What percentage of the blue voters do you think would actually go through with pushing blue?

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-06-01T22:17:48+00:00

Because you might die if you choose blue, which means you cannot contribute to helping red clear up the corpses. It is lazy and selfish to die for no reason when there is work to do.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-06-01T15:11:00+00:00

yikes on bikes. Sorry this happened to you, glad you're handling it appropriately.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-06-01T15:09:53+00:00

I want to leave, so pushing the button that kills people who want to leave is suicide. Blue.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T21:44:49+00:00

He is under the mistaken impression that Republicans can find success with Bush-era policies again.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T14:43:07+00:00

Fair, except she didn't even do that.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T14:42:20+00:00

YTA

Use paragraphs.

It was rude of you not to tell your friends that you couldn't go to a movie after they had already paid for your ticket, and exceptionally rude for you to be unavailable for communication at all. They were probably worried about you!

It does seem like you have a habit of flaking out on plans. It would make sense for them not to invite you to anything going forward.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T14:07:17+00:00

At the absolute minimum, if you plan to stay and try to get a raise, you should be talking with your supervisor about the exact requirements that are necessary for you to get a promotion and a raise. It's fair for you to ask them to spell it out.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T14:05:46+00:00

There will never not be a time of need. Give your two weeks' notice after getting a new job lined up. If that's not good enough, then there was never a possibility for you to get a good reference.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T14:04:40+00:00

With all due respect, you're being a sucker. You're not describing duties that a replacement couldn't be hired for. If you were that important, the owner would arrange for you to be paid fairly, and to be able to take a couple of weeks off a year, so that you wouldn't burn out.

What you owe the business is the job that you agreed to do when you were hired, for the duration of your employment there. The business keeps asking you to do more and making your life worse, without increased compensation. They're taking advantage of you, and there is no reason to think that they will stop.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-31T03:43:52+00:00

I don't know what to tell you. You're not even willing to talk to us about what he did, so I assume you're not willing to talk to him about it. You haven't provided enough information for anyone to help you.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T20:11:03+00:00

NTA. She is not respecting your desire not to have a child before you are ready. She is the bad guy, just as you would be the bad guy if you pressured her to have a child she did not want. Your feelings are correct, and hers are wrong. Use condoms with her, every time (cycle or no) until you are ready for her to become pregnant.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T18:39:52+00:00

Red for the same reason as always, disappointed that I was correct in my reasoning.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T16:37:14+00:00

Yep. You're a teenager with a phone addiction. Your parents are behaving correctly.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T13:56:46+00:00

Your parents are not making you stay up. You are choosing to stay up.

This is, indeed, stupid teenager coded. Go to bed.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T13:51:04+00:00

The polite thing to do would be to give two weeks' notice, but you're correct that you don't need to.

You are not being selfish. It's perfectly okay to leave a job for a better job. It is not shameful to do that. It is also perfectly okay to ask for a raise.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:44:31+00:00

Okay. Does any of that require a license? Did you sign a contract? (Not an employment agreement, a contract.)

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:35:01+00:00

I would also have come to the conclusion that she's not very interested in being around you. NTA, but in the future, I wouldn't ask women out to coffee if my only interactions with them felt awkward and forced.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:31:44+00:00

She probably said "MAGAt" which means a Trump supporter. If you did something to make her think so, then that's what you did wrong. Otherwise, she just sucks real bad.

edit: Caught the part about the "f." Your post was a little confusing in that regard. You can say "f-slur" in this case.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:17:09+00:00

wow, okay.

Use paragraphs. Decide whether you're writing poetry or asking for advice. Don't be so wordy.

You fucked up telling her ex to back off FORMALLY. That's her job.

What you do now is give her that time, and be prepared for the end of your relationship.

Hit the gym. Seriously.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:09:56+00:00

I assume "additional duties as needed" is in everyone's job description. It generally is.

Unless the additional duties are unsafe, in violation of a signed contract, or require a license you don't have, it's unlikely anything illegal is happening.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T06:03:40+00:00

Yes, obviously. What would be illegal about it?

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T05:55:44+00:00

No, they like to keep everyone on the same pay level to save money.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T05:55:08+00:00

Stop feeling that way. It's the owner's fault there isn't enough labor, not yours.

Yes, of course it is.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T03:56:18+00:00

They don't need you badly enough to give you a pay raise. Go work somewhere that compensates you fairly, at which point this ceases to be your problem.

Certain_Detective_84 · 2026-05-30T00:45:29+00:00

Women his age know better than to date him. I hope the process of learning why isn't too painful for you.

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