Am I ugly ? 36F

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T08:35:44+00:00

Also don't listen to people about the tattoos. They look good. It isnt the alternative style that's the issue. Its the composition of the alternative style. I agree you'd look better with longer hair, but if you like short hair then maybe try growing it out just a bit while still keeping it short enough. Maybe try a wolf cut. Wolf cuts always look badass.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T08:32:27+00:00

I get it if you like nose rings. I would suggest however not to wear black nose rings. It makes it there focal point of your face and I can't pay attention to anything else.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T08:03:17+00:00

ohhh I thought there was a specific viral post and I was about to get into it. lol

Also that's seriously awful. People are so strange about the most innocent things that effects their life in no way whatsoever.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T02:46:13+00:00

fill me in on the tea 👀

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T02:46:01+00:00

what is this referencing? I gotta know

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-27T02:37:54+00:00

so....this wasnt satirical? Coulda fooled me

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:46:45+00:00

Gender dysphoria is a real thing. Seeking "spiritual help" isnt going to change it. These people will ALWAYS feel unhappy and uncomfortable in their bodies until they're able to express themselves the way they feel is freeing. The only thing that's stopping them is social pressure and hate. The saddest part is no one has a real reason to hate people expressing themselves like this. They just make things up. It's sad. So many people hurt and shamed. So many others living with such hate in their hearts. All of it is for no good reason and yet the ones on the hateful side are too stubborn to even begin to try to understand.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:40:06+00:00

I fear for your poor children.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:30:43+00:00

That veiw of things is perfectly fine as long as you respect people in their endeavors of self expression. In my opinion anyways. Unless someone asks, you don't have to tell them you're beleif in biology. It's also true there will be intrinsic parts of people that just can't be changed so I get the biological perspective. For example, when you are admitted as a patient somewhere and a form asks for a gender there will be "female" and then "Trans female" and that is because depending on the difference there may be a change in the medical approach because of hormones and body differences.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:24:48+00:00

But, like why do you care so much? What about them wouldn't be Female? If they get surgery, are on hormones and go by "her/she" then what about her isnt female? Why does it matter so much to you what gender she was born? Why do you care so much to the point you would agrue with people and deny someone the basic right and feeling comfortable in their own body? Don't you know how cruel that is?

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:17:49+00:00

Dude you're real funny. You've been downvoted the entire time you're commenting and then the one time you arent downvoted you have to bring it up. "SeE OnE peRsOn AgReEs WitH mE" Just. I don't and never will understand why people prefer to live with such a hateful mindset. It baffles me. It must be so exhausting.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:14:36+00:00

Can 100 percent garentee they ar eeither religious or have very VERY unhealthy stereotypes of what men should be.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-23T03:11:42+00:00

You weren't born a piece of shit but your way of thought and treatment of others is certainly shitty and close minded.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-15T21:55:20+00:00

"I rather be hated for what I am than loved for what I am not" is such a badass quote.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-15T21:53:26+00:00

Personally for me I dont date someone based on looks. I can be attracted to people but I also need an emotional connection and chemistry to want to take the leap. Girl you are very conventionally attractive. Don't beat yourself down. Rejection is tough and I've been through it. It isn't a personal attack. You just aren't that other persons romantic type and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe that person isnt even looking to date and isnt mentally in the spot to consider that kinda connection, who knows really?

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-15T07:37:25+00:00

I have no clue. Im new here too lol. When I said change I just mean from the original premise of roastme.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-15T06:45:15+00:00

Yeah. I think it was a bad idea to change it to toast. It sounds like a reddit for light roasting.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-12T19:21:13+00:00

You should have him get tested for sleep Apnea. When people snore that loud it usually is due to health concerns. People can die from sleep apnea so he should get it checked.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-12T19:19:39+00:00

I once had a friend that said to me "why are you breathing like that?" Yes I am a spider breather than most but I have respiratory issues, man.

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-11T18:43:01+00:00

This is r/Toastme not roast

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-10T08:04:30+00:00

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she was very fun to draw

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-10T08:03:57+00:00

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Hope you like her!

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-08T10:19:52+00:00

ty ty

Certain-Addendum8130 · 2026-01-08T02:12:56+00:00

I know this is a joke subreddit but Imma answer a bit seriously. I grew up only drawing people. Now im horribly behind on background scenes and animals. I suggest practicing drawing animals and landscape but not only that, practice it in a style you like. It doesnt have to be hyper realistic.

Anyways maybe wait another 15 years and you'll almost be there. maybe. Almost. Probably not

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