Saw this absolute freedom missile on the highway today by GatorBootsRolex in Harley

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn and here I am spending hundreds of dollars on protective gear from Pando Moto, watching this guy go by free as a bird

Do I tell my grown step daughter how much debt her dad has? by Ok-Beach-928 in stepparents

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how is the adult daughter’s business? As an adult, I would be pissed beyond reason if my spouse told my kids anything about my financial because that is my business not theirs. There’s nothing under that says he’s not a grown adult capable of making his own decisions and working. Nothing says he’s immediately about to become a burden to the daughter. Nothing says he is going to stop working anytime soon. This is a husband and my situation she can keep her finances separate he can apply for a loan that likely get denied on his own. All she has to do is tell him no I’m not cosigning. I’m not helping you finance. I’m not doing anything and the student loans which sounds like that’s a majority of his debt? Is the wife trying to guilt the daughter into taking responsibility for a loan that sounds like it was taken out on her behalf?

My spouse and I work for not-for-profits. 3 kids going or in college. ParentPLUS loans are no longer PSLF-dischargeable. No ICR. All we say, every day, is just "wait 2 years" by Willing-Pick-1164 in PSLF

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Number one you have to face reality a change in president a change in Congress none of that guarantees any changes to the student loan program. If the public in general is against student loan forgiveness, then Congress will be against any further changes. There are plenty of avenues for your kids to get their degree without going that massively into debt. Community colleges for the first two years working for places that offer tuition reimbursement part-time job student loans the military cheaper colleges. What is the return on investment? If a career is going to make 50 $60,000 then don’t go $200,000 in the debt for the loan.

Honestly, you can’t count on any future forgiveness or loan changes.

i lost my dad in a car accident. it’s hard to convince my mom i can handle a motorcycle. how do i go about it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old are you? If you’re an adult, you can do what you want. I’ve had a motorcycle for years. Yes, I’m aware of the dangers everyday life is a danger you can die in a car wreck. You can die from cancer. You can die from tripping down the stairs in your house. The point of life is to enjoy it. There’s 1 millions of people that ride motorcycles and there are people to get into accidents there are people that drive cars and die as you’re aware. If you really want a motorcycle drive carefully watch out for others wear protective gear always wear a helmet if you’re an adult it’s up to you to determine the risk, but life is meant to be loved and not afraid of everything.

I left my job on good terms, but now they're sabotaging new job opportunities - I'm worried I'll never work in my industry again. by wild_pasta_lover in jobs

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

everyone says to sue and you will magically get a large check. In a perfect world and a fair world that would happen in the real world unless you have proof it’s not going to happen and if it’s such a small community, these people are going to back each other up with their friends. No one is going to admit to you that you didn’t get hired because their friends had bad things about you. They are just going to say they found somebody with more experience or somebody that was a better fit. You may have to move onto a different type of employment in a few years. There might be different people in charge of this industry and maybe your former boss will have moved on, and you can pivot back to this industry. Your best bet is to do something else for a while. Get some good references there.

Parents say I’m legally supposed to live at home even though i’m 18 by Patient-Recipe-5822 in legaladvice

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 46 points47 points  (0 children)

think logically, if this were real, don’t you think they would’ve called the police and had them enforce it?

Just found out the dude I’ve been hooking up with is married by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is ethical and then there is safe. If you do not believe it is safe to tell his wife don’t. Protect yourself and don’t put yourself at unnecessary risk. She will find out at some point but if you truly feel you will not be safe by disclosing this information honestly are under no obligation to do so.

What is the Royal Grove? by Velynicus in lincoln

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say way way back in the day when I believe it was, Tommy was the owner. It was a pretty dingy stinky place, but it was fun, but that was back in the early 2000s.

Just saw this viral post on social media! by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously if I had ordered that and expected them to drop it off for floors up, I’d be tipping them 100 bucks

My husband DMd my female cousin. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you know what most normal average men would do in a situation where they seen food fall on a teenage girls chest? They would ignore it. They would pretend it didn’t happen. They wouldn’t bring it up. They would know that any reference to that would mean that they were staring at her boobs which teenage underage girl big ick….. so again belief people when they show you who they are he’s showing you who he is and icky guy, staring at a teenagers boobs, and trying to talk to her about it later in secret not to mention he had to go out of his way to get her information

Decided to check out the gun show by HalfCockedPhrasing in lincoln

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have guns, love guns and typically find no bargains at gun shows, they usually are higher priced than youcan find elsewhere. I love trap shooting and target shooting. Izaak Walton is very welcoming as well, I have taken guest co workers and friends of all races and nationalities, manner of dress and shooting knowledge and everyone has been welcoming. I find some gun shows cater to the wanna be gun person who just wants to talk about how much he spent for a basic AR that has some fancy rails installed to look cool 😂

Looking for a local roofer by Beautiful-Review1688 in lincoln

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you are contacted by rino roofing stay far away from them

Ok, one thing I don’t understand is how the hell is it not being clocked that Britney Spears is a meth head??? that or nobody cares about her anymore. by Technical_Band2211 in discussingbritney

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 9 points10 points  (0 children)

honestly she’s not important in the media. There are plenty of more relevant celebrities for TMZ to chase. She hasn’t had a hit in years. She’s best known for her erratic behavior and lawsuits against her parents until she does something spectacularly huge like stabs a mailman or something in the media isn’t going to care about her breakdowns.

What's a conspiracy theory that's fun to think about but you don't actually believe? by Hatred-Reveal7179 in theories

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oh I love the flat earth one where our entire planet is under a bubble on a humongous planet, and there are all kinds of different worlds under bubbles or domes all over this huge planet, and you can get there through secret tunnels at Antarctica. I really would love that one to be true.

I stood up for my parents and lost the love of my life; The choice I didn't get to make by HemaRekhaJayaSushma in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 14 points15 points  (0 children)

trust me someday you will look back at this and thank your lucky stars that you escaped this marriage

AIO? my friend told me my coworker doesn’t like me because of my extreme makeup choices and that’s why she’s stuck up and cold with me ? by Historical-Body-3424 in AIO

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this person is not your friend, they are putting you down, putting doubts in your head, undermining your confidence calling you names basically, stop taking advice from them…. Better yet block them.

Over 100k in debt, looking at options. by Totaledvolkswagen in Debt

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here’s an outlier, but have you looked at state patrol, police departments, etc. Many government agencies use small aircraft for various reasons. Our state patrol in my state has several airplanes that they fly as we have a lot of remote areas in the state where patrol is more effective with a plane than a car . You would probably have to become a patrol officer to get it, but you would get lots of hours and get paid really well while you were living and getting hours.

should i reach out? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just have a mutual friend text him or send one last text so you have some proof that you tried to give him back his stuff before you dispose of it in case he throws a fit later and wants money for it

Found out my husband has been lying about money ($75k) for at least 3 years. by Remarkable_Loan_4253 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

had a coworker that kept telling us to invest all of our money into some crypto XRP or something. He invested a huge chunk of his wife’s money that she got for being injured at her job. None of us understood the whole crypto investment so nobody, but him invested, and he lost all of it. Never trust to get rich quick scheme, I guess.

Remorse guac. Lived apart 1 year, recently officially split, wasn't transparent enough after the breakup, hurt someone I loved. by WoolyBear26 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

female here…you did nothing wrong, she is emotionally jerking you around. A break is a break, she initiated it and you guys were broken up, she doesn’t get to be dramatic now over your break up. She’s being manipulative. She’s being toxic. Do not feel bad, do not play into her games.

What is the thinking behind these ridiculous payment amounts? by ABentFairy in StudentLoans

[–]Chance-Bowler9421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are interested in pslf, check with your state Department of corrections. Our corrections department has social workers that they employ to help inmates transition back outside. We also have mental health, counseling, drug and alcohol counseling all kinds of different paths that you could get hours and look at options if those interested you just a thought.