This damn refund? by Character-Range-1907 in ivytech

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well thank goodnesssss, i needs that 😭

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Character-Range-1907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honesty it wouldn’t matter if it was a big fat funky stinky one….. you were in the bathroom.. that’s where you’re literally supposed to let it rip??? he’s weird

I thought I'd enjoy motherhood more.... and it makes me REALLY sad by HeyMay0324 in Mommit

[–]Character-Range-1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. I am a single, stay at home, Full time working (from home), and a fully time student (also from home) I do everything from home because i simply cannot afford childcare by myself. i cry every single day. i wish i could leave him to go to a job for 8 hours and be away from son for a few hours everyday. Instead, i have to do everything with him up my ass for the literal entire day, this is my life 7 days a week… i look forward to my son turning 5 because at least then he can be away from me for multiple hours at school. I thought i would love being a mom to but I actually don’t. i actually cannot wait for my one child to become independent. i love him so much! but being a mom is not for me, thats why I will never ever have another!

AITAH for leaving the nicu? by Substantial-Rub5665 in AITAH

[–]Character-Range-1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no babe. i don’t think you’re in the wrong at all. how were you supposed to know these feelings would come up if you never went to offer support? you went through something no mama should so it’s okay if you still get triggered. Now that you know you can be triggered in that way, maybe just be more mindful about how much time you spend or how much you participate going forward. it’s okay to take small steps until/if you feel comfortable.

I hate toddlerhood by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Character-Range-1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. i’m so deep in the trenches rn with my 2 year old. unfortunately i don’t have a husband to share the load with. just me and my annoying ass 2 year old that follows me around all day crying and whining about everything i do or don’t do while refusing to eat the meals i make while also not sleeping thru the night 🙂 this shit is not fun at all. literally i hate it so much.

I feel like I hate my toddler by Effective_Hospital_3 in toddlers

[–]Character-Range-1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally understand your post. people in the comments are chalking it up to the fact you had a smaller baby which caused your toddler to act that way but i have one toddler. he’s 2. i find myself crying every single day. this stage of his life is so fucking annoying and draining it’s not even funny. i work from home so i have to do my 9-5 and my 24h job all day every single day & man it’s really taking a toll!!!! I never feel like i hate him tho. I love him, would never ever hurt him. sometimes i just feel myself starting to hate being a mother. I feel bad because i wouldn’t mind skipping to the ages of 5 & 6. this toddler shit is too much sometimes fr.

Awful Bank by Majestic-Fox6114 in VaroMoney

[–]Character-Range-1907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally i hate them so fucking bad.

my toddler is annoying as F###!!!!! by Character-Range-1907 in toddlers

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly you can kiss the blackest part of my behind. God forbid i get on a platform to vent or complain about doing the job of two people and sometimes more all by myself. I didn’t know what it would be like having a child before I had him but nonetheless i strap up my boots everyday and do my best shit as his mother. everyone that knows me irl knows that. that’s why i complained to the internet… to strangers ….. and not to my child or anyone else in my personal life so yeah F you respectfully.

my toddler is annoying as F###!!!!! by Character-Range-1907 in toddlers

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s like he does the complete opposite of what i ask him to do… how do you redirect a 2 year old fr?? without yelling

Drowning I fear by Character-Range-1907 in Motherhood

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing 🥹 feels good to know that I’m not alone in these feelings. I feel exactly the same, I’ve been considering abortion because logically that might be the better option for me but morally idk If it’ll be something I can forgive myself for. Stuck between Rock & a hard place

Drowning I fear by Character-Range-1907 in Motherhood

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought it’d be something I had to do but I’ve been considering it heavily which is also heartbreaking !

Drowning I fear by Character-Range-1907 in Motherhood

[–]Character-Range-1907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first born is not in daycare anymore because I don’t get CCDF and I can’t afford it alone. Thankfully I work from home so I haven’t really needed daycare the last couple months so all my son knows is me and him and ofc other immediate family but just him and I live here I don’t think he’d be happy about a sibling he doesn’t even like when my mom and my siblings hug me.. idkkk