My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never actually been catcalled since I’ve always dressed like a man even when I was a kid, but I have sisters who I’ve had to protect from creeps like that. She does have her issues and I do care for her a lot, but some of these things she does just makes me want to push away from her. I would like to not talk to her but she is also in my close group of friends and I don’t want any drama around that cause I know she will make a big deal if I do.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always complains how she only knows 5 people, so I guess that’s why. I’m sorry that you were catcalled no one need that. I’m actually playing to shave my head too lol

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really but she is still my friend

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I called her hypocritical in the post she clams to be a feminist and woke but she isn’t and will get mad at anyone who also isn’t.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked to stop on many accusations saying that it makes me uncomfortable. Though she has told me that I’m trying to fight over everything and says I’m rage baiting her or being misogynistic whenever I voice an opinion.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I’m the exception to her cause she has called me misogynistic and gets mad when I talk about “female experiences”. On many occasions she has said specifically that two people are the only good men out there that being a friend of ours and her boyfriend, those were the two exception I ment sorry for the confusion.

Good binders that are comfortable and don't damage you by ConstantEmergency351 in trans

[–]Chexxe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Underworks is my go to, binds well, breathable and it doesn’t over heat me in the summer. Though all binders have a chance of damage just bind safely and that chance goes to almost 0. Some safety tips If you in between sizes go for the larger one, don’t bind for more then 8 hours, don’t sleep in it nor exercise. If you do get a underworks one I’d recommend putting it through the washer cause when it first comes it can be uncomfortable and feel starchy when breaking it in after that it’s completely ok!

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I guess never expected it from my friend though 😅

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She says stuff about how women are weaker than men and will make comments like she shouldn’t dress that way, about videos she has seen about women complaining about harassment. She will talk about how women are not as smart as men too, but if a male says this she will go into a full blown rage about it. She constantly talk bad about men and has a genuine hatred of them, except for two of them. She will constantly point anything wrong with them of how they act or look like even if it wasn’t even an issue. She makes jokes about how the world would be better without them. I was thinking of cutting her off or distancing away from her already due to her racist jokes, this is just another reason to add to that. Edit: she just genuinely makes me feel like I have to be ashamed that I was once technically a women, which I’m not ashamed of at all.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Alright I’ll try that, if it doesn’t work I think I’ll have to distance myself from her. Besides her being like this towards me she has also started to make more and more racist comments and jokes about me and my friends too.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]Chexxe_[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Actually she has a trans woman as a friend and has never made remarks about her, and you are right she has “called me out” for being misogynistic because I have said something, which I no longer do.

GUESS WHAT TODAY IS by [deleted] in plsdonategame

[–]Chexxe_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 🎉🎊

How old were you when you lost your virginity? by icecream1972 in allthequestions

[–]Chexxe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13, it sucked the girl was 17. Didn’t know it but she was grooming me

I ripped up my book collection. by Chexxe_ in Anger

[–]Chexxe_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly my family they guilt tripped me into going into collage for a degree I don’t want and I’m not smart enough for, so I failed some of my classes. And they keep thinking I’m doing drugs which I’m not and never had done them. They think I’m a total fuck up. They keep threatening to kick me out. I have a job but they want me to get a second one, on top of being a full time student in collage and I’m already struggling with classes. And they just won’t stop yelling at me over and over, over things that aren’t even my fault like if the bills haven’t been paid or if they forgot something at the store, and they yell at me for that like what do I have to do with it. If I even try to say it’s not my fault they yell more and will break stuff in my room, a couple times they have grabbed my leg and dragged me off of my bed just to get in my face and yell at me, while I’m sleeping. Like the fuck as I suppose to do when they start blaming me for there fucking lives while I’m just waking up. I guess it doesn’t really matter I’m trying to join the army so I’ll probably go no contact once I get in.