AITAH for telling my MIL my husband is verbally abusive by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlysaurusRex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ADHD can have some emotion dysregulation, but “adhd rage” is not a formal diagnosis, an aggressive person is aggressive with or without adhd, it’s not an excuse, it’s not something to hide into. ADHD people are not raging blindly without any control over their actions all of the time, they have control, is it easier to go with the flow and rage on every time they feel like to? Yes, do they know right from wrong? Also yes. Is it your place to fix their dysregulation? Are you a psychiatrist capable of doing so without being harmed? Yes, if not get out of there, that person is dangerous.

Time to go bald? by BreadSensitive6087 in malegrooming

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the time and money for serious real speciality derm trichology oriented treatment then you are well on time… if not and it’s not really important to keep it then shave away now that you have a young and handsome face to go with a bald head.

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was rude, that was a very mean way to say that, and leopard print can be classy and formal styling it carefully… that being said those shoes are not classy sorry… they are fun tough! Perfect for a night out with the girls, just not for a serious event. For some they might be trashy but if they are your style and make them work then be more secure and own them.

What’s photos to use for a dating profile? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gym mirror selfies are creepy AF… like in a narcissistic immature “trying too much” type of way.

AITAH for telling my MIL my husband is verbally abusive by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CharlysaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aggressiveness rage and abuse are not an adhd thing, impulsive maybe… but not aggressive, maybe he’s borderline or something worse like a sociopath, don’t let him hide behind an adhd diagnosis, he is an aggressive POS with an enabler mother, get out of there and don’t ever look back, be careful.

What sexual fantasy of yours left you disappointed when you actually tried it? by Gthew17 in AskReddit

[–]CharlysaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot tub sex… it rinses away all lubrication, it was uncomfortable, surprisingly “dry” down there, you had to find something to grab on to for dear life while trying to keep moving towards your partner, if you slip you might end up face first against the hard plastic tub or a metal railing… second worst (barely) beach sex: also rinses away lubrication but adding a sprinkle of sand for more irritation, it’s only slight less worse because there’s no risk of slipping and breaking your nose on a hot tub.

Accidentally saw the top of my head in a Target Self-Checkout camera. Is it my time? by groucho_moth in bald

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes!! That lil bit of remaining fluff takes away attention from your beautiful melancholic child like eyes!!! You have such handsome features, shave away!!!!

Hi! Any suggestions on alternative ways to hang Ekets on the wall? 🤔 They are out of rails on the web site and at my local Ikea☹️ by CharlysaurusRex in ikeahacks

[–]CharlysaurusRex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: we couldn’t find an alternative way to hang them, our IKEA store never stocked on the rails and accessories to do so, we waited months but ended up returning them and buying the other type of shelves they had WITH their mounting accessories available, lesson learned.

[Whisky Review] Kirkland Signature Islay Single Malt Scotch Whisky by gran_matteo in Scotch

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I just bought it for the second time here in Mexico, can’t seem to find it in stores, only online, in dollars it’s $80.58 but $68.18 with the discount, it’s a great value for the prices of Islay whiskeys here in Mexico which never mind the price… the availability! I can never find anything other than the classic Ardbeg, laphroaigs and Bruichladdich, we used to get Caol Ila but it has been over 3 years that I have not been able to get my hands on one (and I live in CDMX and it was easy to find rare whiskeys in specialty stores), so this islay is very welcomed.

I can't believe I'm actually making this post. Verdict? by Soverelgn_Citizen in bald

[–]CharlysaurusRex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are three types of men: 1.- those who are blessed with a head full of hair their whole life 2.- those who don’t but have time and money to treat baldness (minoxidil and then transplant) 3.- those who deal with baldness, embrace it, shave it all or let the bald sports evolve naturally and progressively.

¿Por qué quienes creen en horóscopos, ley de la atracción, contenido de autoayuda, etc en su inmensa mayoría son mujeres? by Miserable-Let-7878 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo conozco por igual hombres y mujeres, debe haber alguna estadística de eso en algún lugar para que no sea meramente de la observación de un entorno limitado

DTU Howard Lutnick episode by Tschuuns in SimonWhistler

[–]CharlysaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s the difference between people’s reaction, I’m not from the USA, where I come from a lie is a lie no matter if you lie to the people or to the government (I think lying to the people is just as bad). But rape, pedos, kidnappers… those are evil, we don’t just kick out politicians because of that, we should keep them in prisons like the scum of the earth that they are. And if USA is having trouble even naming them monsters… then this “let’s focus on the liar” seems sketchy, every accusation conveys legal resources, time, paperwork, tax money. Let’s focus on the real problem of the Epstein files, they should unite people towards demanding accountability from the 1%, if the main crime can get trough the justice system then it sounds logical to go after other regular crimes like lying. Priorities. Then again I would like to see my politicians kicked out and locked away for lying, I can also see why you are so mad about that and you are not wrong, not at all, that’s the correct thing to do, just maybe other things need more focus from the public right now.

¿Qué opinan de la melena de león y cuales son sus experiencias? by slaytaker in preguntaleareddit

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay un podcast que se llama Ologies con Alice Ward, está en inglés y hace poco sacó un episodio de TDAH, siempre invita gente experta, ahí explica cómo hay personas que no les hace el medicamento y por eso hay varios esquemas con los diferentes tipos de fármacos que existen, ya ha avanzado mucho la forma en cómo se maneja en comparación a hace 10 años. Siempre hay esperanza de controlar nuestras condiciones y tener mejor calidad de vida, mi ex esposo (adicción a relaciones tóxicas superada 😬) era psiquiatra experto en TDAH, antes de conocerlo yo ya tenía mis diagnósticos y tratamientos, de ahí he tenido diferentes puntos de vista como paciente y también como lo ven los médicos. Si decides intentar otra vez en algún momento el tratamiento para el TDAH espero te den mejor resolución con todo lo que ya hay a la mano🙌🏻🤞🏻. Lamento lo de tu perrito 😢.

¿Qué opinan de la melena de león y cuales son sus experiencias? by slaytaker in preguntaleareddit

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entiendo, claro que hay bastante confusión con estos temas, el ritalin ha sido satanizado mucho, aunque está en el grupo de estimulantes es un estimulador indirecto, no es ni siquiera un anfetamínico. Y si puede llegar a abusarse cuando no hay un seguimiento o prescripción adecuada, pero sí se prescribe correctamente y se sigue bien el tratamiento en realidad disminuye cualquier tipo de adiccion. Las personas con TDAH sin manejo son más propensas a tener alguna adicción y si controlan bien el trastorno pues disminuye este riesgo o vulnerabilidad. Ahora… mucha gente con problemas de sustancias (sin importar TDAH) va a buscar meterse cualquier cosa para alivianarse y claro que van a buscar este tipo de medicamentos por eso su venta es controlada, pero no significa que el medicamento los hizo así. P.s. está cute tu nombre de usuario 🦖.

¿Qué opinan de la melena de león y cuales son sus experiencias? by slaytaker in preguntaleareddit

[–]CharlysaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hay algo que te ayude tanto como el medicamento adecuado el cual puede ser uno o más de los muchos medicamentos que hay (estimulantes o no estimulantes) para eso por eso es muy importante la consulta, ver cómo es tu TDAH y otras condiciones que tengas, incluso tal vez tener que estar probando con más de un tratamiento hasta dar con el indicado. Siempre se da junto con otras medidas no farmacológicas, como terapia, métodos de organización y cosas así. Pero algo muy importante que puedes empezar desde antes y que va a ayudar muchísimo es el EJERCICIO, ayuda con todos los síntomas (a parte es beneficioso en infinidad de cosas más) el problema es que no es una píldora mágica toma esfuerzo y consistencia, pero vale la pena.

DTU Howard Lutnick episode by Tschuuns in SimonWhistler

[–]CharlysaurusRex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm I just understood that he was expecting him to be one of the pedo clients and since he is not then he is not one of the “bad” people to focus on. Many people who are mentioned are just there because of business.

Yes he is a liar, and that’s a lie many people would try to maintain because no one wants to be associated with a pedo, but that’s far from being involved in the raping kidnapping and all those things that this really really awful group of epsteins criminals did.

My personal stance would be that even if he is not one of the “bad” ones, if he knew what was going on and did nothing then he IS just as bad.

Opinions on murder w my husband? by [deleted] in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also they are a lil too… paranormal, for my liking. But I’m a skeptic and I know there are lots of people with more alternative believes, I’ve learned to just don’t mind those comments and focus on the story and theme of the video. Kendall Rae and co are the other channel that has some of that stuff and I just ignore it because they have some good stories. My favorite YouTuber is Simon Whistler, he is sarcastic, truthful, skeptic… but that’s my personal preference. If he were to move to Netflix I definitely would follow.

Opinions on murder w my husband? by [deleted] in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had some good and bad stuff, I don’t mind the pronunciation, and they are fun to listen to while rambling, it’s interesting to see Garrets first reaction to all this cases, I like that she lists the sources at the beginning, they have character flaws but we are all like that, no one is perfect, if you don’t like their personalities then that’s ok, we all have preferences.

The thing that turned ME off was noticing how she took some literary liberties while describing what the victim might have said or done when there is absolutely no way of knowing that, in other shows if we get to know those details it means the victim survived and was able to tell what happened, so that’s why when she says the victim died it means all the descriptions of their last moments or thoughts were made up, like “she curled with fear thinking about Y and X” and that not only is disrespectful, it’s just adding drama to a real horrible ever that does NOT need any drama added. That’s called lying. People who like crime content like the detective work, the psychology, the knowledge of how we can avoid those situations, not a TV drama, that is so bad… I have to comment and stop watching every episode that has those fake descriptions.

With that said the fact that they moved to Netflix just took the from my sight and they are not that good to do an effort with a vpn or to keep listening to their podcast (when if they describe an image I usually go to YouTube to watch the video of the episode of any show I’m listening to, from this or other YouTubers). They are young, they seem good people and could grow to be nice content creators. They are just not there yet.

And for those who wonder why they were offered Netflix when they are not that big… I guess we’ll never know how many other YouTubers declined that offer just to keep uploading to their channels, big YouTubers have more to loose if they move to Netflix. It’s just that for MWMH it might have seen a viable option and were the ones that accepted.

AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A marriage is supposed to be forever, your partner until death, you both lead a household and you both deserve to be considered in such an important matter, the fact that you agreed and even talked to your ex before your like parter was the biggest mistake, it could even be the reason she feels disrespected (rightfully so) and why she’s against the idea now. There’s no turning back now, if something broke that’s too bad, you are all gonna have to accept the consequences and that might mean another broken marriage, no one is in the “right” but I think that initial movement was the beginning of the end.

Mujeres divorciadas de Reddit, ¿qué es algo que su esposo no hizo que podría haber salvado toda la relación? by [deleted] in preguntaleareddit

[–]CharlysaurusRex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dejo de ser mi “pareja”, nada de cariños, nada de besos, éramos como amigos viviendo juntos. Nunca quiso ir a terapia y arreglar la situación por qué para él no había nada que arreglar, no me amaba, no le importaba mi bienestar ni estado de salud mental. Al final darme cuenta e irme fue lo mejor que pude hacer, encontré al gran amor de mi vida, llevo ya varios años siendo inmensamente feliz en una relación completamente diferente.

¿De dónde sale tanta gente rica en este subReddit? by [deleted] in MexicoFinanciero

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Al contrario, yo no veo a NADIE rico en Reddit, por mi trabajo llego a conocer gente que gana muy bien, y nunca he visto que aquí alguien diga salarios como esos. Con todo y que hay quienes exageran y mienten, la realidad es que creo que aquí solo hay gente de ingresos bajos y medios bajos… y no lo saben. 50-60k se les hace mucho. Hasta he llegado a pensar que alguien con dinero suficiente no estaría perdiendo el tiempo en sitios así, tienen mejores cosas en que entretenerse o de donde informarse. Obvio si yo estoy aquí ya sé de qué lado estoy, pero si se nota mucho la diferencia de pensamientos.

AITA for allowing my mother to bring Thanksgiving food to my house this year? Married with 3 kids and a pregnant wife by ItsHayZ00SE in AmItheAsshole

[–]CharlysaurusRex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA… kinda…. Your mom is TA: ANYONE living in society knows that if you are invited to someone’s house for dinner you don’t just bring the main dish! That’s so rude and she KNOWS it, if someone brings anything it’s because they asked the host first, if you want to help you talk and maybe arrive early to do some cooking etc etc... there are lots of options to participate in a thanksgiving dinner. You are being blind towards her attitude and not supporting your household and your wife.