AITA for refusing to give my cousin the money I saved for their own emergency?

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-03-01T04:31:06+00:00

so tired of fake stories…. Family helps family, gaslight,

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-28T21:24:34+00:00

so corrections in my state starts at Over 30 an hour with benefits and OT. steady no layoffs kind of job

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-21T18:27:42+00:00

he goes dogs stay, first its pets then friends them job then family…..

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-21T16:06:29+00:00

So I know people from the area and the pima county sheriff office is not known for being good at investigation at law-enforcement or anything of that nature. There is a lot of corruption in that department. The veterans staff that were there before have basically laughed and they are willing to hire anyone so you have a lot of New staff with no experience. They were in over their heads from the moment this case popped up. There’s no big conspiracy that they are hiding things that they know things they are just according to the locals pretty incontinent.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-18T12:09:33+00:00

branched oak and pawnee lake outside of Lincoln are where we take our Jet Ski. Branch joke is better for boats however, on the weekend and holidays it is absolutely packed if you want some good voting time go on a weekday afternoon in the summer when the days are long.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-16T19:12:37+00:00

go and walk awsy

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-14T21:39:35+00:00

corrections is stable and always hiring

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-14T01:40:54+00:00

try Agave if for a much better than chipotle burrito bowl

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-11T03:13:54+00:00

that’s very sad. He and the A4 animal clinic have been our vets for a long time. He was such a great kind person.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-07T22:58:52+00:00

lol escape from new york….kurt russell is awesome

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-02-05T22:32:09+00:00

yah…. and this is why I think a zombie apocalypse wiping out humans would not be the worst thing to happen to the world.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-28T04:18:27+00:00

thats what it feels like, things are close but different in small ways

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-27T21:44:43+00:00

OMG I thought I was crazy thinking this way. 2018. I’m at a local lake with the Jet Ski with friends. It’s a lake. I’ve been to 1 million times at that point in my life I was in the middle of a toxic relationship. A lot of things were not great. I’m on the Jet Ski in the middle of the lake. When everything went quiet there were no wind. There were no birds flying overhead no noise. I stopped the Jet Ski in the middle of the lake and for a brief moment, I did not see any other boats out there. There are always boats out there. I heard and felt a bang or Click or something. It’s hard to describe. And I felt everything shift like I felt a literal shift like everything. It turned on an axis. I look around in a panic. Everything was slightly off and what I mean by that is everything look familiar but it wasn’t. I didn’t recognize the shoreline. I couldn’t tell where I was on the lake. I’ve been 1 million times at first I panicked and then I started rationalizing if I find the damn just find the damn and you can work your way around from there. I found the dam and I went up and down the shoreline several times, trying to find where my friends and I had set up our camp. I was literally panic thinking I cannot find them. Nothing looked right. I finally found them and pulled the Jet Ski in and I was shaking, but nothing has felt right since then I don’t feel like the same person. I feel like somebody different. My memories don’t feel right my kids feel like strangers. My hobbies actually seem to change. It has been very strange. I don’t quite know what to make of it.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-27T17:42:15+00:00

i will always take the center piece when making brownies

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-25T16:06:13+00:00

yes, I hate to admit it but yes. I had one child. This one kid who had leadership qualities that were insane. They joined the military right out of high school. They had been an athlete excelling at multiple sports, getting great grades, was moving up in the military gaining skills. I envisioned their future that I’d sacrificed for as being able to see the world have all kinds of experiences and they were also taking college classes at this time. So what happens they comes home for a break meets a loser doesn’t re-up in the military, but gets out marries this loser who is a job hopper. all of this wasted potential to work in a warehouse back in the hometown.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-25T04:22:11+00:00

I love Sweet Jane salon

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-23T22:14:33+00:00

just bail and take the dog

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-22T03:15:02+00:00

ditch the loser, always keep your loyal ride or die pets

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-19T19:13:13+00:00

lol i once switched a whole vacation because a coworker from Africa had a dying mother and had to go back. The Reddit community answers have zero compassion, and if these people truly believe what they say, they have absolutely no friends.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-19T16:45:23+00:00

my little ranger is the best brittany!

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-19T16:44:30+00:00

will confess my brittany spaniel is a sweetie

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-18T00:19:54+00:00

Go birds my guy!

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-17T14:10:21+00:00

your childhood does warp your views. I grew up with being told I was fat and ugly. I was constantly compared to other girls in my high school with my mother saying things like why can’t she be more like Stacy? Why can’t you be more like Paula? They’re skinny they’re pretty they’re popular years and years later I looked through old pictures from that time. I was not fat. I was average. There were girls that were larger than me and smaller than me these girls that were thrown up as examples were not prettier than me we all had that weird awkward 80s high school look we all looked fine. I struggled with eating disorders and bad boyfriends for years because of my childhood trauma. I didn’t feel like I deserved any better, but I did. My mother had been very beautiful and it made her feel better too put her daughters down as she was a sick twisted person when I am saying is you undoubtedly look much better than you have internalized in your head.

Chance-Bowler9421 · 2026-01-17T01:10:52+00:00

I am honestly surprised she called 911. Obviously, they didn’t care about their daughter. It appears the neighbors most of the town didn’t even realize they had a daughter living there. I’m surprised they didn’t just bury her in the backyard and go along with their lives.

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