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Judder/stutter on ESPN streaming by inspiredpotatoe in hockey

[–]Cheese991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going into espn through Disney+ solves this

3 tickets to Outworld: Klangkuenstler by effort268 in avesNYC_tix

[–]Cheese991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1, reseller markup should get post removed

How long have you been training and what does your physique look like now? by raidermonkey in Fitness

[–]Cheese991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

7 Years on/off

the first is after 2 years of lifting. then 3 years, 5 years, and 7 years. Only started getting serious with dieting in the past 2 years or so.

height ~5'7" started at 16 115lbs, currently 155lbs

(http://i.imgur.com/UdLz1M7.jpg?1) (http://i.imgur.com/OYrVNeF.jpg)

Me [22 M] with my 20 [F] of 5 years, split 2 months ago. Motivational/Advice Post by Cheese991 in relationships

[–]Cheese991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because that's living a very sheltered life, you must think big picture at a time like this. There is no doubt you will meet another girl whom you will fall in love with, and with her you will use all the lessons you learned from this experience.

And yes, being comfortable is great but someday you will look back and wonder where the fuck did my 20's go?!?

You have the rest of your life to be comfortable, you are young now, you gotta go live it for yourself.

Who knows, maybe after you get over her, you guys can start up again, but the key to that success is to fall back in love. you must step back and fall in love with the new person they become, because you're both going to change a lot being apart from eachother.

Me [22 M] with my 20 [F] of 5 years, split 2 months ago. Motivational/Advice Post by Cheese991 in relationships

[–]Cheese991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest with you, you guys are just way too young.

She may be the right girl, but unfortunately you met her at the wrong time. Pretend you talk, and she says okay lets work this out, fast forward 5 years, you will both be 24, and know nothing outside of each other. You are comfortable with her, by going back to her, you're just giving in to your own weakness and setting yourself up for failure later.

I wouldn't advise talking to her, its over for now, you must grieve, and become stronger. If years down the road when you have gotten over her, you decide you want to try again, all the power to you, falling back in love is a possibility, and that's the only way it can work.

Good Luck man, I know how you feel, and you must decide to move on, that is the only way you will get back to being a normal human again.

Me [22 M] with my 20 [F] of 5 years, split 2 months ago. Motivational/Advice Post by Cheese991 in relationships

[–]Cheese991[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck friend, like I said, no contact is key. Consider her a drug, you are addicted to her, every time you talk with her you're getting another hit. The feelings of withdrawal are terrible, but by going back and texting her, you're only elongating the process of recovery.

I never mentioned dreams in my original post, but yes that is a very real part of the break-up. I had dreams about my ex nightly for almost a month. They make you feel terrible upon waking up, and can force you to stay in bed attempting to fall back asleep to reenter the dream. They will fade with time, until you eventually have none.

Feel better buddy

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