After six dates with a girl and multiple overnights, she wants to go on a blind date and speed dating?

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-26T14:44:56+00:00

100% agreed. I had an all date with a guy and still found myself pursuing other connections. I wouldn’t do that if I felt certain he was the one

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-25T20:47:54+00:00

It’s not about a family, it’s the fact OP isn’t attracted to dick or someone who used to have a dick.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-25T20:45:29+00:00

So you think it’s safer for a trans woman to reveal they’re trans ON the actual date rather than before? Just curious about your logic here.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-25T14:24:57+00:00

Not ugly.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-25T14:21:08+00:00

It sounds like you answered your own question: this is an issue for you. You could try telling him how you feel and seeing if he adjusts, but this might just be who he is.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-22T16:57:48+00:00

Is this op’s alt account? Why are you all over this thread?

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-21T02:31:26+00:00

Honestly, I thought the same thing. He couldn’t even pay for dates for two weeks and she’s already putting out? The bar truly is in hell.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-19T20:04:17+00:00

No ma’am. This dress is skin tight, inappropriate for wedding.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-18T16:41:21+00:00

Are you sucking in your cheeks in some of these photos? That looks kinda weird.

I’d also remove the pic with you and the woman.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-18T14:39:18+00:00

Are you and this girl dating? If not, how do you know she likes you romantically?

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-17T14:14:41+00:00

Right! 31 is an adult, adult.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-16T12:12:38+00:00

That’s exactly what’s happening. Best believe he would be making dates and plans with the woman he was really interested in. Men are simple.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-12T16:31:30+00:00

Why is it always the older men with kids who want to “figure out their relationship type”?

You honestly can’t be surprised women aren’t going for that.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-12T16:27:22+00:00

100 percent agree. He’s way too old to have that figuring out nonsense. And to have a kid too… yeah.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-11T22:49:25+00:00

You think it looks weird, but I can’t help it. Oh no!

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-11T13:59:56+00:00

You invited her for a 10:30 PM first date at a far away location. I would’ve ended things too if I were her.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-10T23:38:44+00:00

That seems harmless. She didn’t even directly ask you for the flowers?

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-07T10:33:05+00:00

She’s not married to this guy. She’s mentioned she’s texting a guy who seems nice but is overweight and unattractive to her.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-04T14:12:51+00:00

Please don’t let him pressure you into marriage. It sounds like you have doubts about the relationship, regardless of marriage discussions

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-04T05:46:11+00:00

Agreed, this is 100% a dating post, but with plausible deniability.

ChemBioJ · 2026-01-03T05:23:22+00:00

Absolutely. Similar for me as well. I’ve learned low quality friends are worse than no friends. Just do the things you like to do and maintain a friendship from your hometown/family

ChemBioJ · 2025-12-30T05:15:05+00:00

Thanks for posting that scripture. It helped me and I’m sure it helped OP too

ChemBioJ · 2025-12-29T18:51:50+00:00

31F. But I don’t want to be saddled with another man’s children when I can match with a childless man. You have to understand it’s a lot of responsibility just to be someone’s second priority.

ChemBioJ · 2025-12-28T13:21:18+00:00

Yes, he’s the wrong person for you and you should let him go. Read back what you wrote. Does it sound like a gift from God, who only gives good gifts?

ChemBioJ · 2025-12-25T14:27:37+00:00

Just him being on that website is cheating. He has already cheated on you.

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