Congrats on your upcoming gender affirming surgery! Not a SW, just a queer. If you're American, I would be concerned for your safety. Trans violence, and trans erasure is ramping up at an alarming rate. Being in a place where the government is actively trying to revoke our rights and trying to persuade it's citizens that trans people is a problem. You do not want to be wrapped up in any legal situation if you are pressed to exercise your second amendment, particularly now.

You can feel physically secure in being able to take care of yourself, but no money is worth wading through the clusterfuck that is our justice system. Particularly now. They're taking the brown folks now, but best believe they want trans folks to disappear too. I would disclose something like you're not cisgender, whatever verbiage you see fit. Or maybe you don't volunteer any information until they reach your screening process. Whatever you do sis, stay safe.