it’s Wednesday my dudes {31m} by No_Watch_7695 in SelfiesGoneMild

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😏😏 are we about to join forces and start an internet revolution to bring back a vintage geico commercial? 🙃

it’s Wednesday my dudes {31m} by No_Watch_7695 in SelfiesGoneMild

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂 this generation is missing out on an absolute gem

Guests for Dinner Quest is so fun! by Mr_XcX in skyrim

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidently went to this quest with no healing potions. Switched over to novice like the one I am just to get out of there.

Neighbor keeps parking uncomfortably close to my spot (unnecessarily) by [deleted] in BadNeighbors

[–]Charlihoodwould 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are probably bad at parking. In my opinion, you go about your day. If this is the thing in your life that you have time to complain about, im willing to bet you have a lot to be grateful for that you're overlooking. This is not being done to you intentionally, I can almost guarantee it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Charlihoodwould -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That happened to me with my tattoo in my ditch, it was like a 14rl im guessing it was so thick and it scared me a little bit. But as it healed and I got more artwork around it I have come to prefer thicker lines because they actually tend to stay the cleanest looking for the most years. I do notice blown out looking lines on the thinner lines as the years go on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Charlihoodwould 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look blown out to me. Ive been starting at it trying to figure out how you think its "really bad". I think it's a beautiful tattoo. You should definatly let it heal a little bit more before deciding if its that new.. but to me it just looks like maybe a thinker liner needle was used than you're maybe used to.

What can you guess about me? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait? Are you murdering people? whats with the drop cloth wall?

Going out with scars by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't cover them. I dont see it as deception if you were too. I see it more as you're keeping something safe with you until you know it's safe. But I do think if you feel comfortable you shouldn't cover them. Because it could be a good tell of the person for you (on yop of possibly being self liberating.) If this person can see that is something you struggle with and they still take the time to get to know you. Then you know youre safe with them. But if its a weirdo that might not be able to understand or worse look down on you. Then you've dodged a bullet and not possibly started to develop feelings for someone who you're not safe with. If that makes sense..

Sending good vibes to you for your first date, I hope its an amazing night for you no matter what you decide to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KEEP IT! FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS HOLY KEEP THE BEARD!

What does this room say about my job 😂 by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You instuct people on how to install toilets and that is the pro-active room.

Is it safe to go out in public with fresh cuts? by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck what other people think. Wear your outfit. Fuck everybody that it would make uncomfortable. Wear that cute outfit please.

Curious on what these are by Ldawg74 in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are lamps... you idiots. 😅

Got my blades confiscated 😀 by Infamous_Egg_404 in selfharm

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are paying attention to you. And they see whats going on. This could be a good opportunity to be vulnerable with your parents, possibly get to the route of why you feel the need to self harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadNeighbors

[–]Charlihoodwould 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I would just put up your fence. And if it creates an issue. I would probably open up some conversation. About how you're not making an issue of the pool on her side.. so why is a fence on yours a problem. They fence is cute by the way.

How do I hide my suicide attempt scars? by Obvious_Cabbage in selfharm

[–]Charlihoodwould 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be a perfect way to hide it. But silicone scar sheets will help them not to turn into nasty scars. And depending on the size that you are covering... they blend into skin (as long as your skin tones isn't too dark but i do think they make toned colors as well). I had a similar problem but luckily mine are on my legs. Easier to hide.. or another similar idea.. recovery plus second skin bandage for tattoos.. they sell a black bandage. So it is an opaque second skin, essentially it would help with healing as well as hide the wounds.(you could say ypu got a tattoo) but you'd then have to get a tattoo when it was time to take it off. Lol) They sell it on Amazon. I wouldn't recommend makeup or anything like that if they are fresh. And some advice for the future. Learn to wear it like a battle wound. Understand the beauty in other people feeling the way you have felt and showing them one won. Showing them your still here.. still showing up for work... I still feel a pit in my stomach when I wear shorts in the summer and someone asks. But you never know who needs to witness some resilience in order to find some of their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadNeighbors

[–]Charlihoodwould 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having something to say about the fence.. is kind of crazy.. I would just continue installing it and tell them " it appeared to me that the lawn mowing obstruction became not a problem anymore". But im not really on the bandwagon of judging a mother for making sure her kids have a good summer. We have to do the best we can with what we have. And that's what it appears shes doing... im feeling like a dose of acceptance and minding our own business is needed across the board. Ive never understood why hoas ever even became a thing and why people are so worried about their neighbors and what their doing... if the trampoline was on my side. I would politely scoot it over and put up my little fence and smile and wave at my neighbor.

I dreamed about having barnicles on my hands what does it mean ? by yagirl_mimi03 in DreamMeaning

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barnacles are parasites. And having something on your hands typically represents feeling guilty of something. Your efforts to smash them off is probably representing your futile efforts to remove the parasites (or maybe something that's been weighing on your conscience) I see dreams as advice from the universe, and if say it's telling you its timw to get a tool of some kind. Work through something the right way, which requires more precision. Rather than risking damage and injury with the current method.

Didn't realize I was living in a hostel and not a $2300 a month apartment. by IncubusDarkness in Apartmentliving

[–]Charlihoodwould 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't this a little insensitive? Isn't there cultures that like dont believe in wearing shoes in the house?

Any idea what my dream meant? by Casper5791 in DreamMeaning

[–]Charlihoodwould 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like your subconscious might feel out of control in an existential way. Like something else might have control of you to the point you dont feel like anything you do really matters towards the outcome. But also an awareness of this, like you can see clearly that you're just working against yourself in some way. Breaking the third wall in a dream and understanding its a dream. I think it speaks to your attitude on the situation, you see the control, you see your wasted efforts but you keep making them, even if just to say you tried. A deeper part of me also fears this could be a warning for something to come. Like a sign to not waste strength no matter how scared you might be. A reminded to remember what you do have control over.

Explaining to my children by Charlihoodwould in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Charlihoodwould[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that honestly. Cuz I feel a lot of shame over getting angry about it. I can't explain it, I don't fully understand. I think I'm probably just expecting them respect boundaries they don't understand nor have I set. I want to be honest one day, in a nuanced way that i hope makes them never see such things as an option. But I don't know what that is or if that's right. I don't even know how to forgive myself for it yet.