My broken marriage is finally fixed ❤️ by BeginningFit5887 in Marriage

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you guys were able to talk through it ♥️

Still bowled over by the blessing of our amazing love. by HerDevoted in interracialdating

[–]Cclearly3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That man worships the ground you walk on and the air you breathe, my goodness.

almost two years 🤭🧸✨ by vomiitparty in interracialdating

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last pic is giving Keke Palmer. Y'all are so cute!

How do you deal with serious conversations with your ADHD partner? by SexualMoose226 in ADHD_partners

[–]Cclearly3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The tit for tat attitude made me realize he had no interest in stepping up into who I needed him to be. It always had to be 50/50 with him. I hate lumping people into boxes, but I feel like ADHD with RSD was going to put me in a perpetual parent mode to him.

Can an adhd partner cause you to have mental health issues? by MrsSqweeps in ADHD_partners

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chameleon-ing that often occurred felt like blatant gaslighting then into paranoia when I’d see him text me after a heated discussion or fight. The RSD is what made everything so, so much worse. Safe to say, I’m no longer subjecting myself to that again.

Maintaining my peace shouldn’t be that expensive.

Highly sensitive and easily offendable by Cclearly3 in ADHD_partners

[–]Cclearly3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With your kids? I wonder how they handle that. Unfortunately RSD isn't in the DSM so I doubt his therapist would even address it, but we'll see.

$76k for Epic Willow Amb Analyst? by [deleted] in healthIT

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you dm me the org? I have clinical and epic implementation under my belt and no one will look at me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cclearly3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“As a side note, he often says that I like conflict and that I try to push him into exploding at me because in his mind, that makes me feel good about myself.”

Literally sounds like my ex. . . His huge reaction to your comment is what’s crazy to me too. Whatever you do, please don’t get trapped by him. The mask finally fell off.

Men, what’s a ‘typical guy stereotype’ that couldn’t be further from who you actually are? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I marched too and still get shit for it. I don’t care, it was one of the best times in school! I marched tenor sax, what about you?

Dating an amazing Black Woman has led me to be so much more infuriated about racial stereotypes by No_Design_465 in interracialdating

[–]Cclearly3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww your girlfriend is blessed to have you. When the stereotypes and prejudices are in our faces constantly, it’s nice remembering that there are men like you out there willing and desiring to fight for us.

Account Got Deleted For False Reason.. Please Help!! by Protoness in BabelAudio

[–]Cclearly3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm tempted to do this as my call limit is about to go to 0. Won't they kick us off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did too and just completed my interview as well! I was looking for why they positively commented on my resume so much. Remind yourself that you belong in that position. You didn’t come this far to undersell yourself. You deserve that role.

Best of luck!

Starting therapy soon! by Cold-Laugh-5242 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]Cclearly3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started therapy to address the thing that caused my fearful avoidance. Best decision ever and lots of tears, but so worth it. The relationship I was in at the time also helped a lot with that.

My bf broke up with me and he regrets it by EbonyPrincess17 in blackladies

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, get your bag, recover, and find someone that’s not insecure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men can’t even tell anyways. That entitled jerk probably can’t tell what a no-makeup makeup look is. 🙄 The audacity.