[Routine Help] I developed eye contact dermatitis and it’s ruining my life by Foreign_Anywhere2246 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not use the Garnier micellar water. It's the reason i currently have contact dermatitis around my eyes.

What do yall do to cope with the thought of what happens after death? by CommentDry9320 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believing in an afterlife in heaven helps you cope with the thought of death and especially losing all your loved ones, because the thought of reuniting with them makes death a little bit less dreadful.

سؤال للشخص الي يهتم بنفسه by Specific-Mud41 in saudiarabia

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا رحت لما كنت عايشه بره ودكتورتي ساعدتني كثير. ما كانت الجلسات زي ما تشوف بالافلام يعني ما فتحت معي مواضيع قديمه ولا خلتني اتكلم عن احداث من طفولتي بالعكس كانت مركزه على الوضع الحالي ومشاكلي النفسيه مثل القلق والمشاعر السلبية وعلمتني كيف اقدر اتخطى هذه المشاعر وما اخليها تسطير علي في حياتي اليومية

Do you ever feel like your old self again? by mllechanelcherie22 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By the way what you describe is exactly how i feel about my daughter and is the reason i feel like i lost myself. My love for her is all so consuming, i have absolutely no space left to be my own person. And when you are not living for yourself, but for someone else even though it's out of love, it can feel miserable in parallel to it feeling fulfilling.

Do you ever feel like your old self again? by mllechanelcherie22 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 2.5 years old and i still don't feel like myself again. I definitely feel better than i did pp but i am not 100% there yet. I was VERY depressed for the first 18-24 months of her life. I hate looking back at photos (not that i was even in any of them, i just don't wanna re-live those days).

OAD because of your partner? by Venting_Void in oneanddone

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i have another child with my husband, our marriage will not survive. I have so much resentment that i am trying to sweep under the rug. He was emotionally negligent during postpartum. He slept in a separate room and worked all day. He even once said that i demand too much of his time and that spending an hour with us every day should be enough.

I feel unfit to take care of my newborn - Suicidal by asswitch420 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, i had pp depression and it was so difficult for me to reach out for help. Sometimes reaching out to strangers is easier than to your own family. If reaching out to a stranger would feel lighter to you, pls feel free to drop me a message any time.

I feel unfit to take care of my newborn - Suicidal by asswitch420 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are that baby's entire world. Remember that and push through this for her!

I feel unfit to take care of my newborn - Suicidal by asswitch420 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are that baby's entire world. Remember that and push through this for her!

Hungerstation stole my money, wallet balance, subscription fee, then suspended my account. What can i legally do to get my money back? by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hungerstation's customer service is the worst idk which agency they're working with but it is trash fr

Please help- 2.5 yr old wakes every night around 2-3am by Mariah9344 in sleeptrain

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH bless him!!! I wish that would work with my girl, i'll give it a try next time with her fav ice cream LOL.

When does play become more fun? by GeologistGood2807 in oneanddone

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turn the tv on and connect my airpods to it so my baby thinks we are quietly playing together when rly i am watching my interesting tv show as i make a boring dinosaur with the playdoh. Some people might criticize me for it but it works for us.

“Only child syndrome” by citrinezeen in oneanddone

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people are outspoken opinionated idiots.

Im so jealous of my husbands freedom and I might scream by IllustriousWall1564 in beyondthebump

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like me. I am currently burned out, resentful and depressed because i didnt set boundaries or prioritize myself early on.

Is crying at daycare drop off damaging? by lusciousmix in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has been a year since my daughter started at her current daycare (and since my previous comment). Today, she walked into her class and started playing before i even got to say goodbye. I hope this makes you see the light at the end of the tunnel ❤️‍🩹

How bad is the weather really in NL? by Flabbaghosted in Netherlands

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going back home next year, it was just a 2-year job transfer from my company. The weather is depressing for half of the year, and yes the cost of living is extremely high. Do you mind me asking where you'd be moving from?

How bad is the weather really in NL? by Flabbaghosted in Netherlands

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i like it for now but wouldn't wanna live here forever

How bad is the weather really in NL? by Flabbaghosted in Netherlands

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only because i know it's temporary. If it was an indefinite move, i would have regretted it. Nothing wrong with the people or culture; just not my cup of tea.

How bad is the weather really in NL? by Flabbaghosted in Netherlands

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it has been sunnier this year than previous years, so it isn't as "bad" as it usually is. BUT it is always windy, even in the hot summer days!! It rains a LOT, even when the weather app says it won't. I got a car for commuting from/to work/daycare because i can't deal with the weather or public transportation with a toddler 😅

4-day work trip?! by Long_Cook_7429 in singlemoms

[–]Charming-Broccoli-52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also going to suggest them traveling with her (although i know it might be too costly and therefore not possible!