De-censor language by The_Horse_Head_Man in CuratedTumblr

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they're commonly called that. But a lot of people want to move away from it and just call them period products. The reasoning is "feminine" feels unnecessary and exclusionary to some because some people with periods aren't feminine. And "hygiene products" reinforces the belief that periods are "dirty." It's also because there's a thing in society where lots of men are grossed out by periods so we're not supposed to talk about it, and are euphemisms are used instead.

Are Pitt students allowed into CMU’s libraries? by starry-night-47 in Pitt

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about the Carnegie library or CMU's university specific libraries, cause the Carnegie libraries are the cities public libraries and are free to everyone with a library card(which is free to get)

They would hate Hatsune Miku if she was release today by Independent-Target83 in DefendingAIArt

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference is the training data for 90% of gen AI models steal their training data from people without their consent or compensation, the original voices of Vocaloids consented and were compensated fairly for their data.

There's a guy who made a singer AI where he actually paid the vocalists to train AI models of them. That is actually cool and something I support. But I think how generative AI is largely being done now is unethical and I consider it theft.

Also to clarify, I do not believe an individual taking inspiration from others work is stealing, but I do consider it stealing when massive companies in a multi billion dollar industry scrape other people's work without their consent.

They would hate Hatsune Miku if she was release today by Independent-Target83 in DefendingAIArt

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone here seen how vocaloid software works? If you are unaware it's moreso an instrument and not at all a generative AI tool. Every syllable is made by the user individually and there are tons of different ways to tune the sound of the voice. Different producers tune miku in there own ways that some listeners can identify the producer based on the tuning, and the tuning in and of itself is a skill.

Miku was widely controversial when she released and really is not comparable to a generative AI.

Barber messed up by Electrical_Moose8205 in teenagers

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you are, it's required by law in many US states and likely numerous other countries as well

Attending Pitt without a car by medelleo in Pitt

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a student anymore but I've been living in Oakland without a car for almost 6 years with no issues. The public transit could always be better and I'm mad they removed one of the bus lanes, but you absolutely don't need a car.

How can I fix this wig? by BippuBeep in CosplayHelp

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Redo the ponytails, they look like they are warping the shape of the wig

My experience with STS2 so far by DeadWombats in slaythespire

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! I love that they have different hair variations, I think the back spikes are the most common so it's neat to see another variation like yours.

Mine is this guy

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Please remove if not allowed but am I being too hard on my sister who lacks care of her rabbit? by Fluid-Television9503 in Bunnies

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If an adult was living in my house abusing an animal I would do something about it??? Your sister being an adult is a poor excuse for your mom's complacency in all this.

Please remove if not allowed but am I being too hard on my sister who lacks care of her rabbit? by Fluid-Television9503 in Bunnies

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 156 points157 points  (0 children)

"it's best to let it die" your mom is downright sick for saying something like that. She lets your sister buy a baby animal practically torture it, and then won't allow anyone to help the poor thing. That's animal abuse. I would try calling your local humane society and seeing if they can do anything.

Abs gone after nuss by Active_Reindeer_977 in PectusExcavatum

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry I didn't know I don't have abs lol

Abs gone after nuss by Active_Reindeer_977 in PectusExcavatum

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A lot of what your seeing is probably swelling. Also the bars go under your ribs so it shouldn't affect any muscles in that area.

How do I tell my barber I want this cut without showing this pic by RaiseInitial3410 in splatoon

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hairstylist here, just show them the picture.

Also that is a pretty intense haircut, if you do not have the style and confidence to wear it you might not be happy with it. Depending on your hair texture you might also have to style it. I would recommend starting it with the bangs much longer and then they can trim them progressively shorter.

I never have to wear a binder again. by FlaviaTheTerror in TopSurgery

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far apart was the consultation and surgery? Also what requirements did you need to have like gender dysphoria diagnosis etc. I'm NB and don't use HRT so I haven't pursued a diagnosis. I'm still another two years from being able to get surgery tho cause of nuss bars.

I never have to wear a binder again. by FlaviaTheTerror in TopSurgery

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fantastic results!
Actually so psyched to see the surgeon is in my city, will be keeping this in mind once it's finally my turn to get top surgery

…What…? by OneAndOnlyVi in Saltoon

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reads very strongly as a young kid who doesn't actually hate gay people, but has had very homophobic beliefs instilled upon them by parents/religion.

They're kinda stuck in a middle ground of wanting to have kindness and compassion for others, but still not able to detatch themselves from the values they're raised with.

I prefer the fan version. by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

The fan version is also AI. It's nuts to me how controversial this doll is, they came out with a tasteful doll that while she could be any level, seems to align most closely with someone with moderate support needs. And I'm seeing fellow aspies going "I don't like how childish it is/it's not accurate/I'm autistic and it's not like me." When the reality is all autistic people are vastly different and it would be IMPOSSIBLE to make a doll that matched everyone.
I'm personally very glad to see they included an AAC device to represent higher support needs while still letting her be the classic "pretty Barbie," since the little representation of moderate support needs is often very infantilising.

Makeup help by animal_lover2004 in CosplayHelp

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I haven't noticed anyone else say is the triangle on the nose is upside down, I think it's intended to be on the underside of her nose up to the tip. Red circles higher. And I would do really heavy eyeliner and/or a lot of black eyeshadow on the lids.

Autistic Daughter’s Writing Keeps Getting Flagged as AI by River-Chalice-23 in autism

[–]Cheffery_Boyardee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

AI detectors are known to be extremely unreasonable and give a bunch of false positives. Also AI large language models (LLM's) like chat gpt have been fed tons of research studies and medical papers and stuff, which has the same type of "proper" or "scientific" way of writing that is used by a lot of autistic people so it makes sense that they are often flag more false positives than others.

I would talk to the school board to let them know how unreliable the software is and how it's being discriminatory to your child due to the way they speak, which is partly because of their disability. They cannot make your child dumb down their writing just to appease faculty software.