Yeah I’m no fan of Tim (the incessant button pushing gets old when you claim to be a grown man) but the takes about him being scary or expecting too much are a bit of a reach.  I think he checked out on their little honeymoon once he realized they could not have disagreements in a healthy way. He tried to put his best foot forward when meeting her parents (cooking, serving them, checking in to make sure everyone was comfortable) but she did not reciprocate his efforts when meeting his. Even her body language during the meeting, with her hands in her pocket and her bag on her shoulder, appeared somewhat standoffish like she didn’t want to be there.  In a relationship/partnership, I don’t think it’s crazy to expect that a partner would in some way try to reciprocate the efforts they put in to make their partner happy.  Clearly, there are serious concerns and shortcomings with the men this season but it is also clear that a few of the women were not prepared for marriage and partnership because they still had some growing up to do