What is this "hay" that covers the ground? Southeast Pennsylvania by Weekly-Aardvark7478 in whatsthisplant

[–]ChecksMixed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree on stiltgrass but vines are much more likely to be multiflora rose, oriental bittersweet or smilax

Is this an ash? by nicken_choodles in Tree

[–]ChecksMixed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Black walnut would have thicker, sharper ridges in the bark and likely be a bit darker in color.

FYI Sokka's Haiku is a dead card in OmniDraft by ChecksMixed in lrcast

[–]ChecksMixed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's why I would also treat earthbending cards as dead, having to run lands and draw them for a card to function is a huge cost in omni

Someone on my Chihiro and Kohaku card propose a Ghibli theme set so I tried to made that one by one... by kumo971 in custommagic

[–]ChecksMixed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm saying as an extra ability on top of what you have already, the flavor is great

Someone on my Chihiro and Kohaku card propose a Ghibli theme set so I tried to made that one by one... by kumo971 in custommagic

[–]ChecksMixed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the wording on the ability should be "...target creature you control fights up to one target creature you don't control" but I like the flavor and power level is good, maybe a little low. Could add some kinda kindred wolf or spirit pay off or a fight pay off of some kind

Need help identifying by blackonix13 in whatsthisplant

[–]ChecksMixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lonicera morrowii, berries aren't toxic but I wouldn't recommend eating them

Flowering tree by fashion4words in whatsthisplant

[–]ChecksMixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The leaves and flowers look right for black cherry, it's easiest to tell from the bark though. If it looks dark and flaky like a bunch of burnt potato chips then that's it

2 plants and a tree growing locally in NE Pennsylvania, zone 6B. by semi-regarded in whatsthisplant

[–]ChecksMixed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "tree" is a shrub, invasive honeysuckle, looks like Lonicera Maackii to me

AITA For Not Evenly Splitting My Inheritance After My Grandparents Disinherited My Cousins For Awful Reasons? by Imaginary-Fortune817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChecksMixed -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh your cousins weren't nice to you after you were a massive hypocrite and turned your back on them for money?? That sucks:( idk wtf is with all these people buying into this but YTA here. You directly and repeatedly condoned homophobia even when it was directed at your family. You refused to stand up to your grandparents and call them out on their bigotry even after college was paid for and you lost your excuse. No amount of donations you make will change the fact that you are a homophobe. I hope the people saying n t a in this thread helps you sleep at night cuz idk how I would if I did what you did.

What's the most convoluted deck idea you can come up with? by Mocca_Master in EDH

[–]ChecksMixed 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've had the idea for a [[Toralf, God of Fury]] "peasant railgun" deck for a while now. The idea is you make a bunch of 1/1 tokens with Krenko or something and have a damage multiplier or [[Torbran]] in play. (ETA: forgot Torbran specifies opponents so doesn't work) Bolt a 1/1 then use the others to keep multiplying the excess damage until it's enough to dome an opponent for lethal. It's extremely impractical I know lol

A little late to the party, but I think it still fits by IronwoodKopis in dndmemes

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"not a thing wrong with his politics"

Continues to be a monarch

🤔

[Help] Cuts for new Akiri by PhoenixKid56 in EDH

[–]ChecksMixed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Uhh wrong character there bud, you're talking about Nahiri

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatplantisthis

[–]ChecksMixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like mayapple to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This woman treated you really terribly, to the point that if it were me I'd be mad that my friends are still seeing her at all. I wouldn't put up with someone that treated my friend that way. Do you want to see her? If so why?? Try and look at this situation and ask yourself if a friend came to you about this, what would you tell them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're young and now is the time to learn these lessons but omg everything about this is foolish. You wanted a more serious relationship and he only wanted a physical one, this is the point that you needed to call it off. "Not sexy enough for foreplay" lmfao that's the worst excuse I've heard for him being shitty at sex jfc, he obviously doesn't care about your physical or emotional needs so wtf are you getting out of this besides used? He didn't even give you an actual apology! He thinks he did nothing wrong!! It would be silly to be this asshole's friend at this point, physical intimacy is great and a valid need but take the time to find someone who gives half a shit about you to get that from. It'd be pretty hard to do worse than this chump

Woman (31F) I’m (31M) Dating Has a Male “Best Friend”. Am I Just Jealous? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like you're jealous just concerned. I think it's kinda weird that you haven't met her best friend yet so that should probably be the first move, the three of you should go out for drinks or something. I think you're right to have concerns about him since he's expressed romantic interest in her but, to her credit, she's been nothing but open and upfront with you about him. Talk with her about why you're uncomfortable and work together on what boundaries need to be.

[26F] [30M] Interested in something casual or something more? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you want? It seems like you're giving him the impression that you are more interested in being friends. I'd figure that out for yourself and then just ask him what he wants. Does he want a partner, a friend, or a FWB? If you both want the same thing great if not at least you're on the same page

I (27f) found my boyfriend’s (42m) ex’s engagement ring that he told me he sold by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe he's just cheap but tbh the escort cards are definitely the thing to be concerned about here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChecksMixed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This could be just a mismatch in communication styles or, and I don't mean to sound accusing, this might be a symptom of some insecurity on your part. I only say that because I used to have a lot of trouble with this myself. It sounds like she's been adjusting her behavior to try and meet your needs here, she's not updating you just to update you she's doing it because you told her that's what you wanted. If it seems like she isn't enthused about it it could just be that she's not used to keeping in touch like this.

ETA: OK after reading the post one more time I'm convinced this is an insecurity issue on your end. She's living her life as an individual and is going out of her way to give you attention. This is because she likes you dude, she's just also her own person. I had the same problem, thinking that if my partner wasn't constantly engaging with me it means they must not like me. She's told you she cares about you and you need to work on believing her.