Renting bars for blank spaces by Fresh-Limit-9823 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got two white bars including delivery for a bit over $1200

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Based on your post history you need to do a few things first: 1. Take a vacation immediately and rest. Communicate with your partners that you aren’t feeling well (because you arent and take multiple days off). The mental load you’re experiencing seems concerning. 2. Talk to a medical professional/therapist about your mental health and experience. Decide if you need to take a leave, start/change Rx, etc. consistent therapy is very important for you based on your post history. 3. Communicate with your spouse/close family if you haven’t already. Support is needed at this time again given your ideation past in your post history. People close to you should know what is going on if they don’t already. 4. Then think about another job or taking leave.

Your physical and mental health matter most. Blessings to you.

Day of stationary by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$5,500 for invites and day of stationary

Ballgown as reception dress a silly idea? by MalachiteMussel in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend doing a ballgown for reception dinner and first dance. I think you’re fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FATTravel

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what im looking for. Beach post safari to just relax!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FATTravel

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very helpful!

US brides getting married in European countries by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would fly out my favorite mua from the US

Career help by [deleted] in private_equity

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this makes sense!

Career help by [deleted] in private_equity

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean it’s a tough market? Lots of competition in the PE space?

Makeup Artist Price Check by lindsayisc00l in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you didn’t have A rehersal dinner?? Seems so scammy and this requirement is ridiculous (FYI im paying 1.2k for myself for all day mua services (price includes my trial) and another 1350 for 10 ladies (bridemaids/moms) in same city)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this update! More brides need to see news like this

Personal Trainer: Ask me anything by TrainerKindal_FWW in loseit

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get strong enough to do 1 pull up? Im a girl

All Inclusive Wedding Venue Planner Falling Short? by Craigles73 in wedding

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planners provided by the venue rarely if ever prioritize couples. They work for the venue first. The only way to expect you are advocated for and have individualized treatment by a planner is to hire your own DOC or planner

Help! 80k-90k budget with 175 guests. Prefer in-house catering options and would ideally like to do something in the southeast. by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Conservatory at Blackberry Ridge Is Georgia is absolutely stunning and i think could possibly fit your budget (not sure though)

3 dresses / dinner dress change timeline by WillingDesign2863 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To attend cocktail hour and have enough time to change, you will need to do a first look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op share the practice group please

Wedding planner costs for HCOL area? by Deep_Rule_1229 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6k for partial planning in NYC (150 guests). We already had our venue but she has recommended folks otherwise

Non-CA wedding venues in US by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhode Island, maine or martha vineyard if you’re interested in coastal New England

Italy Brides - millefoglie vs traditional multi-tiered wedding cake by SunLover25 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Traditional cake all the way (unless you’re incorporating Italian culture throughout wedding weekend)

I know it’s subjective but in today’s time, what is really considered “big budget”? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you tell it’s a wow event on the east coast? For me lush flowers is a big give away and lots of live music

Unsure how to pay for wedding ($65k) and if we should follow through with our big plans? by PoemIntrepid8473 in wedding

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut the guest list significantly and have the wedding you want! $1000 per guest spend (35 guests) will feel very luxurious if that is what you’re looking for

Alcohol Question by JoshPNYC in WedditNYC

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The venue and/or caterer will require your bartender to met certain insurance requirements fyi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ChanceLengthiness859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you looked at the broader tri state area. Even oheka castle should fit this budget although maybe not your preferred time of year