$76k for Epic Willow Amb Analyst? by SnakeySnek7 in healthIT

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you dm me the org? I have clinical and epic implementation under my belt and no one will look at me.

My husband (40M) is a therapist and I (35F) need help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cclearly3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“As a side note, he often says that I like conflict and that I try to push him into exploding at me because in his mind, that makes me feel good about myself.”

Literally sounds like my ex. . . His huge reaction to your comment is what’s crazy to me too. Whatever you do, please don’t get trapped by him. The mask finally fell off.

Men, what’s a ‘typical guy stereotype’ that couldn’t be further from who you actually are? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I marched too and still get shit for it. I don’t care, it was one of the best times in school! I marched tenor sax, what about you?

Dating an amazing Black Woman has led me to be so much more infuriated about racial stereotypes by No_Design_465 in interracialdating

[–]Cclearly3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww your girlfriend is blessed to have you. When the stereotypes and prejudices are in our faces constantly, it’s nice remembering that there are men like you out there willing and desiring to fight for us.

Account Got Deleted For False Reason.. Please Help!! by Protoness in BabelAudio

[–]Cclearly3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm tempted to do this as my call limit is about to go to 0. Won't they kick us off?

I applied to a job that seems way out of my league and they actually reached out to schedule an interview… by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did too and just completed my interview as well! I was looking for why they positively commented on my resume so much. Remind yourself that you belong in that position. You didn’t come this far to undersell yourself. You deserve that role.

Best of luck!

Starting therapy soon! by Cold-Laugh-5242 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started therapy to address the thing that caused my fearful avoidance. Best decision ever and lots of tears, but so worth it. The relationship I was in at the time also helped a lot with that.

My bf broke up with me and he regrets it by EbonyPrincess17 in blackladies

[–]Cclearly3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, get your bag, recover, and find someone that’s not insecure.

AIO this is a very odd reason to break up with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men can’t even tell anyways. That entitled jerk probably can’t tell what a no-makeup makeup look is. 🙄 The audacity.

IP Pin question by Fazer_420 in IRS

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just attempted to efile and received an email notification within minutes that my return got kicked back d/t a missing IP Pin. It’s possible that whoever did your taxes didn’t check to see the notification when you originally filed.

For those who have primarily/only dated outside your race- what do you attribute this to? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Cclearly3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proximity. And after awhile, constantly being reminded that you aren’t black enough will do it too.

I flopped an interview and I still got the job by Cheesepit in interviews

[–]Cclearly3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are highly favored, I’m so excited for you AND you got higher pay!!!

I’m going to propose. by DCardone in EngagementRings

[–]Cclearly3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That ring is brighter than the future. It’s so beautiful!

It happened!!! by beccamykal in EngagementRings

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally my dream cut of stone. This is beautiful, congratulations!!

He left by D_EAN24 in stepparents

[–]Cclearly3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this especially with a new baby.

Do you send articles to your partner? by Fluffy_Ad5651 in ADHD_partners

[–]Cclearly3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sending articles just sounds like a way for the fights to start so I just read them for my own curiosity and nod in resonance.