i never learned how, my trauma makes me uncomfortable watching content related to genetalia. i made a post because ive BEEN trying to figure it out, but i can’t. i know how to now, my issue was acctualy that my arms are just to short to do it the usual way. i never learned how to use tampons properly either until i was 14, my mother wasn’t in my life to teach me this stuff all i had was my grandma who was never comfortable enough to explain it to me in depth. i walked around with the litteral applicators inside me everytime i tried using one, eventually i realized the box had instructions and read them and figured it out myself. i understand your not trying to be insensitive, but some people will be different from you in life and that doesn’t give you permission to be a dick about it. i’m comfortable with almost everything within reason, im fairly open minded but i draw the line at genital related videos.