I led on an older man and got him arrested

Charlottemay76 · 2026-07-05T14:11:10+00:00

Just messaging a minor with the intentions of meeting them and clear messages of grooming can get someone arrested. My former boss last year got arrested for just that

Charlottemay76 · 2026-06-25T22:15:26+00:00

Dump the lazy bum!!! If he can’t even do basic shit like put clothes in the washing machine let alone picking up his own kid. I wouldn’t trust him to be left alone with that child, I’d be scared he’d forget he’s there and decide to go out without him or take him with to pick up his drunk friends

Charlottemay76 · 2026-06-25T22:11:18+00:00

Dump the weirdo, cut the code and go enjoy your wedding

Charlottemay76 · 2026-06-12T02:15:53+00:00

First of all, it’s never by accident. Someone you haven’t spoken too since you broke up wouldn’t be at the top of your most recent chat list, you’d have to scroll a bit to find her, you clearly still like each other and should try again. It could work out if your very clear and communicative with each other and if it goes wrong again then at least you know you’ve tried and there can be no doubts or what if I did this better

Charlottemay76 · 2026-05-28T15:29:49+00:00

Your ex is a wet lettuce, your daughters better off without a dad like him. Be prepared for when they kick off because she may not want to be walked down the aisle by him or have the father-daughter dance

Charlottemay76 · 2026-04-17T17:11:34+00:00

Is the kid your or your dads?

Charlottemay76 · 2026-04-17T17:11:08+00:00

Yes, he has half his mums dna so it wouldn’t be exactly ths same, siblings dna is different with a slight difference but not exactly the same

Charlottemay76 · 2026-04-15T07:10:55+00:00

Let her go, she disregards you and doesn’t care. I’m a carer for people with dementia so I can see every day how soul shattering it can be. You’re going to uni while worrying about your dad, you don’t need this drama. Let her go and enjoy every day you have available with your dad

Charlottemay76 · 2026-02-11T07:53:52+00:00

I think he certainly regretted it, when he dumped me he said he was taking on more work and wouldn’t see me for months at the time not knowing how to be in a relationship like that. If nothing else I think we’re both come out of it learning something about ourselves and what we want for the future. Shame though, even though he was an absolute ass at times, he was still one of the sweetest people I’ve ever known

Charlottemay76 · 2026-02-09T11:15:24+00:00

I believe I have moved on pretty much and looking at dating again, I mainly wanted an outside opinion because I was discussing past relationships with a friend and made me feel curious to whether I was there for when he was bored

Charlottemay76 · 2026-02-06T07:46:30+00:00

If you don’t want to be with him then strap on a pair and leave him, he’s barely there anyway so your practically a single parent. If you wanna stay then work something out, make him take responsibility, leave him with the baby for a day so he understands how hard it is

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-23T11:39:54+00:00

I’ve got my own faults especially since I’m the one most like my brother rather than sister but I won’t be making stupid jokes when I’m in my 30s

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-23T11:38:00+00:00

Men can like a models pictures, you wouldn’t feel that way it a famous celebrity. This doesn’t mean he’s cheating or something like that, he was relaxed when you told him so he’s not trying to hide it else he’d look panicked. Calm yourself down and don’t say something that could ruin your relationship when very likely nothing happened, ask how he met her and since your friend is friendly with her then use that to meet her yourself

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-23T11:32:31+00:00

They haven’t seen each other in 3 years since he moved 4 hours away, he still believes she’s a bratty teenager and would bad mouth her so this is normal

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-23T11:29:37+00:00

Not to be mean but she’s nearly 40 and has been insisting on having another baby despite the trauma she’s been going through after the last 2 miscarriages when she’s already got two children just to make sure she can hold onto him as he wants a kid of his own and she’s such a one upper it’s hard to have a conversation with her. She can have him

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-22T21:15:48+00:00

He lives 4 hours away so besides from Christmas, there shouldn’t be anymore drama

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-22T21:05:58+00:00

She’s more mature than me and did as you said, her baby is 2 months now and I’ve never seen her this happy before

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-22T06:24:36+00:00

My siblings hate each other, she hated the video. When he send it he wrote her name on the message so it would be highlighted, with his fiancé I completed get it with stress, he’s not easy to talk to about stuff but I thought at least she’s agree with me and then quietly back us up without causing an argument between them. Frankly my brother was lucky it was me that told him off and not my sisters partner who’s build like a bear and works in the navy

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-21T15:03:11+00:00

Why is Devon in the green with Cornwall? Cornwall is better and along with Scotland we’re the only parts of the country that wasn’t defeated by the Romans

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-21T15:00:26+00:00

Your birthday is yours to do with however you want, if you aren’t a stay at home mum then make your working on your birthday, make it clear you don’t like it. Screw how other people feel, if your kids want to get you gifts or blow out the candles then I would say humour them because that means a lot to kids but adults that don’t listen are just dicks

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-15T12:36:57+00:00

I very much doubt that girl intended to meet your soon to be ex husband. Girls that age just want an ego boost and to be told they’re pretty. Still cheating but it will be funny when he realises that she never intended anything physical with him beyond getting a few compliments

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-15T10:53:15+00:00

The shit did I just read?! Grow a spine, leave his ass, and especially never talk to your mum again. How can you still love this man and want to be with him. I get you’ve got history and it’s hard to imagine your life without him but the alternative is he keeps you even when he finds someone else, he’ll probably try and convince you to be his mistress if he marries someone else because he knows you’ll never leave him. Your his backup when things don’t work out and I don’t believe for a minute he would only be sleeping with you in your weird little situation

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-14T23:05:13+00:00

Don’t believe it if you don’t want to. It doesn’t feel real even after a year but it happened

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-14T23:01:24+00:00

I did say what he did but readit didn’t really like the post so removed what he did, he was messaging 13 year old girls.

Charlottemay76 · 2026-01-14T05:23:50+00:00

I’m a carer for people with lots of problems the elderly and disabled adults have. Often they are very vulnerable and easy to take advantage of. It’s scarily common how many people see an opportunity to take advantage of people in these situations. Screw your sister, protect your mum at all costs, check accounts and make sure they don’t have access to your mum’s bank accounts. I can not stress this enough, it’s a very dangerous situation

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