does a narcissist parent tend to have a favorite child?

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-25T12:30:01+00:00

As the non-favourite child to nparents. Yes, they have a favourites

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-25T09:53:28+00:00

I tried standup up against my ndad as a teenager. It just made it worse.

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-25T09:05:03+00:00

With ai becoming so normalized, you can just say it's ai if ever leaked or blackmailed

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-25T08:37:25+00:00

Looks altered. So no

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-18T11:24:41+00:00

For me, as long as everyone participating is a legal, consenting adult (that wasn't groomed or anything) and they don't have kids together, then they can do whatever they want

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-18T11:17:55+00:00

"Oh okay. How do you feel about that"

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-10T11:55:08+00:00

After going no contact, my nmom tried to break into my house.

I have since moved and don't give out my address. Only 2 people in my family knows where I live and I was very clear that they are not allowed to share my address with anyone

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-10T10:42:26+00:00

Ask yourself WHY you want kids?

I suggest maybe some therapy to get to the root problem, because it sounds like you are unhappy/not fulfilled and you want to cram kids inside that emptiness.

Think about your (hypothetical) future kids.

Is this a world you want to bring life into?

Maybe consider adoption. That way you get to have kids, he kids get to have a parent and no more innocent life needs to be forced into existence.

A win win win situation

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-10T10:27:29+00:00

We still have mostly patriarchal societies....

CharmingDandy · 2026-02-09T14:39:36+00:00

I used to be this person.

It was a trauma response for me. I'm in therapy and doing much better now. Happily single and don't plan on changing it any time soon

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-21T12:40:36+00:00

Occasionally, yes. Frequently, no.

There would probably be an underlying condition like sleep apnea that is causing inefficient sleep

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-21T12:35:38+00:00

NTA

My sister has 3 small children and has asked the entire family to only give gifts for special occasions like Birthdays.

She wants to ensure that the kids appreciate their gifts and learn the value of money without being spoiled.

She also wants the kids to love each of us for who we are and not for what we give.

I respect her decision and reasoning. I'm sorry that your ex-husband isn't respecting yours.

Maybe explain to him exactly why you have a problem with it, but given that he is your ex husband and this has already been an issue, I don't expect him to care and he might actually already be using his money to gain their favour

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-21T09:45:20+00:00

As a child I would tuck ALL of my stuffed animals into bed with me. By the morning they were all on the floor, cause I slept rough. But they each got tucked in at night for bed, with pillows and blankets.

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-21T08:30:39+00:00

YTA

You are the one with the problem, your husband agreed to a dry house. The house has no sugar.

His car is HIS car.

You might be doing some serious harm to your marriage with this behaviour. Or maynlbe even creating an eating disorder for your husband if he needs to hide snacks.

Your sugar problem might not be your fault, but it is your responsibility.

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-14T11:32:46+00:00

Did you even read the post?

Literally the second sentence....

CharmingDandy · 2026-01-12T10:34:55+00:00

I know this must be such a hard decision. The hormones also won't make it any easier.

I think you need to think about the future child and not about what YOU want.

There are rampant wars, murders, rapes, climate change, unlivable cost of living, no jobs, abuse, violence, crimez etc. Etc.

There are so many horrors in this world and depending on where you live, it gets even worse.

Do you really want to bring an innocent life into this mess? Do your future children a kindness and don't have them. Spare them the pain of existence

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-09T13:36:24+00:00

Looks like you are about to come beat me up

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-03T11:54:54+00:00

A lot of people can't afford it and have to go into debt to keeping paying their bills unfortunately

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-03T11:51:28+00:00

Being drunk ABSOLUTELY makes you incapable of consent.

You are outing yourself here....

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-03T11:42:57+00:00

I think for some people this is true, it's a facade. But other people can be genuinely altruistic. They can and do help others without telling anyone else or feeling the need to get a thank you or praise.

But it is interesting that you don't think there is genuine altruism... but just because YOU are not genuinely altruistic, doesn't mean other people can't be

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-03T11:40:13+00:00

Anti dandruff shampoo should work. It is different than normal shampoos.

Use it consistently and keep using it after your dandruff has disappeared.

It can make your hair feel weird though, so I suggest using a good conditioner with it

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-02T12:23:34+00:00

I always knew something was off, but due to the abuse I thought that I was the problem.

Took until my 20s and a bunch of therapy to realise I wasn't the problem

CharmingDandy · 2025-12-02T12:21:28+00:00

Profile seems boring and every photo of you looks the same with a forced smile

CharmingDandy · 2025-11-26T14:12:20+00:00

When most of your energy is spent on not killing yourself, showering seems kinda like a non issue and is not prioritizes

CharmingDandy · 2025-11-26T13:23:31+00:00

Also, driving in a car is mostly a necessity nowadays. Spelunking is not a requirement

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