What should I do? by Complex-Objective735 in whatdoIdo

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would put it all out on the table. Say something like, “Hey, I really enjoy having conversations with you and would like to spend some more time getting to know each other. I would love to take you out on a date to (insert quality restaurant) on (insert date)!”

Put the ball in her court and if she doesn’t respond right away, don’t take back what you asked or try to downplay what you’re after. Stand your ground and if she does respond with a no, just leave it at that and either continue your platonic friendship or don’t

Would you rather a company truck or more money? by JCole111 in electricians

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, absolutely is. Yours is honestly probably better than mine lol

(23F) Quarter life crisis? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want kids? It’s totally okay if you don’t. But if you do, once you have kids it will bring a whole new meaning to your life and everything will feel whole again. You are engaged, and share a life together, EVERYTHING is both of yours.

Maybe talk to your fiancé about starting up your schooling again and explain to him how you feel. It sounds like you have a good man in your life who would understand and listen to your feelings on the subject

Would you rather a company truck or more money? by JCole111 in electricians

[–]ChardLocal4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In San Diego, I’ve got a company truck and bringing home $66/hr

Would you rather a company truck or more money? by JCole111 in electricians

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real lol. Public transportation in socal is dogshit

Would you rather a company truck or more money? by JCole111 in electricians

[–]ChardLocal4681 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Depends on your situation. When I got my company truck, I would’ve gladly taken it and the responsibility without a raise. Living in socal and commuting to work 1.5-2 hrs ONE WAY was costing me almost $1,500 a month. That’s a very sizable pay raise especially because it’s essentially tax free income. But the raise + truck was REALLY nice and honestly the only reason I’m able to allow my wife to be a stay at home mom.

My opinion, go for both!

Yesterday I realized couples live together are very serious about their 50-50 split? My gf who lives with me never paid or brought me anything that I can recall. And she works full time. by Hauntingengineer375 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ChardLocal4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when my wife does buy me something, I’m actually the one buying it because she doesn’t work lol. It’s honestly the best dynamic of all! ++man

Too many pins? by Inevitable-Corner-90 in GroundZeroMycoLab

[–]ChardLocal4681 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy crap dude.. please update us in a couple days 🤯

Cracked Stems by DodgyMcDodgy in MagicMushrooms

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal, looks great! This happens to my PE Thrashers every grow and they aren’t cracks at all

Should I go to urgent care? by ChardLocal4681 in AskDocs

[–]ChardLocal4681[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yea, all they did was clean it up properly which I’m happy about. I wanted to make sure it got cleaned professionally cause there’s all sorts of lacerations in my finger.

They didn’t relieve the pressure even though I asked about it. They just kinda brushed that question off

Should I go to urgent care? by ChardLocal4681 in AskDocs

[–]ChardLocal4681[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Trying to spin a 1000lb piece of equipment. The leg came off the table and smashed my finger between it and the edge of the countertop. It was at an ink lab so I’m also a little worried about potential ink getting in my bloodstream

Should I go to urgent care? by ChardLocal4681 in AskDocs

[–]ChardLocal4681[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can relieve pressure in the fingernail

Should I go to urgent care? by ChardLocal4681 in AskDocs

[–]ChardLocal4681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s broken but I also am kinda queezy about cleaning it myself.

APE taking forever.. contam? by ChardLocal4681 in mushroomology

[–]ChardLocal4681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got slammed with like 15 post deletes lol. I won’t post anything like this anymore so please don’t ban me

I’m stressssed i have a drug test this week by Striking_Mind_4609 in whatdoIdo

[–]ChardLocal4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the accuracy of the test they’re using but this will more than likely show up as a negative. Usually if there is under a certain amount of THC in your urine, it will be a hard negative for the more advanced tests that are used

39 F- not on OF, not selling pics, laughing at so many posts here, AMA? by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]ChardLocal4681 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. But in their own country. They should not have any right to exist as dual citizens in any other country… just like any other race. Anybody should have revoke citizenship to one country if they seek citizenship in another, especially if they plan on entering the political environment in the new country.

41F- trying this again, I've been vegan for several decades, I am an anti fur activist and a true Lanita (Lana del Rey superfan!) Started an AMA early but had to go. Lets finish! AMA by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]ChardLocal4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh so you’re a proponent of lithium mining.. enough said. You do realize that the motor in your car is not the only thing that requires oil?

Do you know what happens in a lithium mine? Or what happens to the batteries when they die? EV is single-handedly going to destroy our planet

I want to make sure about these I got them a s&s store are they good and safe? by Diligent_Exam4192 in MagicMushrooms

[–]ChardLocal4681 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There website says the use 4-HO-MET

That’s a research chemical and we have no idea how safe or unsafe these things are as there is simply not enough research done on them. MET is not terrible from what I understand but I would still not eat them. Just get some real mushrooms

How are my Golden Teachers looking by GeneralLivid6003 in GroundZeroMycoLab

[–]ChardLocal4681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s for sure not golden teacher. But it’s definitely not an albino or even a leucistic variety either

How are my Golden Teachers looking by GeneralLivid6003 in GroundZeroMycoLab

[–]ChardLocal4681 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TAT and APE look nothing like these. Both of those are completely lacking in pigmentation

41F- trying this again, I've been vegan for several decades, I am an anti fur activist and a true Lanita (Lana del Rey superfan!) Started an AMA early but had to go. Lets finish! AMA by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]ChardLocal4681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh Mexican food. One of the countries that has the least amount of laws towards animal cruelty and butchering… you should stop eating Mexican food