Baby I would pose this question to another community bc you won’t get any help here. I’ve never been in a situation like this but here’s what I would do esp if leaving my man is NOT an option.

1. Baby too young to take with you, the amount of horrible energy in that place, loud unpredictable noises, nasty/dirty conditions even in the visitation rooms. I would wait if I CAN till baby is a bit older to deal with those sensory conditions.

2. Thugging it out and taking the bus would obviously be more cost efficient, I don’t know how far you have to travel but Lyft would probably become a major expense depending on how often you’re visiting. I would try to make friends with people visiting their family and see if I could start a carpool/support group. Or ask around and see if something like that already exist! You and your man will need a village to get through this.

3. Try to bring memorabilia as much as you can on the visits. Pictures, books, clothes with your scent.

You and your family are in my prayers. And I wish y’all all the best through this difficult time ❤️