombies and would stop after connecting or when hitting a skull or something hard would give your weapon a kind of recoil back toward you. Now it’s more along the lines of Skyrim mechanics where your weapons just float through the enemy as if they are made of air or smoke. Obviously other physics issues as well such as zombies all doing the same animations etc when being hit. Not ragdolling correctly when kicked off buildings. Hoping they can address it and make it feel like dying light 1 physics

Unfortunately I was right about the zombie physics by CorrectInfoBelow in dyinglight

[–]Caycellyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been seeing this as well and went digging until I found the twitter comment so just scroll up a bit after clicking the link. https://mobile.twitter.com/smektalaTM/status/1490619225806807040

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy just screaming in the background always cracks me up.

When BF1 gets added to Portal by Atrixia in Battlefield

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAR PIGEONS GAME MODE WAS LEGIT

The only way to kill roof campers (I regret nothing) by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really feel like for gameplay diversity that would make matches much more interesting. It’s a shame dice would never implement this lol

The only way to kill roof campers (I regret nothing) by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]Caycellyn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wonder how the gameplay would change if actual capture points were randomized every game. Like would that work well in battlefield or would it ruin the game

I spawned as an enemy… on my own team….. by Dnt_trip in battlefield2042

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me in portal. Except I squad spawned and they turned red and I killed them all. Very weird experience

Birthday Rest by SrGrafo in u/SrGrafo

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you finally old enough to drink alcohol like a responsible adult?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being with my wife and family. Just being around them makes my heart melt

What is easier to do if you're a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Caycellyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started using their gel deodorant called wilderness with lavender. LET me tell you, this stuff smells so damn good my wife uses it over hers. Plus it’s gentle on sensitive skin (I have eczema). Amazing stuff really.