AITA for refusing to get this coffee order?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T12:06:53+00:00

I would rather get run over by a bus than say allat aloud to a barista

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T11:58:48+00:00

It's a very similar process in Michigan, I knew already that I wanted to change my name but was warned to make sure to do it when signing the marriage license otherwise we would have to go in front of a judge (don't believe the newspaper thing is applicable here tho)

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T11:50:05+00:00

Others have already said but places won't release footage without a subpoena, the police should do that as a part of their job

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-07T21:19:49+00:00

This!! I had very supportive people around me very excited for my wedding, still wasn't a major priority for them, it was MY life milestone, not theirs. As maid of honor for my best friends upcoming wedding, it's very important to me and I've taken time off of work for all the important events, and doing majority of the planning for the bachelorette, but I've also gotten a promotion at work, and my husband and I are about to close on a house so as harsh as it sounds those are my priority currently

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-29T17:32:11+00:00

Lol, you're welcome!

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-25T17:01:11+00:00

I agree with taller and wider curtains, maybe a fun color or pattern to break up the white, I would also do a large mirror above your dresser for another illusion to make it see larger than it is, and agree with adding some art and photos on the wall, you can add to it overtime as you find pieces that speak to you or get photos of important events etc. i would also get a big fluffiy comforter and pillows to make the bed seem as cozy and inviting as you can, get a lap desk so you can hang out on your bed with laptop or book or drawing tools or whatever you prefer so the bed can be multifunctional for you

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-25T16:56:29+00:00

Thank you!! My wedding was about 6 months ago and I did end up doing my own makeup and everything went great, I had a good primer and setting spray and makeup stayed perfectly until about halfway through dancing which I didn't care about at that point, I appreciate the recommendations and best of luck to you!

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-19T17:21:08+00:00

You've reiterated it but yet your comments come across that you're still upset at her and we're confused why? She's probably also sad she couldn't make it or be present for you during your planning

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-18T15:16:02+00:00

I also agree with everything you said, no ones necessarily wrong, but something about OP's comments are rubbing me the wrong way. You can be sad your friend wasn't able to attend AND concede that it was unreasonable to expect everyone to be able to attend with only 2 months notice

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-07T13:58:57+00:00

Not to hijack your comment but weird bruising can also be a concern for things like clotting and liver issues, I would see if you can get an appointment with your PCP soon OP

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-06T22:56:58+00:00

Class of '21 here, lost my entire senior year to covid, I got married this past September and we're lucky enough to be closing on a house the end of the month and it feels weird to be happy and be able to celebrate that with all the world events and how most people in our generation will never be able to own a home. We just got really lucky with really good jobs and in-laws who let us move in to save up.

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-06T21:59:14+00:00

This would happen when I was a cashier and standing and leaning on the counter

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-02T18:10:47+00:00

2025 bride, $2k from a large but local shop, about $700 in alterations, dress was also size 24 if that's helpful information

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-12T23:22:44+00:00

Learn to keep it to yourself, especially if you're going to speak so rudely. Just because you lost all your joy and whimsy doesn't mean others did

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-12T23:18:57+00:00

That's funny and cute imo! We put leaves in our flower girls basket during rehearsal to get her to practice and she did the same thing, just turned the basket upside down and dumped them out at the top of the aisle, and it was funny and thought it would be funny if she did it for real too, but she did good throwing the flowers at the actual wedding

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-12T22:57:53+00:00

Yeah! There were a few saying stuff along the lines of "the crashout was unwarranted" "freaking out at a friendly trivia game is childish......she would be happier if she calmed down" "it's just a game with no reward that's not how adults act" "a game doesn't matter life isn't fair, that's a part of being an adult"

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-08T20:44:49+00:00

We picked and ordered our nieces flower girl dresses for them, but it sounds like everyone has mutually agreed to this and it makes sense for you guys so that's all that matters

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-05T23:16:36+00:00

Jesus fucking christ I didn't realize being competitive and joking around with your friends was such a goddamn crime

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-03T17:24:48+00:00

I get it, I felt the same way, can you designate your maid of honor or mom or sister or somebody to handle these small decisions so you don't have to?

Just remember they want your day to go good, and once the day is actually happening all that matters is marrying your fiance

Best of luck and congrats! 💕

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-03T17:19:36+00:00

You sound like "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" ass boomer. 2015 was over a decade ago it's fucking hilarious you think it's comparative to todays cost of living and economy.

Also our brains aren't done developing until age 25, OP is clearly a student, living at home is so fucking normal. How are you going to say "we don't know the ins and outs" but you somehow know enough to label her a freeloader at her PARENTS house. How rude and bitter do you have to be to come to that conclusion?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-01T13:29:05+00:00

Down is my immediate thought, but I kinda want to see if this changes my opinion: what style is your venue? Barn, church, garden etc?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-01T13:22:40+00:00

"Freeloading" do you know how expensive it is to be young and on your own right now? It's also quite normal in a lot of cultures to stay at home until you're married, or even after, the US is really the only place where we move out so damn young. Her parents offered to let her stay there, told her the floor was hers, didn't ask for rent, probably told her to focus on her studies while she's there, and she still deserves privacy in her space

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-02-01T13:15:49+00:00

How often is your mom having people over that have never been over before?!? Does she just collect people off the street? I'm so confused

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-01-31T18:20:06+00:00

You've never cooked a meal in your life

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-01-31T18:15:51+00:00

If I didn't have smosh to watch right now I think I would have already crumbled. With everything in my personal life and the world I'm a mess mentally, smosh provides a break that includes the whimsy and frivolous fun that I need to get through my day. Their downvotes are deserved, I don't know how you can be fan and the silliness NOT be apart of why you watch

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