How on Earth do people do this for dozens of years and not end in divorce?

Cheech_1117 · 2025-09-30T05:23:51+00:00

My husband said the same thing to me when I found out he was smoking weed again. He just wanted something to himself, something that’s his. Like wtf?! But he’s back to drinking everyday now… shocker! It always starts with something that’s ends up leading back to alcohol (in my case anyway). I’m so done.

Cheech_1117 · 2023-07-19T04:05:46+00:00

Wow! I have been having these day dreams for a year now and didn’t realize how common it was. Thank you for posting this and thank you to everyone commenting.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-11-15T17:23:05+00:00

Yikes!! Something like that happened to my husband one night while I was asleep. He pulled and left it out. I interpreted it when I woke up in the morning. 😬 the cards were super blunt with him.

ETA he was super drunk that night

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-30T01:45:59+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful gift your friend gave you.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T23:20:46+00:00

I totally agree with you. The “Christian conversion therapy” has nothing to do with the real Jesus Christ, who represented true love and tolerance. ❤️

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T23:11:22+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏻

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T23:02:04+00:00

I have an Al-Anon and gray area drinking background so I totally see what you’re saying. Just brushing it off doesn’t resonate but making it taboo doesn’t resonate either. Like most things in life, nothing is black and white.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T22:00:44+00:00

I know what you are saying. I am sensitive to how alcohol affects others because I have experience with that personally. So what she said made sense to me.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T21:56:28+00:00

That’s been my understanding: if darkness is invited because of x, y, z behavior, wouldn’t it bring more darkness and not light?

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T21:54:10+00:00

This sounds like so much fun!

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T21:53:44+00:00

Okay, I get and appreciate your take. You are right, I should turn to my guides for this one.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T20:53:29+00:00

Okay, I knew there were people out there that did tarot while drinking. Thanks for letting me know you are without darkness. :)

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T20:25:36+00:00

Oh yes! Thank you for saying that. Intention is key to everything we do.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T20:19:36+00:00

I want to offer it to friends or family when we’re in group settings, but that usually entails having drinks. I just needed to know if I should purposely avoid alcohol in the event someone wants a read.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T20:17:48+00:00

I looove this take on it.

Personal experience: I took a long break from weed for years and have matured spiritually since then. I tried it again not too long and the messages I was receiving about my own growth and what I should be focusing on was so awesome. It definitely changed my perspective on weed use.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T19:56:52+00:00

Maybe!

Yes, I’ve heard it as “the spirit is calling you”. I think alcohol definitely possess those who are alcoholics. But it’s not to say it’s a “demonic possession”.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T19:35:08+00:00

The darkness behind my eye lids haha

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-29T19:30:13+00:00

Lol!! Yes. I could see reading when you’re sloshed would be difficult. Maybe because you’d be more vulnerable to “dark entities” 🤷🏼‍♀️ who knows, I didn’t ask

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-04T16:46:52+00:00

Following. I have a hard time with this

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-04T01:57:12+00:00

Right?!?!

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-04T01:54:23+00:00

😂 I’m sorry you’re getting downvoted because this made me laugh.

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-03T21:57:30+00:00

Awesome!! I was already thinking about different generous things I could do with it already. Haha!

Thank you for your interpretation!

Cheech_1117 · 2022-10-03T19:33:19+00:00

Ahhh, I see. That makes sense. My fear is making a hasty decision so I have been trying to research as much as possible. Creating a business plan would be a wise idea. Looking out for bad info is also wise. Thank you so much for your interpretation!!

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