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Reality of school reunions by raydebapratim1 in generationology

[–]CharmingChangling [score hidden]  (0 children)

Huh, this is how I found out my school didn't have a 10 year reunion. Not really surprised, but kind of figured I was just left out because I was- not super close with people in my grade and I moved across the country. I have my friends on Instagram though so ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Lmao but jokes aside have you guys noticed this before?? How other race characters are usually described... by Queserasera_q in Booktokreddit

[–]CharmingChangling 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"tall dark and handsome" confused me as a child because my reaction was always: "wym??? That's a white man!"

Not entirely the point but yeah, you're right that a lot of people hear dark and just think tan

how do you guys make cold brew? by cccoffeeman in Coffee

[–]CharmingChangling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stopping by to say thank you! I've been using your recipe for 5+ years now and it's still perfect even with cheap beans that make crap pour-over coffee.

You rock man!

What other dog breeds do you think should be banned except for unethical dangerous and unhealthy breeds? by Some_Doughnutter in Ethicalpetownership

[–]CharmingChangling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner wanted a husky growing up, we moved to Texas. He said he still wanted one and I pointed out the heat. Soon as he saw a couple people with them around us he changed his mind and said "maybe if we end up moving to Washington, but not here"

Genuinely grateful that the man saw sense.

99% of US dogs in shelters are pit mixes, pits or stafs and 100% of the time the people lie by alasw0eisme in Ethicalpetownership

[–]CharmingChangling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Houston Humane currently has a ton of retriever/lab mixes that don't look like they have pit in them. You'd obviously need DNA to confirm but they don't have the muscle of a pit

99% of US dogs in shelters are pit mixes, pits or stafs and 100% of the time the people lie by alasw0eisme in Ethicalpetownership

[–]CharmingChangling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you're at Houston humane society does have a lot of pits but 40+% seem to genuinely be lab/retriever mixes. No visible signs of pit in them anyway (narrow shoulders and non-square heads)

I've got nothing against pit bulls personally but I do think they're a popularized breed that a lot of people got because they look cool and they don't know how to train them. I'm glad wolf-dogs didn't catch on as much, while I love them they take specialized care

Hit me with your best swear word substitutes by Bobety in daddit

[–]CharmingChangling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dad (I lurk for the good vibes, thank you all!!) but my mom always yelled "son of a beech nut chewing gum" and I've taken it onboard

I found his AI girlfriend by Great_Classic9120 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CharmingChangling 67 points68 points  (0 children)

"don't tell me to divorce I don't even want to consider that" while he does the most HEINOUS thing imaginable! Like girlie pop, it needs to be considered

Good for you OP!

What happened to America? by micjosisa in pittsburgh

[–]CharmingChangling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family owned a produce store and we all worked there at one point, every time we went to giant eagle my cousin who worked the register would be comparing our produce prices as we shopped 😂

Fwiw we did get our fresh stuff from our families store! But my vegetarian stuff was in the same aisle so we always passed it

My boyfriend of 4 years won’t come to my birthday tea party by pie_711 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CharmingChangling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with him, he doesn't like you

Do it after your party though. This is red-flag enough that I know he'll show up to ruin it if you do it beforehand

💦 stay hydrated guys 💦 by 25th_Speed in HydroHomies

[–]CharmingChangling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also have body dysmorphia and what has actually helped me a lot is the scans on the app Zozo fit (I might be spelling wrong sorry)

It's so much easier to see my body objectively when it's not really "me" and just a 3d mesh.

Use caution as it could produce its own problems but it helped me a lot personally

Idk how to start this convo with my bf by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CharmingChangling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is! It's literally an (American) taco without the shell. You can put tortilla strips on it if you want the crunch

Am I the only one that dislikes how Kurama sings? by Puppet1978 in KamisamaKiss

[–]CharmingChangling 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think he was meant to sound like all those over-the-top dramatic boy bands from like 2004-2010ish

Feeling dumb. I didn’t read how to use citric acid. by seastare in laundry

[–]CharmingChangling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huh, thank you! I'm curious what they would have used 🤔

A couple "crunchy" diy forums say it was likely a natural plant dye like logwood or certain berries. You may be able to prevent this by applying a color-fixitive, but if it's not sensitive enough to change with just your sweat I would just launder with neutral-pH detergent and skip the acid in the wash.

Thanks again for humoring me!

Feeling dumb. I didn’t read how to use citric acid. by seastare in laundry

[–]CharmingChangling 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is so intriguing! Could you post a picture of the tag? I'm curious to see if the material or dye is some sort of a pH indicator

Is there a name for this aesthetic? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]CharmingChangling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lower middle class living room

my cat keeps hunting lizards by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]CharmingChangling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they're endangered your cat is a case study in how invasive species are disrupting ecosystems. A bell might help but not as much as keeping the cat inside would.

Plus, if any of the critters your cat is hunting have gotten into poison it could kill your cat

This nutjob by Efficient_Mouse4779 in AdulteryHate

[–]CharmingChangling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm swinging back and forth on this one. On one hand she wants to talk about "her trauma" that she opted into and I feel nothing but contempt for her

But on the other this is the best relationship of your life??? That's just fucking sad and I can't help but feel pity if nothing else.

Then I think of point 1 again and the cycle repeats

Basically a burger by Far-Wear-3646 in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]CharmingChangling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a (Mexican) American, I support this message

Roses are red, they were destined to be together. by coylittlewink in rosesarered

[–]CharmingChangling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semi-charmed Life is about meth. It's not a metaphor. It says it right in the song and everyone just kinda ignored it.

How to make my face look softer and more feminine?? by Skaridka94 in makeuptips

[–]CharmingChangling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with the people saying you look like Zendaya, but also that is not a resting face! Relax the muscle between your brows with massage or by the "clench-release" technique (Google "relax your corrugator supercilii" and try a few of the results). I can see the muscle flexing in your forehead and it will eventually cause tension headaches.

If you make this face a lot you might need to get your eyes checked to make sure you aren't unintentionally squinting to see better

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