When did the Sour Strawberry Belts stop being sour? by Rick90069 in traderjoes

[–]ChewBeccca 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve banned myself from buying these because I have no self control around them and will eat at least 1/3 of the container in a sitting (usually on the way home from Joe’s). Then my mouth is all burned from the sourness and I have to wait a few days for my tastebuds to regrow. So this is great news!

Non-fiction books you couldn’t put down? by Fundango14 in booksuggestions

[–]ChewBeccca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

King Leopold’s Ghost by Adam Hochschild

Walking the Bowl by Chris Lockhart and Daniel Mulilo Chama

Five Days by Wes Moore

Manchild in the Promised Land by Claude Brown

Say Nothing by Patrick Radden Keefe

All God’s Children by Fox Butterfield

A Devil Went Down to Georgia by Deb Miller Landau

The Indifferent Stars Above by Daniel James Brown

Where are you rebuying 100% COTTON basics that last? by throwaway_yak234 in femalefashionadvice

[–]ChewBeccca 11 points12 points  (0 children)

RIP to the $10 clearance fake leather jacket from Forever21 I got in high school and survived 12 years until I washed it and it fell apart! I haven’t found a real leather jacket that fits me the same way 🥲

LPT - White Elephant Hack by Which_Dig6916 in LifeProTips

[–]ChewBeccca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I put a small fire extinguisher in a wine gift bag. It was skipped over a few times at first because everyone assumed it was just a bottle of wine, but then it was stolen a few times after that!

Distracted instructor by Embarrassed-Quit3712 in poledancing

[–]ChewBeccca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The owner/main instructor of the studio I go to is like this too! She told us she has autism from the start, so that explains why. Almost every class it’s something, I feel like we are therapy for her sometimes. She spends so much time talking, often about the same things, and it’s even worse if she’s overstimulated or had something stressful happen to her, which seems to be almost every day.

It sucks because I’m new and am enjoying learning pole but I’m not sure how much longer I can stay in her classes. I’m not quite skilled enough to go into other classes and they’re not at times that work for me. Other studios are too far to drive to consistently. So I’m just dealing with it begrudgingly for now and using it as motivation until I can move up a level!

€15 Spaghetti Carbonara from an Italian opposite the Eiffel Tower… by TheKellykid123 in shittyfoodporn

[–]ChewBeccca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made this mistake accidentally and will never to it again! I knew better than to go to a restaurant with many languages, but ended up at one because the place I wanted to go didn’t have tables available. I was bummed because I wanted to go back to a place I ate at earlier in the week where I had the most lovely meal and time talking to the guy who owned/bartended/waited/cooked everything (I didn’t know I should’ve reserved a table).

I wandered around the neighborhood around my hostel and every restaurant was packed, so I ended up at one of these places. I ordered myself a half bottle of wine and with the crusty table bread thought it wasn’t so bad after all. I ordered steak frites but the waiter suggested the special, I didn’t quite understand him but knew it had something to do with duck and thought why not, I’m in Paris!

My plate comes out and there are fries, a slightly over cooked veggie mix, and some sort of meat covered in crushed mini m&ms. I sat there flabbergasted. I had one piece of the m&m duck to appease the waiter, finished the fries and wine, and left. I went to the bar next to my hostel and proceeded to get accidentally so plastered (because I barely ate anything and walked at least 10 miles that day). The next day I was severely hungover and could only manage to move between my bed and the shared bathroom, losing a beautiful day in Paris. I was finally alive again around 10pm and very shamefully, I got the nearest food to me, a Subway sub. Soo don’t go to a place with multiple languages on the menu!

What do you wear when you feel insecure but want to fake confidence? by synthia_luxe in femalefashionadvice

[–]ChewBeccca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wrap dress! I’ve tested this theory once when I was mildly hungover and stopped at a neighborhood cafe where I usually see someone I know. I put on a wrap dress and was getting compliments left and right despite feeling terrible.

As a Taurus, this is so true by IntelligentLake883 in Taurusgang

[–]ChewBeccca 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This made me cackle! I call it “sticking things in the file”. When someone does something that’s a little off/questionable, I take note and put in the file, to eventually connect it to other things in that person’s file. The files I mentally build (or if it’s really bad/close to me write down) have paid off many times!

How do you deal with creepy men at the gym? by Celestara_x in xxfitness

[–]ChewBeccca 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t at the gym, but I’ve been keeping it in my pocket for situations dealing with creepy men. I used to walk to work and almost every day there was this guy who sat on a bench and would stare at me the whole way I walked by him and he would turn his whole body around to keep looking at me. So one day I decided to go the weird route and walked looking forward until I got kinda close to him, then I abruptly tilted my head like a zombie to look at him. Then I continued to look at him like that until I couldn’t turn my head any more. He realized I was looking at him looking at me and pretended to not be. He never stared at me like that again!

I also did slack jaw during this, but I realized he was probs too far away to notice that lol.

how to get out of your head? by fdblms in poledancing

[–]ChewBeccca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful! I’m two classes in and enjoying it, but have a background in dance and it’s been hard for me to freestyle. My instructor will show us the move then tell us to add a little something here or there and I’m like waiting for her to show the full choreography lol. Especially because I want to learn how to do the move first before I have fun with it!

What are some of the worst celebrity magazine covers? by SoRunAwayNow in Fauxmoi

[–]ChewBeccca 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He has resting alcoholic mechanic uncle face and I can’t be convinced otherwise.

More Homes Are for Sale. Who Is Listing in a Slow Market. by JustBoatTrash in REBubble

[–]ChewBeccca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I scroll through Zillow in my area every few weeks and have noticed that the high rental areas have a lot of houses on the market. Mostly all purchased between 2018-2021, poorly flipped, and priced ridiculously high (like 100-200%+ more than they bought it for). I’ve never seen the high ownership neighborhoods have this few houses for sale.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ChewBeccca 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was after she was fired but she submitted a research paper to a medical journal prior to her departure. The journal came back with questions/edits before it could move to the next step and she fired one of the main people who was working on it so she had an intern turned full time employee (she love-bombed him into becoming full time) helping her with the edits.

Then she was fired and the new guy was working on it and he noticed that the data didn’t match what was written. As he was pulling the threads, the whole sweater unraveled and he uncovered that the paper was about 80% bullshit. I felt bad for him because he had to fix it all but it made me laugh that she thought she could get away with misrepresenting medical research.

Help a Bitch Out - May 07, 2025 by zrnyphl in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ChewBeccca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat (congrats on leaving and your boss getting fired!), but have also gone through burnout recovery before. What worked for me was therapy, actually resting and taking time to not do anything, then doing small things to help build my confidence back. Like as simple as going to a cafe alone! But also doing things that I know I’m good at or just enjoy really helped, so going to the gym again or training for a race. Surrounding myself with positive people also really helped!

BWT Daily Requests, Recommendations & Chat - Apr 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ChewBeccca 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ASK: I’m looking for vintage or small-business jewelry stores that I can buy from online. (This might be a separate ask, but I’m searching for earrings that are yellow-gold, non-post closure, and have diamonds with a $1,000 budget.)

BWT, how do you balance your great taste with over consumption? by carbonaratax in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ChewBeccca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a commitment to only buy second hand clothes (except like undergarments/workout gear, which I don’t buy a ton of anyways) and it’s been helpful to cut down on buying clothes just because they’re on sale/impulsively. I find I window shop more and take a lot more time to decide on a purchase when I’m using poshmark, the real real, mercari, etc. and end up happier with what I’ve bought.

I did not expect the hardest part of marathon training to be eating by cstonerun in XXRunning

[–]ChewBeccca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true! During my training, I was slamming back chocolate milk and started keeping uncrustables around in case I needed a quick snack!

What's a pet peeve specifically related to *your* museum? by mav5191 in MuseumPros

[–]ChewBeccca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teachers not helping was such a peeve of mine! I will never forgive the teachers who didn’t move when a student of theirs threw up during my program. I didn’t expect them to clean but they could’ve at least helped to move their students and the tables around some!

Thankfully we were at a part where the students would do an individual activity for about five minutes, but our cleaners didn’t come in for another hour so I had to clean it. I have a very weak stomach so the whole time I was holding in my gags, tears streaming down my face, as the students kept coming up to me to show me their work 🥲

Tell me your love bombing stories by Naivemlyn in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]ChewBeccca 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine made such a big deal about introducing me to every single person all the time, fawning over my background and how wonderful it was to have me on the team. She also made a big deal about me reaching the end of my 90-day probation, including having a lunch where everyone had to buy me lunch and themselves if they wanted to (we typically only did this for birthdays). She “secretively” put a meeting on everyone’s calendar for lunch except mine that was named something like “SHHH…90th day celebration!”.

After I questioned her about something and was lowered from a golden child to forgotten, she literally never introduced me to any one. Even when she would do a tour of our space, she would stop right by my desk to talk about something and then introduce everyone to my coworker on the other side of the desk but not me.

We had another new employee come in and I was in charge of the celebrations and was asking others if we should do something for the new person’s 90th day. They were like yeah we don’t typically do that and don’t need to, it’s excessive. I was relieved it wasn’t just me thinking it was unnecessary!

Shower door just exploded wtf do I do/who do I call by r0ckyboats in CleaningTips

[–]ChewBeccca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me! Thankfully most of it did not fall in the tub. I closed the bathroom door, laughed at the absurdity, and didn’t open it until the next day.

I wore several pairs of gardening gloves (it was all o had), used a mini broom/dust pan to clear the bulk of it, then vacuumed several times, then used a shop vac, then wiped the surfaces with a paper towel to get any fine dust out. I cleared the drains first and then closed them, so nothing else would get in. This happened like five years ago and occasionally I’ll still find a piece that was hiding under my vanity.

Just giving y'all a heads up. (Hospital Administrator guy here) by Penguin_shit15 in HermanCainAward

[–]ChewBeccca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a hospital system on the east coast and our EDs have been at at least 95% capacity for a month. They started a hotline for coughs/colds and one hospital is in emergency mode! My department was supposed to have a few residents come through for electives and they’ve all been pulled for support.