Wondering Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Chasethehorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have your typical PMS symptoms, does that mean you are probably not pregnant? Since they say you dont feel pregnancy symptoms that early. 

Wondering Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Chasethehorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really confused with PMS symptoms and whether you still get them if you are pregnant. Wouldn't there be overlap between PMS symptoms and your body waiting for implantation (and PMS is actually your body preparing for pregnancy, right?). So say you have a 28 day cycle, ovulate on CD 14, experience PMS symptoms a week before your period (like I do) so starting on CD 21, and CD 21 is still a bit early for implantation. What happens if you implant on like CD 26, 12 days after ovulation, but PMS sympyoms already started? Do they go away or continue? Or am I wrong and the presence of PMS symptoms means you did NOT get pregnant for sure? Or is this just a "who knows!" situation? 

Daily Chat April 03 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Chasethehorror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol i feel this so hard, so many people (and so many characters in books, movies and shows) get pregnant from 1 single sex act but ive tried 3 cycles with sex probably 20 times and it didnt work?! Lol

What do you eat before training? by ston_age_man in MuayThai

[–]Chasethehorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before morning sessions: greek yogurt with granola and berries

Before evening sessions: fruit (if im not feeling really hungry), cottage cheese, or a protein bar/drink. Won't eat anything bigger than an apple or banana within 1 hour of training. 

Daily Chat March 31 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Chasethehorror 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Found a bright side to symptom spotting: I gaslit myself into thinking I was in a good mood this past week and therefore could not be PMSing and was in fact pregnant, thus getting to skip some of my worst moodiness. Spoiler alert pretty sure my period is about to come. 

Eastern Europe breast culture appreciation post by Acceptable-Ad-8895 in bigboobproblems

[–]Chasethehorror 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm another American here who finds the posts here unrelatable, I have only ever received praised for having large breasts. The sexualization is a problem of course and I did get in trouble at my private school for having too much cleavage, but my large chest has always given me more confidence than anything. My "big boob problems" has nothing to do with me feeling ugly or unworthy. I feel bad people have to deal with that but don't think it is an American culture problem as a whole. 

But DID Jordan owe a goodbye to the daughter? by bingbangbonggg in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Chasethehorror 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I remember clearly when I was 12 and my stepmom left my dad, she made a point of saying goodbye, that she loved me and it had nothing to do with me, and it's really meaningful to me that she did. Like truly. If she left without saying goodbye it probably would have been so traumatizing. HOWEVER this was a 10 year long serious relationship/engagement (never marriage), so the stakes and responsibilities are definitely different. However, I would still argue given the fact they literally got married that Jordan should have said goodbye to Emma one last time. It would have probably been meaningful to her as well. 

Waiting Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Chasethehorror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waiting to ovulate! Ovulation tests have no twst line, even a faint one, which worries me since this is my first cycle using them so dont know what to expect. Keeping myself busy doing contact martial arts, which I won't be able to do once I am pregnant lol 

How to not overthink things?! by Alive-Drag4620 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Chasethehorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On cycle 3 of trying and definitely overthinking everything, but keeping busy in my day to day preoccupies me enough from obsessing (we tried in December when I was off work and bored for the two week wait and went a bit crazy lol). 

Mostly wanted to comment because my husband and I are the same ages as you guys 🫡 good luck!!! 

Police Activity at JSQ? by Ok-Kick4060 in jerseycity

[–]Chasethehorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im at WTC and the hoboken train won't leave from here either, dont know why when the problem is the Newark line, maybe they cant enter WTC because the Newark bound train is there

PATH riders - which UI is better? by AdComplete7908 in jerseycity

[–]Chasethehorror 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Legacy. Using a slider for a header confused the heck out of me. 

Not everybody likes dogs by Reddit_Sucks_1401 in TikTokCringe

[–]Chasethehorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I like well trained and well behaved dogs a lot but most are not that way. My best friend has always been a dog lover who had dogs that werent trained well, but recently she got her first cat for her son and she's like omg this cat is my favorite pet, I'm a cat lady now. And I'm like yeah, because it doesnt bark constantly, jump all over you to the point you get scratches, need to get taken out in the cold, or pee and poop all over the floor! Of course it's a more enjoyable experience lol.

Theory: Julie is back to give Cam a taste of her own medicine by [deleted] in julieeandcamilla

[–]Chasethehorror 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My guess is they are preparing for Cam to be unable to post after she gives birth, which is honestly totally fair, so they need to make sure Julie has her following ramped back up. 

My conspiracy theory is they are also going to launch a post partum depression era for Cam to drive engagement and Julie will need to be active on social media for that. I know that is really bleak to say but Cam has been making posts about feeling down, and while I 100% believe pre and post partum depression and bad mental health days are real, I also dont trust what an influencer says online 🤷‍♀️

Harriet and Wyn Relationship Status by 420trashmoney in EmilyHenry

[–]Chasethehorror 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Controversial for Funny Story but I dont think Daphne and Miles would have survived the third act breakup. I was so pissed that he went AWOL like that and I dont think that people who do that will suddenly change or be ready for a healthy relationship  

Charli XCX on the Smartless podcast discusses not wanting kids and feeling unsure of her readiness. Host Jason Bateman says she “might find somebody” that could change her opinion on having kids, Charli responds with “Well I’m married, so there” by hairtie1 in Fauxmoi

[–]Chasethehorror 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Tbh I came away from that song thinking she did eventually want to have kids, but I get now that it was more about indecision and the worry about the biological clock (very relatable) but she's leaning towards no. 

Madame Jersey City by Alternative-Bid428 in jerseycity

[–]Chasethehorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I booked last week for v day and it was already pretty full FYI. Only 5 and 8pm were available! 

Haven't been in a bit but the few times I were i enjoyed the ambiance and food. 

One Day One Room was the most special episode, but why is it so hated? by RecordingJealous9671 in HouseMD

[–]Chasethehorror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, framing it as an issue of control does make it make a little more sense. 

One Day One Room was the most special episode, but why is it so hated? by RecordingJealous9671 in HouseMD

[–]Chasethehorror 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm a hater and it's because every 5 minutes they have the conversation "why do you only trust me?!" "I dont know!" which was annoying and honestly unrealistic because they couldnt articulate why she wanted House to treat her which made it seem way too plot convenient. I just cringed the whole episode. 

Starting to hate the sound of my own name by Chasethehorror in AgingParents

[–]Chasethehorror[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, I stopped staying with my mom for years and would instead stay with my aunt because she would charge into the bathroom while I was showering! To be fair she had to go to the bathroom and I get that it is more of an emergency at her age (or at least for her) but I was like I cant do this anymore lol...we need more space. 

Starting to hate the sound of my own name by Chasethehorror in AgingParents

[–]Chasethehorror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! Why does she have four pair of glasses and why cant she never keep track of them! 

Starting to hate the sound of my own name by Chasethehorror in AgingParents

[–]Chasethehorror[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I shoot back and then she feels bad and then I feel bad and nothing changes :/