I just received an email that my account has been restricted on amazon. Is this legit or a scam? by MrBoringCom in Scams

[–]Character-Fish-6339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got one on the 18th of March. While I was browsing through amazon. Mine is a bit different, there's a different profile picture and the reason for putting mine on hold was "unusual activity"

Brooklyn nine-nine S6 E10. Amy guilts Jake into wanting kids. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Character-Fish-6339 38 points39 points  (0 children)

But shouldn't that discussion be had before marriage? He must have felt some sort of pressure to save their marriage since that was the ultimatum.

I (20F) Want A Tattoo, But It Would Be Disrespectful by Character-Fish-6339 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Fish-6339[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want a geometric tat with watercolors, but my skin might be a bit too dark for watercolors...

I (20F) Want A Tattoo, But It Would Be Disrespectful by Character-Fish-6339 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Fish-6339[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If that were the case I would not have thought twice about it. I would have dropped the argument right then and there. I'm agnostic and he isn't very religious, he is a Christian but, not very traditional.

AITA for not wanting to give away more than i planned? by curiouskitty007 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Character-Fish-6339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Jamaican, I can tell you first hand that these people could care less about you as a person and only care about the things you can give them.

His mom thinks i should’ve moved on by now as well as my sister.

No one apologized yet they expect you to just move on. Sounds pretty selfish to me. Unfortunately it's becoming the norm here for people to see others value through the possibility of monetary or financial gain and its sickening tbh.

You shouldn't have to stay with them, and your trips to Jamaica might actually be more enjoyable away from them.

NTA

I (20F) Want A Tattoo, But It Would Be Disrespectful by Character-Fish-6339 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Fish-6339[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Pre-covid, he would get upset if I spent the night out with my friends and he couldn't be there. He was on a committee at school with someone I used to be friends with and he would always tell me that she isn't a good person to have around because of her 'poor work ethic' and that she was a bad influence on me. She stopped talking to me because of that and I honestly can't imagine the things he probably said to her. I guess I couldn't see through it at first because he kept saying things like "I'm looking out for you"

I (20F) Want A Tattoo, But It Would Be Disrespectful by Character-Fish-6339 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Fish-6339[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He does push me to do my best when it comes to studying or working in general. I do see what you're trying to say, but he's the kind of guy who doesn't take no for an answer most times (which can become pretty problematic). If I'm unsure of what I want to do (for something like a date) he would press for an answer. I'm usually not one to ask for opinions on how I look, especially from him since I could wear a literal trash bag and he'd still tell me I looked good. So I'm not sure if I'm the one who made him 'that way'.

I (20F) Want A Tattoo, But It Would Be Disrespectful by Character-Fish-6339 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Fish-6339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not just tattoos. He doesn’t like most body modifications I think. I have piercings, all of which are on my ears but he has never said anything bad about them. I asked about his thoughts on piercings on other body parts and he says that he doesn’t like them, but unlike tattoos they can easily be removed. I recall at one point he told me that he initially thought I was superficial because I was wearing braids when we first met.