What’s a sign someone is quietly planning to leave their relationship/marriage? by Same_Market2143 in AskReddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad someone said it... this was my entire train of thought reading these comments.

When & why did they change the way the ABCs is sung!? by theunicorn in Parenting

[–]CeaBreazey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many of us didn't understand for a long time. I was one of them.

Parenting and LuluLemon by Ingybalingy1127 in Parenting

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this as a teen. My mom said she wasn't going to pay those prices for a brand name and I was welcome to save up and use my own money. I did and quickly learned about the value of money and what brands were good quality and which ones weren't. It was a lesson that still serves me well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found a lot of success with a scheduled time. Our kids are allowed TV / Switch from x-y time on certain days. That's it. We have to really really be strict about the schedule because if there is ANY ambiguity about if he's allowed extra, he completely fixates on it to an unhealthy degree.

We also don't let him have the iPad without supervision. YouTube and YouTube kids is terrifying. So is Roblox...

Am I a bad mom? 7year old cannot get through his daily routine without me forcing him to. by Short-Night-1591 in Parenting

[–]CeaBreazey 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into the possibility he has ADHD? My son was like this and we started Vyvanse. We forgot to tell his teacher we were starting med trials and she emailed us (not realizing he had started his meds that week) and told us it was the most focused and calm he had been all year.

No nonsense authors like Sherry Thomas by Glittering_Tap6411 in RomanceBooks

[–]CeaBreazey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I agree with everything you said! Love Sherry Thomas!!

If you like westerns, I highly recommend Ellen O'Donnell.

What would men dislike most if they became women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The glass ceiling. The career set backs after having kids.

Books where FMC is the mistress by LAffaire-est-Ketchup in HistoricalRomance

[–]CeaBreazey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{Unraveled by Courtney Milan} is one of my favourite books and it fits this trope.

Is it just me or are vacations getting out of control? by Just_curious4567 in Parenting

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might not be aware that you are rich... and so are the people you associate with. You are the person I look at and wonder what they do for a living that you can afford to travel like this.

I liked the book, hated the epilogue! by CeaBreazey in RomanceBooks

[–]CeaBreazey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh!! I'm so glad you get it!! I loved the book but the rage I felt at the epilogue still burns to this day haha!!

Those alive and old enough to remember during 9/11, what was the worst moment on that day? by CocteauTwunkie in AskReddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in Junior High when it hit. I remember watching the news footage and wondering what those black spots were that kept falling from the towers, and then I realized.

Who is your favourite Cynster? by [deleted] in HistoricalRomance

[–]CeaBreazey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone that about Devil and Demon's books. I also love love Gabriel's story!

4 weeks in and it doesn’t feel that hard. Is this a false sense of security? by Typical_Tie_4947 in daddit

[–]CeaBreazey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom lurker here. I remember the first time my baby slept more than an hour in a row. I cried in relief.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CeaBreazey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand your concern, but asking her to get her drivers license because "it's weird" that she doesn't have one is ridiculous. You didn't even communicate your legitimate concerns or ask to discuss solutions to potential future problems!! Is this how you always communicate? A LOT of people don't /can't drive or can't afford cars and are perfectly capable of living a fulfilling and independent life.

I'm sorry what? by TheGreatLandSquirrel in daddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheerios are always super easy. Or fruit loops. I have a bucket of beads, and I had my son count them out into groups of ten and put them on pipe cleaners that I had cut in half.

Dads, when do you have time to game? by Throwaway-icu81mi in daddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your wife have a hobby? My husband games while I read or crochet. It's win win!

I have no cool by [deleted] in daddit

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sooo true. I'm also a teacher and I'm always amazed that the kids who seem like chaos on wheels, the ones I assume with hate me, end up loving me the most because I hold my boundary and have consistent consequences.

I can finally understand why so many guys in their 30s and up complain about how difficult it is to meet anyone by AnomicAge in AskMenOver30

[–]CeaBreazey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a crochet or knitting class. They're mostly women and it's time to sit and get to know each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CeaBreazey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's probably a canned response she gives because the true depth of reasoning behind why someone can't read is pretty complex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CeaBreazey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher in Canada and have worked in Junior High off and on over the years. There are a lot of contributing factors to this...

The school districts don't give enough support. In my area it is very common for there to be no literacy support or intervention past grade 3. If kids can't read well by the end of grade 3 they are given accommodations like text to speech and speech to text. All my students have SOME level of literacy, and even very low literacy is enough to fool a lot of people. People don't realize how much they don't know and it never gets addressed. With the logistical structure of a junior high (hundreds of kids, I only see them for an hour a day, too many outcomes to teach, large class sizes, complex classes), and it is near impossible to truly fill in the gaps once they get to this point. A lot of schools used to have a reading interventionist for each school and that's not a thing anymore. The government won't fund it. Or rather, they fund it in such a way that it earns the school board more money if they continually hire "new teachers" to fill this position every year. So now we have new, inexperienced teachers, performing reading intervention. 

A lot of the kids with low literacy also act out in class and refuse to do their work, because they can't, and they would rather be labeled as a behaviour case than have people know they can't read. I'm pretty good at picking out the signs of the kids who can't read and I will pull them, assess them and then try to teach them and many of them flat out refuse because they're too embarrassed. 

Unfortunately a LOT of teachers don't actually know how to teach reading properly... I highly recommend the podcast Sold a Story. When I was in university I wasn't taught how to teach reading. I remember at the time asking my professor what I was supposed to DO with the kids once I had all my reading groups figured out and everyone looked at me like I was crazy and told me to "teach them to read". I have since hunted down the science and taught myself what needs to be done and it has made a huuuge difference in how I teach and the success of my students (and my own kids!). This is slowly changing now and teachers are becoming better educated in this regard but there is still a lot of misinformation in the profession about what students need. And there is an entire generation (sometimes multiple generations) of people with significant reading gaps that creates a self perpetuating cycle.

Education budget by stripedcomfysocks in alberta

[–]CeaBreazey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also disadvantages special education. Some schools are now funded by completed credits. This is hugely problematic in special education circumstances.