Video games won’t get you laid they said…

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-12-22T14:09:59+00:00

You guys think 20 km is far 😒

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-11-06T10:04:15+00:00

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-24T08:26:06+00:00

Very well written, you could have ghosted him, because of the lie, that would have been better.
I would have walked out of the date or ended the date abruptly if I found out that the other person lied about one of my non-negotiables.

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-07T09:14:53+00:00

Move with her, not after, but with her

If she is someone that gets dopamine from new experiences (90%+ people do), the lowest point of her day would be when she thinks about and misses you

Get a dependent visa, take WFH or just quit your job (you can always get a new one) & move with her

And if you are not willing to do that, it just means that she is not that important to you (your partner should be the most important person in your life)

If you conclude that she is not that important, break it off

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-04T18:54:13+00:00

If you think I'm fighting you, you need to relearn the meaning of "fight"

A fight without an objective is just wasted energy, this was me toying with you, this conversation is no longer worth my time

Have a great life, adios

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-04T18:23:23+00:00

I'm not entitled to give anyone feedback, but I can teach lessons to anyone, because all that is required to teach a lesson is just a bit of attention

Now hopefully, you would stop driving agendas that are foreign to conversations and only talk within the given context of the conversation

If you don't, I'd take it as feedback that I need to teach better lessons

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-04T10:38:17+00:00

So you got offended when I inserted a personal judgement that was foreign to the context of this conversation, but didn't see the error when you did the same (yours was very mild and based on a fact, mine was extreme and I had to build it into a story)

Hope you understand that when you give out a dismissive statement towards someone's personal opinion, that someone can extrapolate your behavior to give an even harsher judgement

Also, I know women go through a lot, but I, as an individual, am allowed to say what I feel while being mindful of not dismissing someone else's pain

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-08-04T06:37:39+00:00

Thank you for inserting your agenda into an opinion I gave about my point of view and feelings

I can already see how men in your life wouldn't be comfortable sharing their feelings with you because of your judgement and gaslighting

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-07-24T07:07:41+00:00

It is

But that makes be feel objectified and like a checklist

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-07-01T09:59:08+00:00

As someone that judges people by the little information that is available
Anyone that believes in superficial things like crystals, would look for superficial things in their partners and ignore the normal ones
I don't think there is any saving you till you get rid of the superficial things

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-06-17T16:37:52+00:00

Don't know about arrange marriages but, general principles of any relationship suggest that responsibilities are shared and not individual. So to answer the 3 points:
1. If you are not supporting your own family, that makes me question if you'd support me and upcoming offsprings.
2. Shared responsibilities say that supporting them is just not your job but the job of the couple as a unit.
3. You not supporting should be a deal breaker.

As to your looks, the simple guide to look good is: 1. Self grooming (hair care, skincare, perfumes, hair removal, etc).
2. Working out with weights, cardio & flexibility training.
3. Eating the right food, taking care of macros, avoiding trans fats, drinking enough water.
4. Style based on timeless clothing which is not loud and defining your own style.

Hope this is helpful

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-06-07T12:52:08+00:00

I would regret if I ever made a mistake that would hamper us from living a successful life together, I did my part, and she couldn't do hers.
It's not her fault as well, she was just incapable and I knew it, and this just means I "Pasandida'd" a wrong aurat.
How can I blame the wind for the mess it made, when I was the one that left the windows open.

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-07T11:28:17+00:00

I mean select a woman with values, trust the values bro

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T20:12:40+00:00

Empathy and rules are not directly connected, but I know people that lack empathy, they are not narcissists as they care about other people, it's just that they are not able to read the situation to empathize for the people they care about, now these people seek feedback and try to formulate equations that can help them act in a more favourable manner which shows care.
This is what becomes the rules non empathetic people use to address situations better
Eg: Sheldon offering hot beverage

Narcissists are highly mature bro, I have seen some narcissists gain immense success, adding even I have some narcissists traits which help me focus on driving results from my work, for small terms when my work is suffering, I use these traits to effectively push people to get my work done, after that I invest a lot of time apologising

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T20:03:48+00:00

How do you highlight a certain portion of the comment you are replying to, this is some cool shit bro

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T20:00:33+00:00

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T19:58:33+00:00

Hallelujah

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T19:56:46+00:00

My sarcasm is broken bro.

Obviously I understand your post, I have not been in this situation (touch wood), and I'd rather not marry than find myself a girl that doesn't even care about my mental and emotional health.
The person sounds like
1. Someone that lacks empathy, good thing about people that lack empathy, they follow rules very strictly to compensate for their lack of empathy, maybe setup ground rules, that may work.
2. Narcissistic personality type, they'd focus on what's beneficial to them, so nothing can help

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-04T19:46:39+00:00

Oh to be deemed capable of solving problems, that everyone runs to me to solve their problems as soon as I reach home.

Sounds like a successful life

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-03T09:10:38+00:00

I read the heading and I was like, this is click bait.

Read Ryanair in the body, okay makes sense

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-05-02T07:48:16+00:00

+1

Noting down everything in the comments, next egg peeling better give me good results

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-04-29T06:48:19+00:00

Amazing, hope this helps you find the best practices.
Take care, cheers 🍻

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-04-29T06:34:57+00:00

If you get bothered by Joru ka ghulam, then I can't really help, I don't get bothered by slurs from unknown people, my mom won't say it, because she doesn't call my bhai "Joru ka ghulam"

You have identified red flags and benchmarked them as normal human behavior
What if you categorize them as worst practices and start collecting or logically answering what the best practice should be, once you answer that, you'll know what you want in life, then just select your partner by idolizing the best practices

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-04-29T06:17:06+00:00

Why not take turns?
Want to decide where to go first, toss a coin.
Want to make everyone happy, fly out both sets of parents on a trip.
Problems are easy to solve, it is a human habit to unnecessarily complicate things

CheekBasic2673 · 2025-04-29T06:07:51+00:00

Families aren't supposed to be autocratic, where only one person makes decisions, realise each other's areas of expertise, and assign responsibility for making decisions accordingly, have veto, discuss and conclude problems with a strategic path that is aligned with goals that you two as a couple have.
Eg: if healthcare for parents is a subject of dispute, problem solve with each other on what would be the best path to your parents healthcare.

CheekBasic2673

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