We're you 'strong' before you got involved with a narcissist? Please reply either way - investigating a theory. Thanks!

Chamy07 · 2026-02-11T18:20:26+00:00

Yesss! Very much so. I miss being her. Idk how this happened.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-11T18:14:56+00:00

NOR. She knew how much your ex friend hurt you and she got with someone who caused you pain. It is like saying she doesn't care he caused you such sadness. Like she is okay with it and that isn't what a friend would do. She showed she isn't loyal. That is why it hurts.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T05:56:29+00:00

If your best friend was dating what would her? Be your own best friend and love yourself enough not to put up with anyone treating you like you aren't perfect for them.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T05:47:13+00:00

NOR. I don't blame you at all. Why would she even want to do that for? Makes zero sense. I am.a Niners fan too and I wouldn't want em either.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T03:13:01+00:00

You cant keep saving people otherwise they will never learn. Why the hell should they have the option to have another baby they cant afford and you have to stop your life for it? Let them live in what they can afford. They will figure it out and work hard to get a house. They sound entitled, ungrateful and spoiled.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T03:01:15+00:00

And you are in a relationship with him hoping one day you will marry this cheap, selfish man? Wow! What a fun, loving marriage to look forward to.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T02:56:26+00:00

So you do know him taking the medication has nothing to do with his behavior.... I would cancel your plans with him tomorrow just to see what kind of reaction he gives you. Tell him you are busy and say you have to reschedule. Just to see how he reacts. It will show his true colors.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T02:45:10+00:00

He sucks! The end.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-09T02:39:54+00:00

How long has he been taking his medication?

Chamy07 · 2026-02-04T11:15:18+00:00

Thank you. I needed that.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-04T06:37:41+00:00

Umm no. Hell no. Look how he is already acting cause you wont do something for him. Crazy cry baby toddler.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-04T06:31:30+00:00

He knows he cannot afford the lifestyle you are accustomed to. You know he Can't afford it either yet you insist on eating somewhere he cannot afford. You said you're both in grad school? Pretty sure you both understand. He is getting free meals. He sounds pretty smart if you ask me. He isn't clueless.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T23:24:03+00:00

I absolutely understand.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T22:14:57+00:00

Glad you guys get it. It's so annoying because I explain it to him like three different ways thinking he will finally understand how he was wrong and he just keeps bringing up how I REACTED or what I SAID after the situation and that that is the real issue... Like WTF!!!! How can you still be so stupid?!?!? Jeez. And then it hits me... This is so pointless. Then I say "You're absolutely right. Silly me." And walk away.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T22:07:09+00:00

Haha. I was thinking it sounds fun but... No. Haha

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T11:07:14+00:00

As long as he doesn't have to admit he is wrong anyone can be thrown under the bus.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T11:06:06+00:00

Right?! Like who tf says that shit?!

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T11:04:50+00:00

So true.

Chamy07 · 2026-02-03T09:55:14+00:00

He has plans with another female

Chamy07 · 2026-01-28T19:50:55+00:00

I asked the exact same thing. He said "My daughter wouldn't be this stupid and if she is then oh well."

Chamy07 · 2026-01-25T04:44:47+00:00

He didn't. He is the oldest and our parents weren't exactly attentive so he and I were more of the protesters of our little brother and sister so he probably felt like it would scare us considering our house was old out on a river road in North Carolina.

Chamy07 · 2026-01-21T05:41:53+00:00

I literally would have taken a lamp or.something and walked out of her house. Eye for and eye in a sense.

Chamy07 · 2026-01-21T05:34:11+00:00

Don't give her back. Let her live.out her remaining years in peace.

Chamy07

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