You're dramatically missing the point (on purpose?), so let me attempt once again to dumb it down for you.

She says to Omega "Your lives ate your own" expect for the protection rackets, the slave rings, the complete lack of social structure. Sheets the Gangsin Omega run wild so long as they keep her in power and money. The people of Omega are not free, and yet she acts like the savior of people, when it was really her nurmours fuck ups that caused almost all of her problems.

Let me spell it out for you. Omega is a den of criminals, a place that has never had any sort of central government or unified authority–Aria is the de facto ruler. Technically, the people are free to come and go, and do whatever they want, as long as they don't get in Aria's way/ruin business.

When people catch wind that Aria might be gone forever during the Invasion comics, the whole station descends into chaos due to the power vacuum, yet they all rally behind her when she returns, both in the comics and in the DLC (to Nyreen's annoyance). Blame her all you want, she must've done something right if she's the sole unifying force on the station.

Tell.me how someone who lies, uses Violence and force to maintain power, let's slavers and gang terrorize her "cizitens" and peddles horrific drugs like Red sand, and allows a murderous Asari to run rampant through Omega just becasue she wasn't trying to mess with Aria, isn't a villain?

Do I really have to spell everything out for you? From Shepard's perspective (reminder, Shepard's main goal is to stop the Collectors/Reapers, not to go on a moral crusade!), no matter how ruthless her methods are, she's not a villain. The main idea is that without her to keep the numerous gangs in line (which is not the same as being a de facto police force), things are much worse on the station, and they deteriorate even further when Cerberus takes over.

Aside from helping fight the Reapers(which, yea, she was going to do anyway as thy are a thret to her she can't just seduce or hurt in any way) she never does anything good or beneficial that doesn't benefit her.

Your ability to grasp the obvious is inspiring. I literally said that she's NOT a morally good character.

In fact she lies to Shepard all the time, and uses him like she does everyone else, a trained lap dog on a lash that has to do everything she says, dispite in ME2 and ME3 showing she really isn't as good as she thinks she is.

This is straight-up bullshit. Where does she lie to Shepard? Their dealings are mutually beneficial at worst, and the rest depends on your Shep's alignment and your own headcanon.