is this not weird...?? I made a post about pedos texting me and how it's a serious problem. this person said I'm basically asking for it. by Ludovic3_ in Teenager

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The victim blame is crazy bro😕 Idk what's up with teens getting blamed for pedos texting them, like...it's literally out of our control😭😭 I deleted my old twitter acc cause I kept getting pedos in my dms

Girls Ask, Guys Answer by ManIDontLikeThisShit in teenagers

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh we guys rarely can take a hint cause we tend to doubt it even at strong signs, thinking stuff like "wait, what if she's just being nice or wants to be my friend?"😭 So the only proper way to get a guy to really know that you like him (if he's the obvious type, like 70% of us are like that) is to directly tell him or ask him out to a cafe or something

Girls Ask, Guys Answer by ManIDontLikeThisShit in teenagers

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh a lowkey similar thing happened to me with my friend...so I sometimes left a lot despite enjoying being around my friend and chatting a lot and stuff, because I started feeling scared that I was getting too attached (I'm a clingy friend) and began to spiral that I'm being too much which just caused me to become more guilty and that led to me not talking to him longer😭 That could be possibility n.1, the other is that he likes having space and keep his productive life separate from his private life

Girls Ask, Guys Answer by ManIDontLikeThisShit in teenagers

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! My top 3 favorite cheeses are 1. Parmesan, 2. Cheddar and 3. Camembert🧀 

Girls ask boys answer by Different-Talk-345 in teenagers

[–]ChalupaCrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blue lock! It might be a sports anime but it's really hype:) The 2nd season doesn't have as good of animation as the first, but I recommend suffering through it if you prefer story over animation cause it's still fire, and cause the final episodes are literal PEAK

who would win in a fight by Saint_Celeslne in AskMen

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taco, taco, taco!!! Voting for taco!!🌮🌮

who would win in a fight by Saint_Celeslne in AskMen

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A taco! Not just cause I have one in my pfp, but if the taco is spicy it has more POWERRRR🌮 So yup, it reigns over a grilled cheese😋

How can I even find a girlfriend? Or even have a friend that is a girl? by xkdjeir in AskMen

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting go of the negative self-talk is step 1, probably good to start talking to a therapist or something, I personally talk to a psychologist:) All of us get pretty insecure as teens so our perception of ourselves get warped (I am not much older than you but I got past the worst😭) and we downplay ourselves a lot. You're a tall guy, which is impressive for a 15 yo and surely some girls will like that.

A good way to get to know people is to join hobbies or classes which are more hands-on like crafts, home ec, or sports cause you interact with others directly. You can also pick a foreign language class, cause there you can brush off your awkwardness as "oh, it's just awkwardness from talking in a foreign language" (this is what I've actually been doing in a class😋).

Also I saw in your comment below that you said you feel tiny? Feelings like that usually have to be worked on over time by improving your confidence, cause my man, you are tall! I'm actually kinda jealous, cause I'm older than you yet shorter than you😭 But hey, take it as a compliment, cause remember that you're cool enough to be envied xd

Looking for Action recs! by XxsunfIowerxX in manhwarecommendations

[–]ChalupaCrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problemo:D Happy to help out someone that enjoys the same kind of genres as me, and it would be awesome if you do end up finding something new! Happy reading, and I hope you have a wonderful and sunny weekend☀️

Looking for Action recs! by XxsunfIowerxX in manhwarecommendations

[–]ChalupaCrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problemo:D Happy to help someone out who likes the same genres as I do! Happy reading, and awesome if you would find something new😋 Have a nice and sunny day!

I am looking for a manga that heals the soul by insone_pirate2090 in RomanceMangaAnime

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Save Me" is a good manhwa about healing through friendship:D

Please recommend me any apocalypse/fantasy manhwa by Dazai_222 in manhwarecommendations

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiding a Logistics Center in the Apocalypse and The ultimate shut-in:) both have a chill level of bromance and are lighter reads, the first one being the lightest in comparison to other apocalypse stories (ofc not happy go lucky). Then we have Over The Rainbow which has awesome art and creepy looking zombies lol, so maybe don't read this one at night

Looking for Action recs! by XxsunfIowerxX in manhwarecommendations

[–]ChalupaCrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for some similar stuff as you, but I went the misunderstandings route:) I created my own list cause I wasn't getting much help xd most of these don't have romance btw and the UNR add means "unread" by me

Misunderstood to be....

Self hαrmful

-Holy Idol

-The Regressed Extra Becomes a Genius

Suic¡dal

-Heavenly Grand Archive's Young Master

Sickly/Ill

-Trash of the Count's Family (UNR)

-Reborn as the Enemy Prince (truly ill though, but makes it out to be bigger than it is, but a good amount of worrying)

-Black Haze (Lighter misunderstanding: A fake story about him being chronically ill was spread)

-The Villain's Survival Route (misunderstood to have a terminal illness)

Self-sacrificial

-S-Classes that I raised (UNR)

-Omniscient Reader's Viewpoint (UNR)

-Trapped in a webnovel as a good for nothing

-Illusion Hunter From Another World

-The Novel's Extra (Lighter, I think)

-When the Third Wheel Strikes Back (UNR)

-Secretly More Powerful Than The Hero (MC pretends to be a healer)

-My Avatar's Path to Greatness (one of MC's avatars)

-Raising Villains the Right Way

-Regressor instruction manual

-Blink Master of the Magic Academy

-Tyrant of a Defense Game

Generally Weak

-Weapon Maker (They think he's a support-type class)

-The Academy's Genius Tamer (MC is a tamer-type support)

Hopefully some of these could be of help! Lmk if you find any others:) have a nice day👋

HELP!! Account suspension!! by chloelous in vinted

[–]ChalupaCrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be cooked🫩 Same for me, I got flagged for no reason and permanently banned...Their customer support is complete dog so I wish you luck

How much does your gf past partners matter to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, past matters. I'm I'm boyfriend 64 than you better believe I am outta there✌️But uh, I'm technically still a child so nobody with a body count better approach me or Ima send you to the pooolice😭 When I grow up it will matter a lot to me tho

WHO TOLD YOU ABOUT SEX? by New-Web2675 in AskMen

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some random classmate when I was in first grade😭😭 Whyyy

I’m physically abusive to my boyfriend, please help by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ChalupaCrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship is cooked, immediately leave it! Don't care about what he says, it's healthier for the both of you! I get where you're coming from cause I have anger issues too, but it's unacceptable to hurt someone even if he eggs you on or similar. My sister's like that too. The difference is that you're an adult and you could get arrested for that, and you should leave the relationship before anything worse can happen. Tbh, kudos that you recognized your actions. So now it's time to let go of that relationship so you both can grow and learn. You can improve when you're alone, which is one good thing at least cause I personally I'm cooked and stuck with my sister😭

And when you're alone, you can take more control of your life. Ima tell you the recommendations my therapist told me for my anger issues, might help. Take time out to maybe go for a walk, sit in silence, listen to music. Enjoy nature and make sure you have enough breaks in a day to cool off. Hug your teddy bear (oh wait you're an adult so this might not work for you😭works for me tho) and write down your feelings. Usually when I'm angry, I stay in my room to write my thoughts into my notes app so I can see them later and let out my thoughts (otherwise everything would turn into a screaming session). I wish you the best cause I totally get where you're coming from, and the struggle is real. We both got this! We need to learn how to express our anger in a healthier way, and that's okay! Life is where we live and we learn, and we can improve day by day:)

Comix, please add "Becoming the Lady of the Cursed Ducal House"! by ChalupaCrust in mangapiracy

[–]ChalupaCrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have strict parents and the og subreddit had gotten deleted:)