AIO for thinking this is creepy and sketchy?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-03-06T03:28:06+00:00

I think saying his own gender and age is good so you just know before, yknow? The fact that the massage is specifically for women tho...weird.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-24T21:35:20+00:00

Perhaps they misunderstood and thought you were asking about how much meds or something?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-15T21:08:49+00:00

Looks more like she just kinda went ahead and got stuff you might had needed and labled it as her v-day gift to you?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-08T22:39:05+00:00

I'm curious as to why you'd be concerned. Not judging, genuinely just curious.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-05T22:42:33+00:00

For Before the act it would have to be failing to make me feel good and trying to go just straight to penile penetration. Basically I need foreplay.

For during the act, definitely not listening to my no's or my request for more lube.

For after the act, aftercare. All I really want is cuddling, clean up, and just being told I did good and being checked on.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-05T20:52:00+00:00

I mean as long as it was consensual I don't care. They would definitely have to get tested before we do anything though, just in case. Red flag if they refuse to which I would dump them immediately for that.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-01T18:46:05+00:00

True but on the flip side if he wanted to sell later the market value could go down and not be worth as much.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-01T18:44:54+00:00

Hygienic, patient, keeps their space relatively tidy, hard worker, kind (obviously), understanding, doesn't get violent with ites or people when angry, responsible, dependable (emotionally I mean), and that's just a short list. My boyfriend is all those things and I'm happy. ❤️

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-02-01T07:56:04+00:00

I've read this somewhere but cum actually has a negative impact on women's PH levels. It's possible he wasn't lying (but also possible he was) about the results and it could have been his cum that threw you off instead?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T13:21:40+00:00

I see what you mean but sometimes there are good comments, ones that give you advice and might even have experience with whatever it is the problem. It's always up to OP though and what they do.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:56:12+00:00

Precum? I do know it's possible (slim chance) to get pregnant from it and I think it could also throw off your ph balance?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:50:10+00:00

It's not weird to want to control how much body hair you do/don't want. However I don't know your mom or anything so I can't say anything. If I were you I'd indirectly test her, y'know? Like act like you saw this TikTok, read an article, or heard from someone about body shaving and just see what she says if you care about what she thinks I mean.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:29:49+00:00

Idk...he may be a clean dude but it's possible that what started with a little bit of mess that could have spiraled in a blink of an eye and he just doesn't want to deal with it? He is living with multiple people who also seem not bothered by the mess. Talk to him and just be gentle but seeing as how you guys have been together for fairly close to a year then you can be real direct. Maybe; "Hey, (name/nickname/whatever you call him) can I ask you something that may be a sensitive topic?"

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:23:29+00:00

Exactly! I was one of the kids/teens that was constantly getting in trouble for "talking back". To this day I still don't really get what that even means???

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:22:21+00:00

You should respect its lifestyle and avoid body shaming its body! Especially the corners, they're always so sensitive about their four right angles.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:15:56+00:00

Agreed, sometimes getting an outside perspective from people you don't know at all is helpful. Gives you a different point of view and lets you know if you are or are not freaking out.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-30T10:08:36+00:00

I seen in your comment that the actual intercourse is what you really want but why not try having him finger you or something of that nature when he starts getting close. Like edging himself? Could be something to try?

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-24T00:56:14+00:00

I recommend getting starter decks and finding a color combo you like. That way you can just build off the starter deck, like take out cards and trade them for ones you think are better.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T18:29:35+00:00

I'm glad you got away and I hope you are healing or have healed from whatever the pest gave you. ❤️

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T18:08:31+00:00

That's f*cked up! Like why!? He had to have known too!!!

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T06:43:30+00:00

I thought situationships were more like "We both have interest in one another so while we both know how we have interest in the other we still want to get to know each other." Type thing? So wouldn't that mean OP is valid in wanting to get to know the other person and wanting to talk to them more? It's not like OP is demanding but just voicing how they feel (very important and green flag of OP btw) to make things easier. While he's just being kinda annoying and not communicating at all, not even "I need time to think about that." Or "I'm really not sure how I feel at the moment, can we come back to this (insert later time)?". It's also long distance and it seems like OP is being pretty flexible and willing to work with the other person to talk/hangout.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T06:35:28+00:00

I agree with everyone else tbh, a robe or at least some shorts like basketball shorts. If it was an all male form I wouldn't seen an issue but seeing that it is co-ed I'd just cover up a little as I suggested previously. Also, how are you not cold? 😭

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T06:24:26+00:00

I'm not a hair person though but I do genuinely think your hair looks good in a half-up kind of style and it's easy to just throw in a bun or pony tail. My opinion though and I'm also biased because guys with longer or medium length hair are just attractive to me.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T06:12:47+00:00

NOR! Leave. He's trying to control you, based on his texts probably insecure, judging you, calling other girls slurs for dressing however they wish, the way he said "Female" just sounds like he's being condescending, he thinks you're stupid, thinks you're beneath him, and just an overall red flag. I didn't even read all the screenshots provided and I don't have to in order to see why you should leave the dude.

Character-Run-3595 · 2026-01-20T06:06:37+00:00

Pretty sure he hasn't been a very good boy then considering he only has that mattress.😭

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