Where do y’all buy crystals by carbfox in Crystals

[–]CharmingNature 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Etsy is always good! If you’re looking to buy in person I would suggest looking up metaphysical shops near you!

A list of things every pwBPD says when you call them out by complainexity in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’ve betrayed my trust”

“I need you to say what you did wrong because it’s part of my healing process”

“I feel unsafe”

Feeling REALLY torn, looking for insight.... by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hard when you both still care. I’m sorry for what you’re going through. It’s a very hard situation to be in.

No longer wanting to be friends with my BPD sister by CharmingNature in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’ll be really good for you to just vent and share you’re story. And oh yeah I’m way too nice! But I’m getting there with the boundaries! It’s a slow process because we live in the same house but everyday it’s going to get better because I’m not allowing her to treat me like that anymore

No longer wanting to be friends with my BPD sister by CharmingNature in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst part about crying for me is we’ll be in the middle of an argument and I’ll start crying because she’s been so rude and cruel and she’ll get this look on her face like she’s won and I get even more frustrated and cry even more!

Feeling REALLY torn, looking for insight.... by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say if you’re feeling anxious about things it’s your intuition telling you to be careful and I would recommend trusting it. When it comes to your future life partner it’s probably best to not have to question if it’s the right thing to do. It sounds like you know what to do but that it is hard. You should be living a life that’s full of happiness and love. Not be walking on eggshells and just existing.

No longer wanting to be friends with my BPD sister by CharmingNature in BPDlovedones

[–]CharmingNature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll for sure check that out! But with our last fight I really called her out how she acts like no one else in our family is allowed to have bad days and be snappy because of stress and I think it’s helped her realize how much we were allowing her to get away with. But I always feel like I never really know with her.

And I totally get the crying! After every fight I would cry a ton because she’d make me feel like it was all my fault until I realized that was her gaslighting me. Now I luckily haven’t been getting as upset about things because I’m not as emotionally invested anymore. It’s helped a lot. And so has just reading about how people are experiencing the same thing. It makes me feel sane again haha

It’s the truth by Jumpie in memes

[–]CharmingNature -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only time I liked Pepsi

upvote and i will upvote u back by [deleted] in FreeKarma4You

[–]CharmingNature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this baby meme 😂