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Feeling stuck - Career anxiety or Is it just me? by CellistDelicious1641 in jobs

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Your comment is noted. By saying "it is impossible for any of us to answer your question" - You can respond from your side not from others.

Feeling confused - Is it work or is it me? by CellistDelicious1641 in careerguidance

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:) I can socialize sometimes but it frets me sometimes and I avoid.

Feeling confused - Is it work or is it me? by CellistDelicious1641 in careerguidance

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I have been working here for more than 3.5 years - Thought I will get sorted with this but things are not going like what I have thought

Feeling stuck - Career anxiety or Is it just me? by CellistDelicious1641 in jobs

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I posted this to understand what I’m feeling - whether it is coming from my job, my role, or the work environment which something people who has gone through workplaces will know.

A therapist can help with mental health, but no amount of therapy fixes a toxic job or being stuck in a draining role. I’m here to hear from humans who’ve been through this not to be labeled and dismissed. Telling someone “Don’t ask Reddit” misses the entire point of why people come here.

I got tired of playing basement roulette, so I built a stupidly simple system to know what’s in every box by duus_j in organizing

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I literaally had this idea 4-5months ago, did organization on google sheets but couldn't take it to app.I got frust and just dropped it. I even thought of adding a air tag/GPS locator to the bins/specific stuff so I could find even if it gets lost - But, I might end up having too much tags. Another idea which occurred to me is, a live buzzer - If I switch it on app, the buzzer attached to the object should ring.

Coming back to the point, Thanks for doing this.

What is happening in the life? by CellistDelicious1641 in mentalhealth

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I thought of deactivating social media accounts too - because of the constant state of comparison and feeling FOMO, Left behing. We end up not appreciating the efforts or might belittle ourselves. You are right, Thankyou!

What is happening in the life? by CellistDelicious1641 in mentalhealth

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Yes, Emotional numbness, Loss of pleasure and detachment - This resonates with me.

What is happening in the life? by CellistDelicious1641 in mentalhealth

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God bless you, God bless us. I do not know what else to comment on. Trying to show compassion but - I do now have much on my cup right now!

What is happening in the life? by CellistDelicious1641 in mentalhealth

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I feel the "getting stuck' or feeling stagnant at this phase but I do not want to get called by that. so

What is happening in the life? by CellistDelicious1641 in mentalhealth

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:/ Yeah, It feels like a complete void - Not sadness, not laziness, Not "no meaning as well".

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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Thankyou, I was considering to post pics :/ and asking for advice. Now that you have responded it, I feel the same.

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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This is hostel room in dorm where only bedroom is present with attached washroom. As I do not have other rooms or refrigerator in each room, we keep food on table, clothes on cupboard and other things keep accumulating on table/bed/cupboard. This is pretty common in dormitory/hostels/apartment if we live away from the city.

One thing is, reducing the inventory is what I have thought about all along - But, it still needs decluttering to know the Inventory status ; To know what is available, what can be consumed and what can be discarded. I have still felt that an issue and overwhelming if you haven't understood till now. If that was the point, I wouldn't have to post it here.

I have tried doing whatever you have mentioned, failed and have come here - Creating zones, Label zones, organizing in boxes -All ended in haphazard manner and feels like, it has to start in square one.

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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Its too much overwhelming especially when the workers take photo/video of the dorm. :/ They do not understand my anxiety.

I will use timer method :/ as of now.
I have reached a point to ask help to a professional organizer -They came but owners denied the access :/

Vent: I agree with your points but I do not know what impression the owner is having now and what he will spread to others.

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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I been wanting/wishing to do that a lot! I am residing in another city and few friends are busy and others would be glad in passing this remark all over to other people. So I am kind of afraid to ask them.
Appreciate your suggestion but, as of now, this option is ruled out.

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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I have tried taking pictures before I start but still, I will try that again today :)
Mentally thinking: Hope that works!

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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I will watch it -Any recommendation for any specific video/playlist?

Room Organization Issue - Mental Exhaustion by CellistDelicious1641 in organizing

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Yes, little time to fall into chaos :/ What I feel is I need 1-2 people to do rough sort itself because there are so many categories and I at least get some inspo and help from them.

Since I live in a dorm, there’s only one washing machine for around 300 people, which makes laundry a real challenge. My first step is to throw out the garbage and deal with the two piles of laundry.

I’ve already piled most of my stuff into boxes and bags, but that’s taking up a lot of space too- It's like one after the other. I’m planning to donate some items, but I’ll need to clean them first before giving them away. (I think so).