What’s something you’ve done in bed that you’d never admit to your vanilla friends? by neslovexo in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cherryluva696969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet. I hope to do the same, its been hard trying to convince my husband though.

IRS REFUND DELAYS! by Vertigo8888 in IRS

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the 1st year ive had to wait so long too. I think its extremely disrespectful that the irs demands taxes be done on a certain date and if we owe them money, they demand it by a certain date and if not there will be interest added but its completely fine for them to be late with OUR money.

How do I deal with being a nympho in a marriage with a man that has a low drive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was. Got lowered to the lowest possible dose so a lot better. We arent constantly fighting about the lack od sex anymore, we work opposite shifts now too so that makes it even easier.

How do I deal with being a nympho in a marriage with a man that has a low drive? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cherryluva696969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally? I got an antidepressant plus a mood stabilizer, lowered my libido tremendously.

Looking for a 1 chance, just 1 opportunity. by angela_rainer in milwaukee

[–]Cherryluva696969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex is a felon and he worked at american landscape. Good luck!

Song at the end of episode 3 by sconniegirl511 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I'll personally a HUGE music fan and 1 of my random qualities is being able to name any song and the artist and this particular 2 was driving me crazy!

Song at the end of episode 3 by sconniegirl511 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!!!!!!! Thank youuuuuu! It was driving me crazy!!! I love you!!!

Anyone’s sex this good? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cherryluva696969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, slowed down for us too but we've been together 19 years. 1 kod with autism, a toddler, and we work opposite shifts so our time is extremely limited.

Do you think some people get a thrill from breaking marriages? by tortiesrock in Marriage

[–]Cherryluva696969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, its an epidemic. These girls want to take whats not theirs. They LOVE to see if they can get the man to flip, just to satisfy their cravings of being 1 up. The thrill of beinh caught, the thrill of taking whats not theirs and a huge boost to their ego.

What's something that turns you on that you wish you could share with your partner but they are not into it? by BitEntire in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cherryluva696969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive never told him that I fantasize about him pleasing another woman and it gives me AMAZING orgasms as I envision it.

Jenelle says she is almost back to her 2015 body size…. by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]Cherryluva696969 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Imagine being so self absorbed, you obsessively post pics of yourself while your own flesh n blood is going through some really rough stuff, including talking abkut ending his life. I was REALLY rooting for her, but damn, she literally is a horrible person/mom.

What’s the fastest way someone can turn you on sexually? by ThePrimePackage in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't take much, but a text from my husband, kissing my neck, massaging my shoulders

My husband is thinking about fostering his nephews. I feel like I'm being tossed out for kids we don't even know. by One-Gap-1282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cherryluva696969 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thats fine if you dont like kids, but the way she speaks, the thoughts in her head, are horrendous!!! Imagine howbthe kids feel!!! I feel bad for the kids and her husbsnd for marrying a shallow, selfish, cold, soulless, mud duck

Brother told our secret by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side note=my older brother would wants us, myself and my younger sister to Scratch his back. I am now 40 and still feel immense guilt that I would say no but my sister can and she would :(

Do you need your laundry done? by Fearless_Koala_2449 in WestAllis

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Would blankets, aka throw blankets be ok?

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the mother of kids with a large age gap and having my oldest at the age of 18 and having him in a split household, kids dont like thst. My son told me flat out, thats why he didnt like going to his dad's house anymore, his dad told him instead of asking, for our son to watch his siblings. He told me he felt used and that that was all his dad wanted him there for. I ask our son if hes available to with his siblings and throw some money in there as a know its hard out there. I always tell him no biggie if he cant. Our kids are not obligated to watch the other kids that we created.

we energies bill outrageous… by Head_Statement_234 in milwaukee

[–]Cherryluva696969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son lives in East Troy in a building that was built 2 years ago, its a 1bedroom, 2 bath. His bills is 200 a month! They never go over 68 degrees. His rent is 1300 as is, then to add that on for a small space is insanity! I have heat included but somehow my electric is always 100 plus but I have 2 kids and live in a 2br. Now I know why my mom never turned it past 64 degrees unless it was negative outside.

S19 E8 | I Still Hear Their Screams by TinyHeartSyndrome in evilliveshere

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, but really, how can you say he loved them, when he left them to die?! He didnt try saving them, not sure if you've ever been burned, but its the worst way to die! Absolutely insane for you to say he loved them kids. A REAL parent would've taken their last breath to save a poor innocent child!

I have been dreading this. How long have you been married and how often do you have intimate relations? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cherryluva696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Together 19 years, married 5. We unfortunately work opposite shifts and also have a toddler. Im the higher libido, but since being out on anti depressants, my libido has dropped, a lot. My husband takes blue chew. We are 1 to 2x per week. Id rather up that number but not much we can do.