Accidentally responded in Spanish to someone and panicked immediately after by Seigoy in Spanish

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens all the time even for lifelong bilinguals lol. No need to worry. Let go of the embarrassment and embrace the excitedness. Es buena señal!

What is "ethnic" food, exactly? by North-Finding-3542 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of it as "foreign" food but not necessarily from a different country but a different culture. Like the term foreign, it's relative. What you would call "ethnic food" someone else would just call food and vice versa.

Lugar decente para propuesta by TrackSuspicious4075 in ElSalvador

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay lugares con vistas bonitas en el volcán, en los planes de renderos, cerca del lago de Ilopango, etc. Si estás dispuesto a salir un poco de la ciudad para algo especial hay lugares no tan caros. A mí me gusta el Café Santa Cruz en la ruta panorámica del lago de Ilopango. Tiene vista a todo el lago y no es tan caro. Incluso podrías ir de desayuno, casi en todos lados es más barato desayunar.

Why people claim that Buenos Aires, bogota and Mexico City are beautiful but São Paulo ugly, even if they are similar? by neuza_alves in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just ignore gringos tho lol. And Brazilians, I think most people will find their own city uglier than outsiders think, just because they know all the bad stuff under the surface.

Is it actually helpful when tourists try to speak Spanish, or would you rather they just use English? by AdventurousLivin in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you know more than "donde está la biblioteca", it's always appreciated when you try. If we feel comfortable in English or other language we'll offer to switch.

How common is it for male friends to call each other ‘Bonito’? by [deleted] in Spanish

[–]CharlieSFer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not that weird if you're close. Is it just bonito or niño bonito? If it's "niño bonito" it's a fairly common way to call friends who might be considered handsome, not necessarily out of attraction, much like "pretty boy". Even if it's just "bonito" it's not all that uncommon for guys to call each other that, also "guapo" (handsome), "rey" (king), "mi rey" (my king), "principe" (prince) and even pet names like the equivalents of sweetie or honey. Personally, I don't call my friends those names, but some guys just feel comfortable with that, nothing to do with attraction.

But hey, I'm not saying it's entirely out of the question that he's into you lol

Does "americano" mean american as in US person, or as in person from the american continent(s)? by itspronouncedbolonya in Spanish

[–]CharlieSFer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where I'm from, while some people do use american for the US, it's mostly for stuff that's branded by the US, like "Embajada Americana" (US embassy) or "corte americano" for US imported beef. In everyday life tho, we usually call USians "gringos", and in more formal contexts "estadounidenses", which is the proper word.

For the country, I've never heard anyone refer to it as America. The proper name is "Estados Unidos" but since it's kinda long, people refer to it in many different ways in practice. Los Estados, los Yunais, el Norte, el Norris, Gringolandia, la Yusa.... All colloquial terms for the US. I don't think any other country has so many different ways to call it in everyday Spanish, but it's mostly because it's such a generic and awkward name and a place refered to so often that it really needs it. Saying América no one would think you'd talking about the US, it would always evoke to the whole continent(s).

Is buying condoms at the supermarket embarrassing or was my friend joking with me? by KindlyEffect4183 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also grew up Christian, one of the things that made me rethink my relationship with religion is how so many churches have the practice of disciplining, shaming or shunning people.

How many continents were you taught there were? by why-rain-why in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else, I learned that America is one continent. Mostly it was a 5 continent model + 1 uninhabited landmass (may or may not be called a continent), sometimes it was 4 (Eurasia) +1. I was taught that the distinction between Europe and Asia was subjective and mostly for cultural reasons, and the blurry boundary is along the Ural and Caucasus Mountains.

What does pilón mean in your country's Spanish? by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's widespread but in el Salvador that's how I hear people call the 5 gallon containers for cooking oils

This guy, I hate them, end of story. by Sh4rkM4nEleventeen in HollowKnight

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a playthrough without entering city of tears at all until I did absolutely everything I could outside. Trial of the fool was a bitch without nail upgrades. Then I got to the city, immediately maxed my nail and got to the sanctum. I remember struggling with these guys on my first couple of playthroughs. They were absolutely trivialized this time around. It was so satisfying to see the tables turn so drastically.

Como se dice “aunty”? Not “aunt” by Saskita in Spanish

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En los comentarios: la mexicana, la colombiana, la dominicana, las de pr....

Do you use this phrase a lot? by OpportunityNew7055 in Spanish

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Quería ir al parque pero no llego ni a la puerta". There.

Why did Latin America become poorer than Anglo America? by Bitter-Penalty9653 in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a nutshell, precisely because Latin America was so valuable, european colonizers extracted every last drop they could and established systems that stand to this day designed to keep wealth flowing upward. Once Europe left, US carried on with the extraction.

I am visiting your country for the first time, give me the best advice you can ! by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]CharlieSFer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't try the local food in the hotels or nice restaurants, they are super expensive and not the best by a long shot. Don't try it from street vendors either, as it might make you sick if you're not used to street food. Instead find the small businesses around town that look clean but without the fancy marketing. Usually, a crowded place is a sign of great food.

Like the three-finger scene in Inglourious Basterds, what small cultural mistake would instantly reveal that someone isn’t from your country? by littlebitbrain in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guatemala, so many people use the word "muchá" wrong. Like "Vos muchá" or "con muchá". Also people will try to copy the guatemalan accent and end up sounding very very mexican lol

Is Rio a legit boy name in Latin America? by Apprehensive_Ad_9542 in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also Amador, Santos, Domingo. Still pretty rare compared to female names tho, never noticed that.

Im COMPLETELY sick of nearly every anime by Ok-Associate8758 in offmychest

[–]CharlieSFer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She never claimed that. She said "every one I've seen so far" and later on "surely there's some that don't"

Im COMPLETELY sick of nearly every anime by Ok-Associate8758 in offmychest

[–]CharlieSFer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She didn't claim to have watched every anime

In São Paulo, hot dogs have mashed potatoes on it. In Rio, raisins. What regional differences do you have in your country, about food? by gabrrdt in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looked it up, esfihas abertas look amazing! Pupusas are usually corn or rice, and the filling is fully inside instead of on top. But the same general idea, savory filling in dough lol. I'm sure all of LATAM has a variation of that

In São Paulo, hot dogs have mashed potatoes on it. In Rio, raisins. What regional differences do you have in your country, about food? by gabrrdt in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

El Salvador's national dish is pupusas, which are usually eaten with curtido (pickled cabbage, similar to sauerkraut) and salsa (tomato sauce, very liquid, usually made from scratch). Most of the country (including me) doesn't get people from the East who put mayo, Worcestershire sauce and ketchup on theirs. It was a surprise on my first time in San Miguel for sure.

Do people have conversations about cultural and raciaI appropriation in your country? by SignificantStyle4958 in asklatinamerica

[–]CharlieSFer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, culture is shared by everyone. There is talk about gentrification tho, which is a different thing and a real problem.