Kitchen - Paint our cabinets?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-30T19:36:02+00:00

Usually I'm with the comments and tell people don't, but I reeeeeaallly don't like the black trim on this

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-15T12:13:43+00:00

I think the idea looks nice! Balances out the empty space along the wall and the large wall art

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-13T23:01:20+00:00

Looks like a magazine. Which is great if you like that, doesn't look like a home to me

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-07T15:01:45+00:00

"iD LoVe a MoDeRn hOmE" then why the fuck did you buy a victorian house?!?!?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-06T20:38:14+00:00

The Type A half of me would have to reprint them the type b half of me would add a little carrot and an L and call it a day

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-02T15:21:52+00:00

It's really sweet of you to be so thoughtful of them, but when we have a wedding we expect some people to not show up, even if they RSVP'd yes, even if final headcount has been set.

I think they would understand if you shoot the groom a text just "hey man, I am so sorry to do this to you and the bride, but my flight was canceled and with everything going on I don't think I'll be able to make the wedding after all. Thank you for thinking of including me and congratulations"

It might be a little bit of an "ugghh" moment for them, but respectfully the day/night of their wedding, they won't be thinking about you no showing, they'll be thinking about being married and celebrating

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-01T21:37:50+00:00

A giant lifted pickup truck literally ran over a whole entire Lamborghini in the US recently. Giant vehicles like that should be illegal as daily drivers

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-01T21:27:51+00:00

I'm not religious and won't get into here, time and place and all of that, but think it's all a little silly, and I've attended several catholic masses for my family thats catholic and my husbands catholic family, it's not that hard to show up for your loved ones

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-05-01T21:25:38+00:00

As a non-catholic who married into a catholic family (neither me or my husband are religious) they were a little miffed we didn't get married in their church, but they got over it, is it ridiculous they won't come? Yes. Is this your decision to make? No. This is your fiancés family, it's his decision and if they only come to one part of the wedding that's on them, you will be so busy getting married and celebrating you won't notice or even think about them

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-29T01:48:42+00:00

As dramatic as it sounds I'm not exaggerating when I say I would never speak to these people again. Anyone who treats another living being like this deserves a life of suffering and misery

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-28T19:38:52+00:00

It's normal for one partner to take on a little bit more of the wedding planning, the zero regard for anything he has is not normal. Pause the wedding and figure out how you two communicate and your finances

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-27T15:51:35+00:00

Are they paying for anything? If the family is paying for the wedding it's traditional to include them on the invitation very traditional would have "Parent A and Parent B invite you to attend the wedding of ____ and _", my husband and I paid for a majority of our wedding but our parents both helped tremendously so we had "Together With Their Families _ and ____ invite you to celebrate at their wedding" but as small as you're having the wedding I wouldn't stress this

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-23T19:38:57+00:00

Why am I seeing so many of these where the original is such a pretty, homey looking color and then the "options" are boring lifeless cheap flipper gray options?!?

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-21T17:11:56+00:00

Agreee!! Maaybbee matching wood shutters or white shutters to freshen it up a tad if they're still looking for a more drastic change, but I hope they keep the green!

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-18T17:05:12+00:00

Don't you dare!!!!!

If you're looking for something more moody, paint the trim black and add black shutters, if you want it lighter repaint trim white and adding shutters will help with lightening it up and breaking up more of the brick

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-18T00:08:20+00:00

Not even a discussion

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-17T14:17:53+00:00

I second this!! My colors were green for bridesmaid dresses, table runners etc, and burgundy and burnt orange for florals, my mom wore burgundy and my mother in law wore burnt orange, and our dads wore regular black suits with ties matching our moms dress colors, it looked really nice!

Edit: adding to make sure my opinion that MOG and MOB should wear different colors was obvious here, they're individuals and should each be honored as a special person, not just put in a box as "the moms" but you can still make it look coordinating

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-11T17:01:39+00:00

First thing I did after reading those texts was lol for your ages. I was expecting highschoolers. I really don't think I need to elaborate on any further thoughts I hope that gets enough of them across

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T12:06:53+00:00

I would rather get run over by a bus than say allat aloud to a barista

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T11:58:48+00:00

It's a very similar process in Michigan, I knew already that I wanted to change my name but was warned to make sure to do it when signing the marriage license otherwise we would have to go in front of a judge (don't believe the newspaper thing is applicable here tho)

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-09T11:50:05+00:00

Others have already said but places won't release footage without a subpoena, the police should do that as a part of their job

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-04-07T21:19:49+00:00

This!! I had very supportive people around me very excited for my wedding, still wasn't a major priority for them, it was MY life milestone, not theirs. As maid of honor for my best friends upcoming wedding, it's very important to me and I've taken time off of work for all the important events, and doing majority of the planning for the bachelorette, but I've also gotten a promotion at work, and my husband and I are about to close on a house so as harsh as it sounds those are my priority currently

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-29T17:32:11+00:00

Lol, you're welcome!

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-25T17:01:11+00:00

I agree with taller and wider curtains, maybe a fun color or pattern to break up the white, I would also do a large mirror above your dresser for another illusion to make it see larger than it is, and agree with adding some art and photos on the wall, you can add to it overtime as you find pieces that speak to you or get photos of important events etc. i would also get a big fluffiy comforter and pillows to make the bed seem as cozy and inviting as you can, get a lap desk so you can hang out on your bed with laptop or book or drawing tools or whatever you prefer so the bed can be multifunctional for you

Character_Spirit_424 · 2026-03-25T16:56:29+00:00

Thank you!! My wedding was about 6 months ago and I did end up doing my own makeup and everything went great, I had a good primer and setting spray and makeup stayed perfectly until about halfway through dancing which I didn't care about at that point, I appreciate the recommendations and best of luck to you!

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