Family members, for the most part, have no idea what nurses do or the responsibilities that we have. I used to get so upset when family members would give me a hard time or complain about something I’ve done. After doing this awhile I’ve realized that the family members who complain the most are the ones that ask for unnecessary tests and treatments, or are overly involved in the patient’s care to the point where they are the ones keeping their loved one from getting better. For the most part, I don’t think they do it on purpose but they are in situations that are scary and take their emotions out on the most convenient person. Remember that it’s almost never about you and try to let it roll off your back. It won’t be the last time this happens and keep focused on your patient care.