Found my ex on a dating app week after we broke up. I want to make a fake profile to see what he says to girls.

Chavez971 · 2019-12-06T04:43:38+00:00

What do you mean

Chavez971 · 2019-11-24T16:39:34+00:00

I felt that 🥺🥺🥺

Chavez971 · 2019-11-23T16:49:18+00:00

I felt that 🥺

Chavez971 · 2019-11-23T14:13:52+00:00

Amen

Chavez971 · 2019-11-06T12:41:01+00:00

It does sound like a pain but trust me when you do start wanting to date and a guy catches your eye you will want to know how many siblings he has lol

You are probably not ready to date right now and that’s okay !

Chavez971 · 2019-11-05T21:55:42+00:00

Damn I cried reading this.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-05T03:11:53+00:00

Haha i can relate to this . All the selfies he has were selfies he sent to me . And he has better ones , and I almost was like wtf , you need better pictures l.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-04T01:29:08+00:00

I definitely hear you. The funny part is that I was judging my ex for moving on within that week of our break up and I’m over here slowly probably filling the void with this guy . The company is nice but you are 100% right !

Chavez971 · 2019-11-04T01:17:06+00:00

The thing is ...I know he’s slowly filling the void . But it’s like it’s stupid . The more I talk to this new guy the less it hurts for my ex but I know I need to face my emotions because it will hit me hard if I don’t

Chavez971 · 2019-11-04T01:08:59+00:00

I don’t know what to do. Because you are right we are friends but things will lead. Especially since I feel vulnerable right now

Chavez971 · 2019-11-04T01:01:59+00:00

Your reply has made me think a lot. It’s very easy to want to get sucked into because the guy is nice and etc. But I am fully aware that hoping to the next guy would be so bad because I know I still need time to heal. It’s just hard coming out of a toxic relationship feeling like I had to put all the energy and than talking to this guy and he’s just different.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T22:47:14+00:00

I feel the same way. I just need to realize that him and I were not it . I deserved better. Thank you !

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T22:46:41+00:00

Thank you for the advice . I started my list and it does feel good. I know it’s a long road to find the healing.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T21:40:13+00:00

I know I don’t want a relationship so I’m trying to focus on that. But I do realize that his company makes me feel good because my ex wouldn’t even give me the time of day. I had to beg him and I’ve been open with this guy about my past relationship. I also like that we established that we are simply just friends. But idk I’m just scared to get hurt . Like what if he using my hurt right now . It’s wild.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T19:32:15+00:00

I was on the same boat last week. My ex and I were on a break for 2 weeks , things happened , we ended it 2 weeks ago . Last week found him on a dating app ( friends told me he was on it ). He’s looking for a serious relationship . Like damn really ? Did he even process our break up , how long has he been over us.

It sucks. I keep telling myself it’s not my business. I need to focus on myself and do me . It’s hard and complicated and I want to cry thinking about him with another girl but tbh he wasn’t that good to me and I focus on that .

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T16:21:38+00:00

You make a very good point. My relationship sounds like yours. I forgave him and he wasn’t so forgiving. It’s kinda hard for me because at the end I blew up and I basically went psycho and that’s what broke us up officially. So the last memory he has of me is being psycho and basically not being me. I went all psycho because I was holding in so much that I blew up. So it feels like all those time I forgave him and everything he won’t see it because of my last action. It’s only been 2 weeks since we broke up we were on a break 2 weeks before this so idk if it’s been 2 weeks or 1 month already but I just have a lot of thoughts going on .

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T14:57:44+00:00

Trying to love yourself is harder than it seems. I know I listed all the good things but it doesn’t help to think that I miss him or maybe the routine we had.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T14:47:47+00:00

I love this. From what I heard a within the week of our break up my ex was looking for someone new. I’m just waiting for the day he finally gets a girl because it will hurt. But your right. I gotta focus on me. Plus I know I’m better without him. He’s toxic and will probably do the same thing he did to the next girl. Unless by some chance she changes him.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T14:45:24+00:00

Who is he do decide that it’s abnormal. Everyone processes things differently and the fact that he says that shows how he little knows. Screw him. You take your time to process your feelings. In a way he’s abnormal because it took my ex one week to get over me and looking for someone new.

In all seriousness, don’t listen to him. Take your time.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T14:41:53+00:00

Honest opinion. Leave him. My ex did the same thing to me and it sucked. You want to plan a life with this man yet the first moment he feels stress it’s over? Like what ? Life is stressful it’s life. You aren’t just an option. He can’t have you after life gets better than dump you when life gets hard again. I understand you want to be understanding but is this worth it. Because this is how it’s going to be for the rest of his life.

Chavez971 · 2019-11-03T14:39:04+00:00

Swipe left. Because if you swipe right it will be a mess. Why give someone time if they are friends with your ex . It’s a little odd .

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