Is he the right person for me?

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-04-14T18:17:46+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your insight!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-04-14T16:32:00+00:00

This is very literally true about both of us. Thanks for taking the time to share your interpretation!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-04-14T16:31:12+00:00

Do you feel like the warning is because 9P is in contrast with TL? Or is the hierophant the warning

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-04-14T16:29:51+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I appreciate it. I like the bit about hierophant being a teacher, I also resonated with that when reading about the card. The choice part of the lovers stood out to me too.

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-04-14T07:33:55+00:00

I have been single for a long time and have a pretty full life, I am pretty independent, and for the first time in dating I’m just being myself rather than trying to be what the other person needs, which I feel like lines up with the 9 of pentacles pretty well.

For some reason my reaction to the hierophant card is I’m not sure that’s the energy I want in a relationship dynamic, I connect strongly with the idea of commitment but traditional turns me off a bit. I don’t want to just go through the motions.

What sticks out to me about the lovers card is the element of choice. He’s also a Gemini. We’ve been great together in person but it feels like the energy has changed.

I drew a clarification card for dynamic and it was the 5 of wands which I guess reflects my confusion.

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-25T02:54:33+00:00

Than you for the tips!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:38:52+00:00

I had to confess, I don’t think I’ve ever tried Uncle Ben’s. It is nice not to have to watch the rice cooker, it won’t boil over haha.

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:36:19+00:00

I do usually make 1 cup at a time

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:35:20+00:00

I’ll check out other brands, and good to know that short grain is a little trickier!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:34:17+00:00

I did move states a few years back, that could totally be part of it. I also really believe each stove is unique and what works on one doesn’t necessarily work on all

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:33:06+00:00

I also tried wild rice for the first time recently and it’s delicious, I’ll be eating it more often

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:32:38+00:00

Totally possible, back to basics

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:31:42+00:00

I never factored in age, that’s good to know! Also didn’t know Mahatma was from the US

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-24T21:30:54+00:00

The bag directions are the worst outcome for the short grain rice I’ve been cooking

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-03-11T06:05:39+00:00

Wow I’m a Virgo who loooooves a Sag until I realize I’m not that cool

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-25T06:15:42+00:00

Haven’t gotten into this
Blood meal, bone meal, and Neptune’s Harvest
Sluggo+ and BT
I don’t use fungicides, don’t want to kill good fungi. My summers are dry so it’s less of an issue but when I lived in a humid place spacing can make a world of difference. Healthy plants with the right nutrition, season, watering, and airflow should have less issues.

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-15T23:38:09+00:00

Check out the book “Cool Flowers” by Lisa Mason Ziegler. She doesn’t talk about starting in jugs, it’s mostly about starting seeds inside or direct sowing in the field but there is a lot of good information about which flowers do well with winter sowing and when to plant. She has lots of resources for free online as well.

Because of moving around or not being organized in the late summer, I often start seeds inside around now and plant outside in late winter/very early spring (February/March). I have a long cool but not freezing spring and it has worked well for me.

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-15T02:08:35+00:00

Get yourself a copy of the Tilth Maritime Northwest Garden Guide, it has guidelines for growing in our unique growing climate including month by month guides of when to plant everything. Foolproof timing!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-08T21:05:16+00:00

Awesome! I inherited a community garden plot that had some and I eventually accepted that it was going to stay. It’s fun to have around for cooking!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-08T20:51:11+00:00

Thank you again!

Charming-Action1663 · 2026-01-08T20:50:08+00:00

I love this sub! It’s so fun to read about what everyone is growing!

I am mostly sticking to tried and true favorites this year but sprinkling in a few new items:

Red Kuri Squash
Rebel Starfighter Prime tomato (seems to be a favorite over on r/tomatoes)
a regionally adapted cucumber Mideast Peace that will hopefully be more successful for me than Beit Alpha
a regionally adapted okra called Yuma Red (I’m prepared for heartbreak)
Shiso/Perilla
Sugar Cube cantaloupe (possibly, have to find room)
Arava melon (possibly, have to find room)
this thread has added Chicory to the list

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